Marriage & Divorce - 30 June 2007

2007-06-30 16:23:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am having serious trust issues with my spouse. We have been married for over a decade and have several children together. I have not felt like this in the past. In the past 9 months, I have seen some changes in my spouse. I have confronted him about lying, texts and phone calls to a certain female co-worker, conversations regarding meeting females with his friends, and pornography. All of these events have been isolated and have been discussed after each event. I believe the trust between us has been broken. After discussions regarding each event, he swears that he loves me and our family and would never do anything to ruin it. I know he adores my children, but I am unsure about his loyalty to me. I considered a legal separation a few months ago, but then things seemed to be getting better again. He states that I have always been suspicious of his activities and I am just a jealous person. Any thoughts....

2007-06-30 16:22:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

We been married for more than 30yrs I found out last Nov that he has been calling her and her call him on his cell phone He told me they were just friend But Told him friends don;t call each other three and four times a day and keep it a secreat. He would go out side to have cig. and talk to her on the phone . Because we desided no smoking in the house any more. I confronted him about it told him he had to stop. well it hasn't and I don't know what to do. He says he loves me but I don't know any more. Need some to talk to Help

2007-06-30 16:13:24 · 13 answers · asked by mint7426 1

Im in a relationship or what ever you call it getting no where fast her father pays the rent I spend every dollar I make try to keep her happy she has no job were always broke she is 29 going on 17, says she loves me one day and hates the next says were really not compatable, but we do alot have fun sometimes but when she drinks shes a different person she drinks every day blames it on me treat me like shi# loves me in the moring and says what she wants out her mouth to me. I'm in love or just stuck with no were to go except out of town at my cousins house I have kids in this state, i love being a father I just wanted something to work feel like a jerk scared to be alone its easy to say go the hard part is doing it how can i leave or should i.................

2007-06-30 16:01:19 · 20 answers · asked by CJ 2

After we had our 3rd child my wife asked me to have a vasectomy, which I did. She's now pregnant with our fourth. She says somehow my vasectomy didn't work. Everyone else I know says she's been running around. I feel like a Jerry Springer guest.
She refuses to have a paternity test. I have to say in her defense that she hardly has time with 3 young kids to cheat. Threatening to leave in not realistic- I want to be with my kids so I ain't going anywhere?
I'd like some advice- what shoudl I do? No wise guy answers please.

2007-06-30 15:54:05 · 17 answers · asked by stains 2

want him badly and he was willing also. Would him being married stop you?

2007-06-30 15:47:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in relationships time and time again they just dont work i stayed only to hope things would work out the abuise i take mentaley is suprising to me Why cant i just leave some situations alone im old enough know to no right from wrong even other people have told me but it seem like i just dont get it ive have tried but when ever i get put out i come right back to deal with the bull shi? i have a child with this person not my first if over why wont i leave..................

2007-06-30 15:38:35 · 6 answers · asked by CJ 2

I usually have a very super high sex drive than my lady, who has a very low sex drive, that sometimes, drives me crazy up the wall [Sexually]. I am pretty much always hot for sex with her almost every other night, but she complains against me, she doesn't feel hot enough to have sex with me. She is always tired and complains, that she does not enjoy sex, with me every other night. It takes her approx. 2 weeks for her sex drive to recharge up, when it take me about 2 days to recharge. Is this normal? What are the best ways too get a woman interested in hot sex? I enjoy tons of super hot sex, but she is always ice cold, when it comes to sex in bed! lol Feels like I am having sex to a dead woman! Maybe she is depressed or something. Maybe she does not love me anymore.

2007-06-30 15:33:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

out with guys that were friends weve been through alot anyways i even put up with her stealing my money anyways should i be hurt that i wasnt her maid of honor or even bridesmaid like iam **** everything i put up with was for nothing

2007-06-30 15:25:16 · 8 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

2007-06-30 15:22:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just would like to know what I'm getting myself into!!!!!!

2007-06-30 15:21:07 · 9 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4

My need in help is in my marriage.... I have no sexual need anymore an its ruining my marriage serously !!!! What can i do to save my marriage...please help me...

2007-06-30 15:20:29 · 30 answers · asked by BOOBOO 2

do you think they still would have gotten married?

2007-06-30 15:12:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is very much a man's man to talk to but the last couple of years he has a hard time maintaining an erection when we start to make love and he prefers me now face down and he rubs between my *** cheeks until he ejaculates. Lately he has begun to grab me like I have seen men do in porn movies by the shoulder from the back during sex. Afterwards he rushes to the bathroom to clean up and bring me a wash cloth. He use to kiss me during sex but that stopped a couple of years ago too.
He has always had male friends and he now has one that I think is gay (never married, 45 and lives alone) that he works with but also comes to the house.
My husband also cooks, cleans and my gay friend says he is one gene short of being gay.

2007-06-30 15:00:20 · 17 answers · asked by chicago bully 1

I want my husband to buy me a new car it does not have to be right away.But when he does ,I want him to sign a letter stating that he will not take it from me.See when thing don't go his way .He gets mad and will take all my things from me.He has taken my current truck 2 times already.So I wanted him to sign it to show that he will not do it again.And I don't have to go through that again.But he said NO he is not signing it.I don't understand how he says he love me and has changed.

2007-06-30 15:00:17 · 18 answers · asked by cash07 1

2007-06-30 14:58:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here are the facts or statements made and after hearing them you decide. My girlfriend and I have a child together. She has been divorced for 4 years and has 2 kids from this previous marraige. Here are the things that are done or said.
1. I just realized (after our child is born) that I am not over the pain I felt from him leaving me and taking my family away with out warning, but i am over him.
2. I never loved him or felt anything close to the feelings I have with you.
3. I cant marry you right now until I fix some things in my life and get them right with God.
4. I dont know why I cant stop this resentment toward his new wife.

Facts.
She moved in with me when I got a job change but moved out less than 2 months later "because she chouldnt be so far frm her kids" Funny that is what was forced on me when she moved. Know, I know how I feel, its just that she insists that she wants to be with me forever and her dream is to be married to me someday, just not now. U decide

2007-06-30 14:37:00 · 16 answers · asked by drbrian247 2

Marriage to me has be traumatic...it’s like a bad evil word and I don't like having that label anymore.

Can I go see the judge and say..."look dude, I don't want a divorce because well, that sucks...but maybe a downgrade of some sort so I'm no longer married...that'd be greeeat"

Just like that.

Then I think I’d be happy...no more marriage label or silly rules.

Thanks.

2007-06-30 14:28:22 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3

My son lives in Miss. He has a daughter that is 9. He has been paying child support and has not seen his daughter in 6 months. When he calls to get to see his daughter, the ex will not let him.He even has to pull teeth to get to talk to her. The daughter tells my son she loves him and wants to see him. This leaves my son crying and heart broken. The divorce papers say that my son gets his daughter every other weekend.

What are the steps that he can take to get to see his daughter and to make sure she follows the divorce decree.
Seems like she is in contempt to me.

ANYONE KNOW THE LAWS IN MISSISSIPPI?

2007-06-30 14:24:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

No way...my whole entire life am I going to last through the marriage curse.

I've barely made it 10 years....thats enough punishment i think.

To get married for life...sounds like you commited some kind of dreadful crime and have to be sentenced "for life".

2007-06-30 14:14:52 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3

and you could only save one. Would you save your spouse or child?

2007-06-30 14:13:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

less than a year after you broke up?

2007-06-30 14:11:30 · 21 answers · asked by Janice 4

In fact, its America's favorite pastime...better than baseball....and its a game.

but then after marriage...everybody gets all bent out of shape like its the end of the world?

Why is it such a big deal where you go to get your freak on after marriage?

It's like the priest puts a spell on the promiscous wemen to make them get upset x100 if the husband gets some side action because she got booorriiing.

2007-06-30 13:59:38 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

he doesnt think I can stay sober for 9 months. What do I do? How do I convince him I can be a good mother?

2007-06-30 13:43:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-30 13:42:58 · 33 answers · asked by kittymom28 1

be done and what kind of penalty will be given to the man? This is a case of desertion.

2007-06-30 13:23:59 · 8 answers · asked by Just me 2

If you have, what happened to the marriage? Were you able to pull through it or did it destroy it?

I want to know if there are actually situations where someone was betrayed but somehow the marriage was still salvaged and maybe even turned out better then before....

2007-06-30 13:23:53 · 17 answers · asked by Katia 3

My best friend started going thru divorce last year. We spent alot of time together, have seen each other at our possible worst and have cried to each other about our past relationships. A few months into his divorce, we took it a step further and started dating and then things because serious. Then I moved away for the past 8 month and we have been maintaining a long distance relationship. Now that the divorce is final and everything is settled, he wants me to move in with him to see how things go for us. I am also divorced and we have had a talks about future marriage and right now, we both agree that its nothing we want to rush into. We want to know its right the "next time." We both have children from our previous marriages. They get along great. However, my biggest concern, even tho I spend day in day out with this guy before we got involved, we have never disagreed or argued. I am afraid this will change when and if we move in together. Is it time to do this?

2007-06-30 13:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by chassie81 2

I just recently found out about a month ago that my husband was having an affair with someone on our job. This lady had the nerve to come to our home and tell me that she's in love with my husband, and he's been lying to both of us. They have been together for a year and a half. My husband says he sorry, but he's really not showing it. He told me that he wants to be with me, but he still has feeling for this hoe!! He says that he does love her, and I don't think I can deal with that. I have been really depressed and don't know what to do. We have four children together, a home, and a marriage of five years. I really can't stand both of these hoes right about now. I have never cheated on my husband and feel that he has disrespected me to the highest level of direspect. He couldn't even tell me the whole truth about the relationship, she did when she came to the house. He says he has not been talking to her and does not want to be with her anymore. Is he still trying to cheat on me???

2007-06-30 13:13:25 · 42 answers · asked by Sexy Seductive T 2

I have a friend who just got married & she's bisexual & she wants my other friend to be in a relationship with her & her husband & be faithful to them. If you're sleeping with somebody other than your husband/wife, then you're cheating, right? She can cheat but wants my other friend to be faithful to both her & her husband.

2007-06-30 12:55:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous