Do you really know when they are the "one" you want to spend the rest of your life together forever?
I mean do you really know?
2007-09-09 11:56:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I knew it from the minute I met her 26 years ago
2007-09-09 12:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Pengy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's the ONLY one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and still going strong after 10+ years.
2007-09-09 19:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. I dated from 5th grade on (not physically intimate, mind you, just always had a boyfriend). I almost always over-lapped boyfriends. ANd when I was with a boyfriend, I always had someone else in mind in case things didn't work out. I'm not saying this was ethical or right - I'm just baring my faults.
I remember the first time I realized with my husband "OH MY...I can't "see" past him". There's no back-up guy, there's no "when this doesn't work out". It's just him. It really jarred me!!!
It's when you really realize that you are in this for good - and that you're willing to change and evolve because no two people stay exactly the same. It's saying that you'll love them and stay true to your marriage vows - even during any lows you may experience.
I love my husband & I love my marriage vows.
Even when I'm mad at my husband or we're having a slump, there's something else to focus on - the vows themselves.
2007-09-09 20:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by iam1funnychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't. I made a mistake. I don't know who I should be with but not his person. Maybe nobody; that would be better I think. But, if I had to do it again, I would wait until I found the one who made me feel that way. I'm convinced that their are people who match up that way. Since that's the case, I could wait a lifetime to find her. That is, if I had two lives. As it is, it's not happy. It just is. I won't stray, since I still have to live with myself, but I wouldn't do this again either.
If you are wondering, and you are not 100% sure, I would suggest you just wait. Wait until you are sure. If it's someone else, you will all be happier.
2007-09-09 19:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by JustAskin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always have times when you question yourself - and then your spouse will do something that just melts your heart, and you just know you are where you belong.
I have been there through near breakups many times - we've gotten so angry and hurt each other so completely - and yet we love each other so much we always find a way to work things through and stay together. After 17 years, I know this is where I belong - and I wouldn't trade it for anything.
2007-09-09 19:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Ariana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they're are many different people you can "love" spend your life with. People fall in love all the time and out of love just as fast if the love isn't nutured. I don't believe in soul mates. I've been in love a few times and out of love and each time thought they were the one. Maybe I'm wrong but that's my experience and opinion.
2007-09-09 19:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by Wonder Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been in a healthy relationship with them for 1.5 years minimum and your love and respect for each other is still increasing, then you are in a position to "know".
When romance is in full bloom it is easy to "feel" like you know. Feelings are a pretty poor basis for good decision making, especially in the early stages of a relationship.
On the other hand, if you think you "know" they are NOT the one, you are probably right.
2007-09-09 19:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by ozzman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-09-09 19:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is vague. Trusting is trusting where ever your spouse may be it's having complete trust in him/her. If you can not trust your spouse why are you married to them in the first place? Yes I trust my husband 150 million percent because he trusts me that much and more. If you have intimacy on a mental, emotional, spiritual level you don't have to worry about where your spouse is or what he/she is doing they would let you know because they respect and love you. Let God be the center of your relationship between you and your husband and you will be please and satisfed beyond your imagnation.
2007-09-09 19:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, that is why they call marriage the leap of faith. Marriage is hard work....the key, never fall out of love at the same time....That seems to make sense enough.
2007-09-09 19:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by Frenchafied 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋