i just want to know if there are girls get married to persons they don't love.........and more than that are there girls married to someone and she hated him before marriage?
and if that possible.........so why?...tell the reasons
2007-08-25 06:06:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I didn't love my ex but I was knocked up and thought it was the right thing to do... BIG mistake!
2007-08-25 06:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is.
When some people get to a certain stage in their life, they feel like they are done with partying, and want to start a family. The problem is, they dont have a guy, so they would settle for the first guy that comes along. It doesn't really matter if she loves him as long as they get along.
A lovely story my mother told me about my parents "love" story. She says they were great roommates, but nothing more. She knew she was making a mistake the day of her wedding, but she married him anyway. It ended in divorce 10 years later, but it did last for ten years, because they were such good roommates. She didn't ever love him (yes, my mother is an honest woman, ha ha) which was messed up for him but she fit into his time line also.
He wanted to be married by 25 and start having children by 27. It is reasons like these that it is possible to marry without loving someone. We put to many constraints on ourselves and then think that we couldn't get much better, or not in the time that we want it at least.
2007-08-25 06:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not likely. Different cultures do different things. I know some people that have had arranged marriages that did actually end up in love because it their parents really thought out their choices. Love is not everything, but friendship and kindness is. No one wants to marry someone who acts like their parent, their child, or their worst nightmare. I never even went out with a guy I hated, let alone married him.
I wonder what makes you ask...
Hope you get the answer you are looking for.
2007-08-25 06:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah - it is hard and finding qualities that are nice about the person are easy - almost everyone has nice qualities. So it can work and it is very possible. Divorce rate is extremely high and I think that is because people don't know how to truly work at a marriage and seek the good qualities in their partner. I don't know, what is love? Do people ever have thoughts of ....I wonder what could be different?!?! I don't really know.........
2007-08-25 06:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by hawk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's limited to just girls. I believe that can happen to both male and female.
I don't know if anyone can marry someone that he/she hates, though.
I knew two couples that married because the girl got pregnant. I don't know much about the second couple. For the first couple, the girl pretty much married her ex. She used to complain to boyfriend (not her ex, the guy that she was dating when she cheated with her ex) about how she hated him and he'd abuse her. Then, he got her pregnant and they married. Wha-la!
I also know a woman that married her husband because her sister told her to.
I know a guy that married another girl because he got her pregnant; he was supposed to marry another girl who was his "girlfriend."
2007-08-25 06:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , in certain communities girls do marry men whom they dont love, but neither do they love anyone else. So their husband is the first man in their life.if this guyis a nice person, they fall in love with him after marriage , and he remains the only man in their life, for the rest of their lives.In these parts of world, sexual relationship is never allowed without marriage, so being married to someone is different from infatuations, its a totally diffrent life.
2007-08-25 06:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by sohana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I didn't marry for love. We married for compatibility reasons. We fell in love after we married and that was a bonus. It is common in both of our families to marry for reasons besides love. My parents, my grandparents, his parents, various aunts and uncles (on both sides) have done this.
2007-08-25 06:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that is possible. You will end up resenting the person you are with. You will be resentful every time they ask you to do something and every time you have sex. You would not have a very good marriage at all. I don't believe it would be a good thing at all.....sorry
2007-08-25 06:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sure there are gold diggers out there that marry for money, property and prestige, not for love.
2007-08-25 06:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes there are
They marry for many reason: pregnancy, money, loneliness, etc.
2007-08-25 06:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋