How do my wife and I approach another woman to participate in a 3-way?

Answer 1

I'll do it!

;-)

Answer 2

We see this question or a variant about once every couple of days. Half the time, a couple has had one of these three-some deals. Here's a rundown of problems caused by them I've seen posted here:

1. Wife runs off with the woman.
2. You both get herpes and/or genital warts.
3. Other woman gets pregnant, sues you for child support.
4. You wife decides she wants to have second guy for a change. The guy wants to poke YOUR butt instead of hers.
5. The people you work with find out, and turn a cold shoulder to you.
6. People that engage in this stuff are on society's fringe, and are deviants. Some become stalkers. Some steal your identity and stick you with huge bills and messed up credit.

The biggest problem of course is it totally changes the dynamic of the marriage. The next question we will get from you is about your divorce. Don't be another stupid guy, doing stupid things to mess up your life. You didn't mention if you have kids, but if you do why not ask if this is OK with them? After all, they are the ones that are going to really pay the price. The purpose of marriage is to create a stable environment to raise children in. You will NOT have that if you engage in deviant sex with strangers. You will not be able to control where it goes, and it will go somewhere you don't want it too. Grow up, use your brain.


Kent in SD

Answer 3

You know one that you want to have might want to get with ,you and your wife. Hint to her and throw a few hint's around, she'll know what your wanting. Why do you want a threesome, you wife isn't enough or your not enough for your wife. You start that and I wouldn't guarantee that your marriage will last.
If I was married and my husband ask me to do something like that, then the marriage would be over right then. When you marry someone your not suppose to want sex with other people if that is the case then you need to break up and find someone new , I don't think anyone really loves someone and would watch them having sex with someone else, no way.

Answer 4

Pull up to a curb of prostitutes, hold some money out the window and you will not have to worry about this problem again. You may, however have to worry about being arrested for solicitation.

Really, keep it between you and your wife. Third parties usually complicate if not destroy a loving committed relationship.

Answer 5

look for an add in the newspaper "the Village" you can find this in the city (NY,NY) there are lots of couple or single person that like to participate in this ,personally I don't , but I respect what you guys like. well than make sure that this person is healthy you know (what I'm talking about.) some visit to the doctor won't hurt nobody .and then good luck. I hope that this do not hurt your marriage.

Answer 6

Have your wife do the talking as first, if the other girl is interested than that breaks the ice?

Answer 7

You don't. You will be committing adultery and it will ruin your marriage. You should be ashamed of yourself for even considering such a foul sin.

Answer 8

How long are you married? Your wife doesn't satisfy you? If you ask me, you are playing with fire.

Answer 9

You can't be serious as this is marriage and di-
vorce section, not solicitation section.

Answer 10

Marriage is a covanent with God, if you play with fire, you will get burnt......Jesus loves you so much that He died for our sins.

Answer 11

...ask her!
or rather let your wife do the seduction
dont befriend her,
let it be purely physical
even better if she dont speak english
body language works best
enjoy
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