We been merried for 18 years with 3 kids, and we love each other and we make daily love. But I saw my wife allowing the land lord to come in the house and offer him food and coffee! She told me that he likes her, but no fisical contacts, and he is a good freind!! Shall I beleave her???
2007-06-24 13:40:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After 18 years why in the world are you doubting your wife? Maybe your just looking for a reason to leave her, I would say this is minor just because she offered the landlord some food and coffee. Get over it.
2007-06-24 14:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your eyes on him. Have you seen the DVD called "The Maintenance Man? It will wake you up to what can happen when landlords and apartment maintenance people exercise their use of keys to gain access to womans homes. Your coffee and food, too huhI wonder what else she is throwing at him when you turn your back? Good Luck!
2007-06-24 20:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by MissBadto_ the bone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big deal, she invited him in for coffee, she is just being hospitable. if she told u that she likes him and that she isn't interested, believe her! a woman who cheats wouldn't be so honest about it. she is telling the truth. don't be so paranoid about it and just appreciate your wife for her loyalty to you and for being hospitable and friendly to friends! if you're still uncomfortable, gently explain to her why u have a problem with her and the landlord. u have been married 18 years, so have a little faith in her. marriages usually don't last half that long, so good luck
2007-06-24 20:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so not telling the truth. You have THREE kids and married 18 years and make love DAILY.........You are SO not telling the truth........
Sorry, but with three kids LIFE gets in the way from time to time
2007-06-24 20:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a landlord , he can afford to buy coffee n food why he will come in ur house ? then ur landlord wants more, tell ur wife u dont want her to be so generous , to be generous only in poor people , be careful , or else , ur kids will be the poor soon
2007-06-24 21:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by carmelite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe your wife but tell her that the landlord is forbidden to come into your house if he needs coffee and food let him stop at a resturant before he comes to work
2007-06-24 20:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by Chericher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think should tell her you are not comfortable with him coming over to see her. If your relationship is a good as it seems to be she won't want to do anything that may upset you! But if you don't talk to her about it, she will never know how you really feel
2007-06-26 11:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by jewells28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you believe her...if though a woman flirts it doesnt mean she is cheating ..it just means she gets all hot and bothered by the fact someone else notices but then brings it into your bedroom and takes it out on you...Be blessed...Lets foreplay work for you.
2007-06-24 20:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes believe her... women are different from men... we are not as quick to jump into the sack and cheat (no offense to you OR the non cheating men) But women can and DO have men who are friends. so really, trust your wife. and enjoy your marriage. if my marriage lasted 20 years with daily love making i would treasure it dearly.
2007-06-24 20:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by who are you anyway?? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, you've been married 25 years and 20 years, and what happened to that 4th kid? Also, your intentional misspellings are ludicrous.
2007-06-24 20:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by punxy_girl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋