out with guys that were friends weve been through alot anyways i even put up with her stealing my money anyways should i be hurt that i wasnt her maid of honor or even bridesmaid like iam **** everything i put up with was for nothing
2007-06-30 15:25:16 · 8 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you should be hurt...but not just for this. take a long hard look on your friendship with her over the years. isn't it a bit obvious that she uses you for her gain? stealing your money? you putting up with her shhit? seems like you've always been the giver in the friendship....why should things be different now? find a friend who really appreciates you and is willing to give a little something back to you.
2007-06-30 15:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by moodymomma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Evidently the two of you had a parting of the ways and are now no longer close friends. If you expected something because you put up with her then you put up with her for the wrong reasons. She doesn't owe you anything and you don't owe her anything.
2007-06-30 22:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you still close.. if not rethink what you are feeling . if you are... i would be a little hurt and i would confront your friend. but also, did you only put up with her for years, just so you could be her maid of honor? i wouldnt think so... wasnt it because you were friends. if you are hurt ask her why she didnt choose you ?
2007-06-30 22:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by KayKay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes childhood friends don't make the cut.
People grow up and get new friends. Don't take it personally...at least you won't end up with a dress you can wear again....LOL
2007-06-30 22:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You weren't a friend, you were a doormat and were used. And you wonder why she didn't choose you?!
Stop living to serve her and start living for YOU. Drop her and get on with your life.
2007-06-30 22:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not the friend you are
2007-06-30 22:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by PASSION 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no just be happy that she is happy
2007-06-30 22:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by The Midnight Captain 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
damn straight! b*tch slap her.
2007-06-30 22:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋