Marriage & Divorce - 24 June 2007

what would you do or say if your husband told you that you can have sex with anyone you want as long as you come home to him? Would you do it? Does he not trust me?

2007-06-24 15:34:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am divorced and kept my ex-husbands last name because we have a daughter together. I would sign my legal name on legal documents of course.

2007-06-24 15:09:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this a very touchy subject in some areas but I am truly wondering if the option of homosexuals getting married should be debatable. Do you think that the government should have the right to decide weather or not it is ok?? If it is ok for the straight couple why cant the gay or lesbian couple get the same rights??

2007-06-24 14:41:41 · 11 answers · asked by MiSs. BeHaVe 1

2007-06-24 14:37:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

should I marry a rich man?

2007-06-24 14:12:08 · 32 answers · asked by phccchick 3

We been merried for 18 years with 3 kids, and we love each other and we make daily love. But I saw my wife allowing the land lord to come in the house and offer him food and coffee! She told me that he likes her, but no fisical contacts, and he is a good freind!! Shall I beleave her???

2007-06-24 13:40:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

about going out on girls night without telling me and she got very defensive and packed her stuff and went to her mothers with the kids(i didnt blow a gasket when i asked) Now i have never been jealous have been very trusting of her and we have been married for 9 years. She seems to have girls night out about 2x a month now, there seems to always be a reason to celebrate with her co-workers. Now i have been trying to do things with her lately and she always has an excuse of why we cant.I just started working afternoon shift till 1 a.m. and she was planning to go out and not tell me and just be back before i got home. i think this is not acceptable, and she has been hiding other things lately and got a payday loan without telling me. she said she needed to pay bills but no money was deposited from it.........opinions please

2007-06-24 13:19:21 · 20 answers · asked by iwonder??man 2

2007-06-24 12:32:23 · 19 answers · asked by broken heart 2

2007-06-24 12:26:32 · 9 answers · asked by broken heart 2

Go down on me? We've been married for 3 yrs now and he won't do it. I go down on him. He said he tried it once when he was a teenager (about 10 yrs ago) and didn't like it. Any suggestions?

2007-06-24 12:24:06 · 27 answers · asked by lippy 3

My parents have been married for 15 years, and I've always seen them fight (Verbally, not abusively) and it always seemed like they had a strained marriage. My mom would always yell at my Dad for somthing he did, and I used to think she'd just over react to everything, but as I've gotten older I've found out some pretty sick things. He was married before, he had a drug problem, he looks at porn behind my moms back, etc. And this was shocking because we are like an example of a perfect family. So recently, my mom found porn on our family PC. Now my mom is dicussing divorce. Now theres basically a battle between my moms side of the family and my Dad's side, and of course, now I view my dad as a total creep. I told my mom it would be better for me and my brother (whos 11) if they stayed together till were out of the house. Now I'm starting to doubt that, and I'm uncovering even more lies. Do I tell my mom to leave him? This would be financially horrible to us. What do I do?

2007-06-24 11:56:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-24 11:40:35 · 6 answers · asked by Brenda 1

2007-06-24 11:35:20 · 15 answers · asked by Brenda 1

I 'm Katie,38 yrw old and my bf is 27.At first,he thought i was 26-27 as i look very young but after i month of dating i told him my age.He was shocked and very disappointed(he even checked my ID)and,first, he asked me to break up.Later,he said he was confused but he didn't want to lose me.Before,he presented me to his friends,his family knew about me,we spent 2 much together and we match mentally and sexually.It's been a week since he learnt about my age and,although,we continue together,he's somehow distant.He says that he found out sby to match in every way but this age gap is big issue and he can't see this ending to a marriage.I spent this weekend in his house ,mostly, to find out how things are going now.He has changed a little bc of this,as he said.All these days,he keeps saying that 1 day we'll break up for sure bc of the age gap.I don't know if i have to give him sometime to realise what he wants or to stop seeing him.

2007-06-24 11:35:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The question is list any gifts you have made without the consent of your spouse in the past 24 months. I gave money gift to my nieces and nephews. Should I list it? What's the advantage of listing it or not listing it. How would that help or not help my divorce?

2007-06-24 11:20:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you do if every time you try to show or talk about something that you think is important for you to your brother he always says no?
I feel so bad about that.

2007-06-24 11:15:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok. it is a long story..but just listen. I have this male friend. he is married. BUT i knew him before he got married. we had feelings for eachother..but then we lost touch. wella couple months ago we ran into eachother. i gave him my number..we would talk on the phone. he called me last night bcuz his wife is out of town and he wanted me to come over. I am not trying to be a homewrecker..so please no mean things about that. but i told him i couldnt go over there..he was acting really paranoid bcuz he knew he was doing something wrong. he was like well i will talk to you later.i was like ok. then i sent him this text message "Listen, dont call me. I care about you ALOT. I always have..but I dont want to ruin anything with you and your wife.Im sorry, just dont ever call me again." And as soon as i sent that..he called. I didnt answer it...but he called a second time. so i answered it. he asked me why i was being like that. He cares about me too and that he would call me 2morrow..

2007-06-24 11:12:20 · 28 answers · asked by Shannon 1

After I found out that my wife was cheating and had posted a profile in several dating websites. I dumped her ASAP and the divorce is well in process. Within a month after the breakup she was already in a serious relationship with yet a different man. My daughter said to me they’ve been going for trips to the casino with this new guy, my daughter and my Ex-wife’s parents. NOW! Is it ethical to have my daughter sleep in the same bed with this guy and my Ex in one bed and her parents in the other bed at a hotel room?
Legally can I stop this behavior, do I have the rights to demand this guy’s background info in the state of Mass for the best interest of my 4 yrs old daughter's safety. Obviously this relationship seem not right?

2007-06-24 10:57:23 · 35 answers · asked by sprinkler747 2

I was wondering if any of you would see your SO as "damage goods" and leave him/her because of it?

2007-06-24 10:56:41 · 7 answers · asked by Sam 1

Only a light hearted question so don't take it to heart, just wondered ?

2007-06-24 10:50:36 · 29 answers · asked by pups 5

i'm divorcing my husband on the grounds of adultery and have 3 kids from him, but all of a sudden, just out of spite he has asked me to do a DNA test which i don't think i should have to considering it was him cheating on me while i was hospitalised for one year wtih post natal depression. He is now saying to do the test to be cruel and because my youngest child has a sickel cell trait, that i made a my husband aware of and made a fuss over and also nither of us have. But this can still skip genrations and i was faithful to my husband. can the law make me do it even if he put in a request and i refuse as he is denying the son who loves him and this is so painful?

2007-06-24 10:47:17 · 15 answers · asked by cleopatra 1

2007-06-24 10:39:14 · 25 answers · asked by . S 2

My daughter married a tunisian in tunisia 4 yrs ago but it wasnt registered in the uk, is her marrige valid in the uk.

2007-06-24 10:28:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

B/F takes good care of children. They are teens and spoiled. B/F is Jewish and celebrates both holidays with us, puts tree in his house for us and have christmas gifts etc.This year we ALL took Xmas cruise. Sometimes I feel picky and ungrateful as I would not have traveled, dined, or been entertained, if it was not for him. As previous post says I ALMOST live at his home. I now want marriage but he recently stated is comfortable as is FOR NOW. Then the vacation came up with kids. He said it was budget, perhaps kids didn't want us along, if so I see it as a bad sign. Should I?
I am fighting resentful feelings and looking for negative issues.My inability to give same things to my son is very humiliating now especially during summer. I had opportunity for free lodgings in great mountain cabin, but his kids didn't want to go. Sadly I could not go without shared gas cost etc.
I am seeking 2nd job which will help and B/F encourages me even tho it means no time for "us". Am I blind?

2007-06-24 09:35:51 · 7 answers · asked by haroldhark 1

we have a three year old daughter?

2007-06-24 09:35:26 · 24 answers · asked by Robert G 2

2007-06-24 09:27:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-24 09:24:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

A men can only reach orgasmo by foreplay.

2007-06-24 09:20:03 · 10 answers · asked by susy 1

She is a house wife by choice, who complains about being stuck at home with the kids all day. SHe then complains that she has no adult interaction all day and when I get home from work I don't talk to her. She also complains that I don't help out enough around the house, but I get 2 of the 3 kids ready for bed everynight, I have a full time job which more than provides for my 5 person family, mortage payment, 2 cars, and all the extra crap she could ever want. money is never an issue so she spends as she pleases...

WHY IS SHE COMPLAINING ABOUT HER LIFE????

I told her to put the kids in day care if she's can't "handle it" and go back to work, she is educated and would have no problem finding a job.

so basically, I dont appreciate her house wife duties enough...I don't talk to her enough and she gets mad when I expect her to keep the house clean and change the babies diapers....

again, it was her idea to be a house wife...thus, its her job to take care of this stuff, right?

2007-06-24 09:18:16 · 20 answers · asked by Colbert Nation 3

I have a friend who got engaged after only dating for a month or two. I'm afraid that they decided to get married when they were still in the lovey dovey phase, and now it seems to be waring off. Before he proposed, she was very affectionate, and now she's not anymore, and says that that's just the way she is. She just seems totally wrong for him. He wants constant affection, someone to cook for him, and he loves the outdoors and the heat. She seems cold and distant, isn't very affectionate, actually told her friends that he's a big kid who needs to grow up, she doesn't cook, she owns a restaurant, but won't even bring food home,works the opposite hrs that he does so they never spend time together, hates the heat. This is her 1st marriage & she's 40 and wants kids. It's his 3rd, he's 48, and doesn't want kids. I'm afraid she just sees this as her last chance. I want 2 b a good friend, but I'm not sure that supporting the marriage is the best way. He's been hitting on another woman too.

2007-06-24 09:14:08 · 25 answers · asked by Julie 3