Well I AM married and I have a wonderful wife and she confronted me and told me people latly have been giving her dirty looks when she a the super market or target when out 3 year old son say mommy and i learned to ignor it but my wife cant seem to ignor itits not that she cares what people think of her!
im 18 and she 17 and we have a son what would you think
we are on birth control no and we DO love our so!
2007-09-09 12:41:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok all haters hate me /////dont care
i became a mother at 13....again at 16 again at 21
at 21 and the youngest one on the way bam cancer
all my life i faced the same but was never held my head low because of things
cancer chemeo no more kids
God gave me my kids because he knew my future
let me tell u tell ya as a very dear friend told me
thinks happen for the best /at that time you may not see the best in it but down the road yall see why!
and no iam not a holy roller havent been to church in 10 years
tell her to be proud to be a mother
in my case because we are closer in age than most we r also great friends because we faced the same generation
good luck
2007-09-09 12:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by southern65 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what other people say. My son plays baseball with 2 little boys who are 7 and 6 and their mom is only 21. I don't care how old she was when she got pregnant, the only thing that matters is that she is a good mom. She loves her sons dearly. If I saw the 3 of you in target I would probably walk past and say what a handsome little boy you have. I wouldn't talk about you being young. Gosh I get dirty looks at times for being so young and having children. I'm 27 and my son is 7 and my daughter is 4. Just ignore those people. They apparently have no class. Good luck to you both and have a great life!! Enjoy that little man, time flys by quick!!
2007-09-09 12:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Drea Z 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost the only people that count are Your Son, Your wife and You. The rest of the world has much more to think about that your situation. The two of You have chosen to take responsibility for your Child and by working together can build a great life. Never let others give you grief about being young. Be proud of taking control of your lives and tell your wife she should be proud. Most of the people that parade to church are hiding sins. Many go to church early to be given forgiveness for sins so they can sin again. The effort of raising a child when You and the Mrs are young are commendable. Look at how many young people lack the guts to work together to be responsible.
2007-09-09 12:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People are always gonna have their own opinions on other peoples lives..you just need to ignore them because it is your life and you are the one living it not them they dont have to go home to take of a kid..who cares just because you are young doesnt mean you cant be good parents..mistake or not a child is a blessing and there is a reason you had him..you can still be great parents and teach them a lot it may be harder but who cares as long as you guys learn together and teach him how to be great forget everyone else i personally dont care how old somebody i...age is in the mind not the years now with years you may be stronger and know more but it doesnt mean you cant be great parents..Best of luck with everything and ignore the people that stare Maybe you just have a really cute kid..
2007-09-09 12:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your 18 ? she's 17? and your son is 3? so she was what 14 when you knocked her up? damn thats young.The fact she is your wife and you have managed to stay together shows your a decent person and she's a decent person for keeping the baby , raising him and loving him.
Maybe its bugging her because she now realises what she sacrificed by keeping him , her education for 1 , going with friends her own age and having fun , which it seem's you both sacrificed.
I was 17 when I fell pregnant with my son I dont know if I could have kept him if I'd had him before that age I was 1 month off 18 when he was born.
Just keep telling her to look into that beautiful lil man's eyes and see his love for her shine through and that no matter what "society " thinks he's all that matter's now.
2007-09-09 12:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was a mother at 14, kept the baby you guys got married and are raising your son. Good for both of you. You will always find someone that doesn't like something you are doing. She needs to hold her head up high, look them in the eye and walk on. Most people don't like people to look them in the eye, because then they know that their opinion really doesn't matter. My husbands favorite saying" until you pay my bills, you have no right to have a say in how I lead my life."
2007-09-09 12:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to turn around and tell then that she looks great for her age.......
Seriously, tell her not to take it personally. I think you and her must be doing a great job and you should both be proud of each other. You would have had options open to you when you first found out about the pregnancy and you chose the right one, to love and care for each other and bring a wonderful little boy into the world
Tell your wife to hold her head up high and ignore those who want to act this way.
2007-09-09 12:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by blondy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would say that both of you are taking on a ton of responsiblity at an early age and my hats off to ya for taking care of your family at a young age. Most people in thier 40's cant do it, so keep up the good work..
If anyone offers you any help, take it when you can get it.
Good Luck
2007-09-09 13:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by nelppik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are happy and that all it matters. You are the good parents and that all it matters. Tell her wife that people look because they are jealous of your beautiful son and your happiness. You can be a great parent no matter what age you have. A lot of parents who are much older mistreat their children, so people should look and point fingers at them!!!
If your wife doesn't believe you, show her these postings. I am 26, I usually don't support young parents and early marriages but you sound happy, and that's all what matters.
2007-09-09 12:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by terliuke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being parents and married at a young age is tough - my best advice is that she not let it bother her. No, it won't be easy, but she'll be happier if she can manage it.
If she can't just ignore it, when they give her dirty looks, simply give those same looks right back. They have no right to judge and they'll see that in her eyes. She needs to be proud of her decision to marry you and raise your son together - that way she won't feel intimidated by those rude people who seem to think they are holier than thou.
Best Wishes and many blessings to you and your family.
2007-09-09 12:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Ariana 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋