Why is she texting him in the first place? He should block her texts and tell her good-bye. It is insensitive to you and your emotional security in the relationship.
If he continues this under protest from you then I'd look real hard at why I am with a guy who isn't concerned about my feelings.
2007-06-24 02:14:57
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answered by mosaic 6
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Sounds like he never ended it the right way with the EX. Or, is leading he on in some way. The EX may be the type that you can't talk to after the D_Day. Meaning - He needs to tell her that he is married now and that he's wife is more important to him then the TXT messages and (I'm sure) phone calls. Dude stop the madness.
2007-06-24 02:27:39
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answered by snkisok 1
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I would put a stop to it. You are his present, she is his past and should stay there. Explain to him nicely that you don't feel she has a right to come between the two of you, and ask him to get her to stop. Tell him how it makes you feel. Tell him if you really loves you he will change his email, or where ever she it texting to. I would also send her a text telling her that you won't allow this anymore. That he is your husband now, not hers. And if she misses him, to keep it to herself.
Do whatever it takes! What does your husband say? He probably gets an ego charge out of two women fighting over him. If he cares about you and your feelings, he will put an end to it.
Show him your question here and the answers. Maybe he'll get a clue.
2007-06-24 02:20:54
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answered by Mama_Kat 5
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he's YOUR husband now....firstly to reduce the risk of an argument buy him a new phone and card, she wont have the number then to txt him, and if she does you know he has given it to her......then you may have a problem!
Try txt her back and say he is busy at the present doing some lucious things in bed with you ....but he will reply later.....like in 2 days.
Or ring her from his phone as soon as the txt comes through say he is busy but does she have something to say so you can pass it on to him!
if he has children with her you will have more of a problem
2007-06-24 02:22:31
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answered by turkeyhug 4
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by way of fact it is exactly why people say "Love is Blind." we actually do fairly see those indications yet chosen subconscientiously to forget approximately them for regardless of reason. perhaps by way of fact we like the guy too plenty to have faith whats happening. perhaps we are only misreading the indications as a warning of the pending disaster and desire and pray they arent for actual and could in simple terms flow away day after today. No courting comes with a assure that it's going to final perpetually like we choose it to do yet we in simple terms take our possibilities and pray for the main suitable which doesnt incorporate ending
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answered by ? 4
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you should tell ur husband to tell his ex to stop doing these texts cause he is not in love with her anymore and that he is happily married and in love with his wife, if he does not do this she will not stop sending these stupid texts. if ur husband does not do this u need to do it ur self and tell ur husbands ex to bug off and get a new guy and live on with her life and forget her past cause her life is not over yet and she can get others im sure. so this is all i have to say not much more good luck with it.
2007-06-24 02:20:38
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answered by Anonymous
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He likes hearing from her,he's probably texing her also,and if it created a fight between the two of you,then you need to watch out want be long before you become his ex..............
2007-06-24 02:22:29
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answered by Fannie 3
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you have to tell your husband how much this upsets you...cause he will have to understand, he wouldn't like it if it was you recieving texts like that from an ex would he?... try encourage him to change his number
best of luck!
xoxo
2007-06-24 02:17:07
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answered by lkjhyuio 2
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Change numbers or ID's. Problem solved.
2007-06-24 02:12:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Sounds like you probably knew she was doing this before you married him so it's on you maybe you should have thought twice about marrying him. Why can't he change his #?
2007-06-24 02:12:22
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answered by Anonymous
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