Marriage & Divorce - 24 June 2007

2007-06-24 04:03:04 · 21 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

I am a 28 year old, happily married mother of one. Here's my problem....I can't get enough sex. I'm not obsessed to the point where I think of cheating on my husband or anything like that. I just can't seem to satify my sexual appetitie. We have sex 2-3 times per week, but it's just not enough. I've had men break up with me in the past simply because they couldn't keep up with my sexual needs. My husband loved it at first...he looked at the situation as a challenge. For the first 6 months of our marriage, he had no problem keeping up with me. After that, he needed days to recoup and I would get angry because I felt that he knew what he was getting into. We went to counseling and the counselor said that there was nothing wrong with either one of us and that we just needed to a compromise when it comes to sex. Here we are three years later and I'm still not getting what I need. A friend of mine suggested that we become swingers, but we've always been monogamous. Any advice?

2007-06-24 04:01:40 · 20 answers · asked by faith_in_justice 1

me and my ex split up 5 months ago and he is with a 19 year old girl .
i hurt me at first cause i spent 10 years with this man and he left us 4 a child
now its at the point were i just want him 2 be a dad 2 his kids
and he sould of picked them up yesturday so i could go 2 work so i can still pay the morgage that he as left me with and wont give me any money for my childrens upkeep
and rang me just before i was going 2 work and said i cant have them 2 day sorry
i was angry y did he call sooner so i could get myself an babysitter i got angry and called my sister and she told me that he was in the house with all her friends an her and that he really wernt working i lost it and went around there in the car and smashed his girlfriends car window as he doesnt see his kids no more cause he is only interseted in her and partying /his mum is away on holiday/ so he has all young girls in there. am i going mad should i just finally get away from him as when i was with him he made me sad

2007-06-24 04:01:19 · 11 answers · asked by HAYLEY K 2

2007-06-24 03:55:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who should take the lead role in a home? the Husband or the Wife?

2007-06-24 03:53:44 · 15 answers · asked by Kiwigal247 2

2007-06-24 03:43:36 · 32 answers · asked by adodge0430 1

2007-06-24 03:37:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I speak to my husband about our problems and refer to a confersation I had with my friend about my problem, he get s really angry with me and asks me, how can she(my friend) help and give advise, look what her relationship is like. Is he right? I like helping people, but my life is a mess. Does that make sense?

2007-06-24 03:35:47 · 7 answers · asked by Ella 2

I legally set child support in the Dominican Republic with my Ex- wife, now she lives in the US. Can she request child support from the city she is now simultaneously?

2007-06-24 03:32:14 · 8 answers · asked by lpelaez 2

i got pregnant last july, baby is 3 months old now, my husband has not been intrested in sex for around 11 months, i was not bothered at first with being tied etc with having the new baby now baby nearly sleeping through so im not as tied i want my sex life back i have taked to my hubby he says nothing is wrong he still loves me he feels ok as it is ???? also i have 2 teenage sons which makes it even harder to get my sex life on track you know that one oh no mum & dad dont do that anymore im getting really un happy about this any ideas out there for me.

2007-06-24 03:31:01 · 25 answers · asked by HEATHER L 1

2007-06-24 03:28:16 · 5 answers · asked by goodness 3

My husband and I have been married for over 8 months. We dated for 5 months and ran away. It was impulsive but we were in love. I am a Christian and thought he was too. I have found in the months to follow our vows that he is not the person I thought he was. I saw him with so much potential, someone who would always be there for me, be my best friend. Since that misjudgment, he has hurt me physically, emotionally, spirtually and my heart is heavier than I thought could be possible. I've tried marriage counseling, he wont go. I've tried being patient and hearing him out but all I hear is how he doesn't care anymore. I've tried being quiet and he pushes me aside unless he wants something. He calls me names and says I deserve it because I anger him. He doesn't go to church anymore, he doesn't look me in the eye either. I want to just leave, flee from my suffering, but I want to stick with my vows as a Christian. Would my heavenly Father want me to stay and cont. to disappear or to free me

2007-06-24 03:24:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

A know a girl who at age 18 had a 2-year relationship with a 35-year old married guy. She was hoping it would lead to something permanent. At age 20, she dropped him and had a 2-1/2 year relationship with a 54-year old married guy and she was hoping this would lead to something permanent. Partway through this second relationship, she met a 52-year divorced guy, who has lots of money. He wined and dined her and about 6 months later, she dumped guy #2 and hooked up with guy #3. Within 2 months they were engaged and 9 months later were married. What would drive a woman to pursue these older guys? Super gold-digging? A total lack of insecurity? Trying to figure this out. Do you see the marriage lasting more than a couple of years?

2007-06-24 03:20:03 · 11 answers · asked by Tiger 1

2007-06-24 03:13:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, my husband and I have been married for about 6 amost 7 months. He was in basic training with the army and during his christmas leave we got married. When he graduated he got on a plane to go to his duty station and met a woman and sent her dirty pictures and was talking to her and everything, I quickly got that to stop. My husband then made a myspace account and found an ex girlfriend, they exchanged dirty pix, emails and everything ( i have those pix and emails) I also have the emails between her and myself. My husband then continues to get in contact with alot of his ex's and just "talks" to them. Well at the end of may he starts going out ALOT and meets this girl Melissa and i dont know what they did but everytime I found a text or a call to her I called her and she threatened to beat my ass because of it. Him and I have since separated and there is alot more than mentioned. But I want to know if i can sue on these grounds. Also he gave me an std and HPV. does anyone know?

2007-06-24 03:12:28 · 10 answers · asked by majesticgirl85 1

a) how are household responsibilites shared between you and him?

b) ballpark frequency for intimacy, please....

c) any comment you'd like to make as to why your relationship is healthy, happy, and working...

2007-06-24 03:09:38 · 12 answers · asked by Puresnow 6

Last night i emailed my ex to ask him something, we were emailing each other then like he always does he goes i thought we had agreed not to email each other? then this morning i got a reply to my last email i sent him and we were emailing each other a bit this morning, i mentioned how he went for me because i am younger and i think he got annoyed then and goes can you change the subject please or just dont talk! i dont understand why he continues to email me back when he goes i thought we had agreed not too?! does he really mind speaking to me? we used to get on so well and it seems a shame!

2007-06-24 03:08:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

in regards to shared household responsibilities.

I think most men know to take the trash out. Are you one of those guys who needs a reminder?

I think most men expect they will mow the lawn....

is there any other activity of daily living that you anticipate being responsible for?

ie: grocery shopping, managing the finances, cooking, doing the dishes, doing the laundry, changing diapers, etc...

2007-06-24 03:05:19 · 7 answers · asked by Puresnow 6

2007-06-24 02:57:20 · 11 answers · asked by Seema S 1

my soon to be ex played the perfect person on the outside. bible studied, said she believed in god, went to church, volunteered, works in a helping profession with kids but....and this is a big but...behind closed doors she was the nastiest person i've ever met. no one would ever believe it on the outside. i heard more foul mouth garbage and was subjected to her throwing things at me and abuse behind closed doors. so was her daughter and my kids. she hated her mother because she said her mother tried to be perfect to the rest of the world and yelled and dragged her through the house by her hair when she was a little girl. she became what she hated and she didn't even know it. anybody else married to someone like that? wasn't it hard to convince people afterwards that they were like that? nobody believes you. then they always play the victim. it was the most frustrating thing in my whole life to go through. anybody else?

2007-06-24 02:52:43 · 8 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1

If you do answer, would you show them your response?

2007-06-24 02:40:31 · 8 answers · asked by Puresnow 6

2007-06-24 02:34:03 · 18 answers · asked by C P 1

my husband cheated and try to work things out but hes cold and wont open up..and wont even acknowledges he did wrong all he says i deserve better..but wont let me see other people.

2007-06-24 02:32:13 · 13 answers · asked by Sylvia G 1

ship where you have allowed a female to walk all over you due to the fact that you think you can not live without her?

2007-06-24 02:31:07 · 9 answers · asked by MJ 6

2007-06-24 02:13:46 · 7 answers · asked by snkisok 1

2007-06-24 02:08:27 · 16 answers · asked by annie c 1