Marriage & Divorce - 25 August 2007

That your husbands friends are supposed to keep an eye on you while your husband is gone on a trip or something to make sure no one touches you or trys to get with you, but then hits on you to see if you would stray from your hubby?

Because awhile back my husband was in New York on leave while I was still attending a school(we are both in the military), his one buddy would keep an eye on me tell all the guys to leave me alone at the club and then turn around and hit on me.

I asked my husband about this he says that's what guys do, because their friends will be the first to tell on you for something. I felt upset that he felt that he needed to have his friend test my faithfulness to him.

2007-08-25 06:15:25 · 10 answers · asked by Torey♥ 5

my age is 24 .decent lady and living in the any corner of this world .ask me latter about my life.hoping for the best.

2007-08-25 06:06:59 · 5 answers · asked by life of rose 1

i just want to know if there are girls get married to persons they don't love.........and more than that are there girls married to someone and she hated him before marriage?
and if that possible.........so why?...tell the reasons

2007-08-25 06:06:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband had other girl friends , and keep being mean to and so i met someone and he was so nice to me. i think i feel in love and now my husband want to be nice and work thing out but so many bad thing my husband hav done to me i don't think i can. what do i do.

2007-08-25 06:05:49 · 4 answers · asked by peanut 1

My sister married this guy about a year and a half ago , i thought he was cool .. but he seemed to be a jerk..first of all we are a mexican family and we would usually go to mexico and she fell in love with him..but then he came with a visa in 2003 and my sister ran away with him,,later came bak they got married and that when i think i started to see his true colors He gets his paycheck and wastes it on necesities,yea of course that,but he wastes it on his car as well like a zune speakers underlight a remote to turn on the car from far away..and almost every weekend he leaves at 11:00 PM to go hang with friends and drink then my cuzin (which knows him alot) told me he drunk ... and he called her saying "whyd u tell him balh blah.. and called her a *****..he also tells my sister to Shut the **** up but he saids he "plays around" no physical abuse tho , he lives in the same house i do ...he calls me a freak..and he has papers because my sister what should i tell her ..is ha an asshole?

2007-08-25 06:00:48 · 5 answers · asked by Chuy 2

I have tried asking her to limit her time on Yahoo answers. This is really putting a strain on our marriage. What should I do?

2007-08-25 05:56:22 · 17 answers · asked by tank murdoc 1

My husband got a job that took him away from home for 6 months. When he first left, he called and talked to me all the time and I could call and talk to him when ever I wanted, but after he was there about 2 months, one of his buddies went down to work also, well they ended up being roommates.
After that, my husband wouldn't talk to me on the phone unless he was away from his buddy or buddies, if I called him in his room or called him on his cell phone and he was with someone, he always told me he would call me back.
Usually when he called me back he was calling from out in the hallway away from everyone.
I told him that it hurt my feelings that he couldn't talk to me around anyone, he said that he just wanted our conversations to be privite, he also said that he didn't know why that would hurt my feelings.
We've been married for 15 years. Talking to each other around other people had never been a problem before this....
what do you think

2007-08-25 05:54:50 · 11 answers · asked by justwondering 1

He works out of town and stays there and comes home every 11 days for 4 days. I have always been suspicious of who he is around and what he does while there, and we've had many arguements over it. I would nag and b**** all the time.
Two yrs ago, while we were talking on the phone, I did my usual nagging and he said, i'm thinking divorce, I think I like being alone, and I want to be selfish and buy and have things I want. I asked if he still loved me and he said I don't know. Anyway, for about 3 or 4 months after that conversation he would still call every evening and come home as usual, BUT he didn't talk and wouldn't look at me. He didn't mention divorce again though. I simply made myself do a complete turn around and stopped nagging and suspicious attitude hoping he would love me again. He slowly came around and wants me to go everywhere w/him again and says I love you all the time again. Doesn't feel like he means it thought. He is still pretty distant. What could be going on?

2007-08-25 05:32:56 · 19 answers · asked by sm17 3

sorry all...yes 9yrs is ours....

i just want some advice...how to call it aday...and make him understand that i mean it....thank you

2007-08-25 05:25:21 · 9 answers · asked by claud 2

What happens if I'm not working ? or on a low income ?

2007-08-25 05:18:00 · 13 answers · asked by Me 1

My relationship with my ex-husband failed over a year ago. We have been separated since January and divorced since June. I have recently started seeing someone who has had quite a troubled past, but has taken serious steps to correct his life. Unfortunatley, my ex doesn't think that our daughter is in a healthy environment.

What can I do to better my chances of keeping the joint residential custody arrangement?

What do I need to do to prove that my new bf isn't a danger to my daughter?

Where can I find documentation (eg. other cases) to help me prove my point or gain a legal advantage?

2007-08-25 05:15:23 · 12 answers · asked by ala.nana 2

My mother is going to divorce my father; they've been married 23 years and have no prenup.The house and all the cars are in my father's name, and they have a joint bank account. I have brother who is 17, will be 18 in about 5 months.(I'm 21 so I figure the court won't bother with me) I know that you are a minor if your under 18, but since he's close, will that play a part? Also, my mother is a legal citizen, my father has a permanent residence card; will this play a part too?(They are both from Mexico)

What should my mother do to help her get the house and at least the car that she drives? Please give advice!

Thank you!

2007-08-25 05:14:22 · 7 answers · asked by Krista Aya 4

am in by 42 he is year younger....i have my own place.

i want to get on with my life...he is not saying anything...
so many times i have told him its finish..but he told seems to understand.... HELP

2007-08-25 05:08:55 · 9 answers · asked by claud 2

things im expected to do for my husband (from my culture and upbringing)
-walk 3 steps behind him
-not speak until spoken to
-not address him by his first name
-do all the cooking and cleaning (we both work fulltime)
-serve him dinner
-give him his evening bath. not as fun as it sounds with me outside the tub.

ive never questioned this its completely normal to me but i just wish sometimes the roles were switched around a bit and he could cater to me for a while. i dont know..we live in america so i dont understand why everything has to be so "olden days". sometimes i just want to be playful and have a friend and not have my husband boss me around all the time!!!

2007-08-25 04:43:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 6 years, we have always been best friends, but we were never balanced sexually. Once a month was fine for her and once a day isn't enough for me. After about a year of things going sour, she told me she wanted a divorce (right after I got news of being laid off).
We got seperated with a seperation agreement, but since neither of us could afford to move out, we split up the house and live in seperate parts. We still get along very well, we're still best friends, but now she wants to tear up the agreement and get back together.

The problem is I don't know if I can ever feel attracted to her again. I've been trying so hard and it's just not coming back.

While we were seperated I met a woman who has made me feel alive again, but is that real?

I don't know what to do.

2007-08-25 04:36:07 · 15 answers · asked by the_masao 1

i've been married for 20 yrs, in my late thirties, is it normal to have sex 2 - 3 times a week? my hubby and seem to still enjoy our love life, i thought people get bored after a few yrs of marriage or become less interest in sex!

2007-08-25 04:07:37 · 27 answers · asked by bec 3

I am a psych major, and was told be my prof to read "The proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Dr. Laura and write a paper on it...to those that have not read it, basically the author believes that men are easy to please and that we as women have neglected our men by not respecting them, ignoring them, placing our careers before family, etc... and that we have to cater to our men (cook, clean, sex anytime, compliment, etc)> a lot of people believe this is prehistoric nonsense and that the womens lib movement was the best thing for us... other people completely agree with dr. laura's views. what do you guys think?

2007-08-25 03:57:09 · 24 answers · asked by Addie 2

Right now I've been very focused on the wedding, but I want to keep in perspective and remember that in the long run, it's about the marriage, not about a big fancy wedding day.

What truly makes a marriage work? What keeps the love strong?

2007-08-25 03:50:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-25 03:38:36 · 14 answers · asked by Vennessa 2

What do you think if your lover told you, he want to spend his birthday with you. until the last mins, he decides to changed his plan with co-works... Do you think I should stop to seeing him?????? ended with this relationship...!!!!!

2007-08-25 03:13:29 · 19 answers · asked by back2future 5

I need to sell this thing. I dont want to deal with trying to get all the paper work from the ex.

2007-08-25 03:06:44 · 27 answers · asked by Matt D 2

I have become engaged to my wonderful boyfriend just last week.We are both 29. I am a virgin and he has past relationships but I accepted that. I am quite a moderate conservative and he grew up in a liberal environment but share the same Asian roots that's why he said he respects and understands me. I know he loves me so much. Now: When we are planning when our wedding would be, I had the impression that he wants to make sure if I was really, truly in love with him! He is very affectionate and expressive. I tell him I love him but he sounded not too convinced everytime and want me to reassure him. I felt he wanted to feel "bonded" to me in the form of sex. I want to wait until marriage but it seems that there will be no wedding date yet until we don't make love. How do I handle this? Even if I wanted to save the best for last, but thinking that we are engaged does this warrant that we can make love because we are good as married due to the commitment? Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-25 03:04:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need all details like age and all the other importnat things

2007-08-25 02:54:07 · 20 answers · asked by tony s 5

Married 12 years...never has been trust, intimacy, respect from my wife to me. She says she loves me. I have found another woman in last 8 months, but wondering if I should go back to my wife (she is willing to get back) and risk that she will indeed continue her old ways (which she said she would not) or move on with the new woman. the new woman and I have EVERYTHING in comman. I am thinking of moving back with wife because of the kids as well.

2007-08-25 02:43:32 · 9 answers · asked by Jason F 1

Both my family and my ex's family are in upstate NY. I have moved to 3 different states during the 20 yr marriage in support of his career. When I finally told him I wanted a divorce, plans to move home came to a halt. He is refusing me to take the 3 kids and move to where family is. The State of Illinois , in particular, Kane County is holding us hostage.

2007-08-25 00:47:06 · 9 answers · asked by hope 1

i have been in a relationship for 4 years i have one son who is 6 i have been not unhappy in my relationship but not happy. i don't know weather i love my partner. recently i had a relationship with one of his friends. my partner knew about it before it happened and was ok with it but when he relized i was kind of falling for his friend he put a stop to it. i'm mad at him and sad about a loss of relationship that i had with the other guy. i know my partner loves me and i think i want to try and work it out but i don't know what to do right now?

2007-08-25 00:39:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous