How can I make my husband to confess that he loves another woman?

Answer 1

Why?

How do you know that he is in love with another woman?

Answer 2

You will always be haunted, empty and sad. You'll try everything to help HIM forget...but what will he have done for YOU? He already did the worse possible thing to YOU. He didn't think about YOU, only about HIMSELF. Through your writing you seem to be a very compassionate person, but I believe he's using that against you. He knows you'll forgive him, and accept him no matter what he does. Why, would you be with him especially since he had been having a long term, long distance relationship? Don't you deserve a happier life, free of questions, free of wondering that someday he just might leave? I've lived that lie for too long to know what your outcome will be. Ask yourself this one question...Would you have done this to him? I know what your answer will be, that's why I left. At least I still have my dignity & self-worth, and I'm much happier now that the haunting whispers are gone.

Answer 3

Confession is good for the soul, but not for a marriage. My question is, "why do you want him to confess, and what will you do with the answer whatever it may be?"

Do you want him to confess to justify your own infidelity, or intention to start looking around?

Do you want him to confess so that you can berate him?

You are ENTITLED to the unconditional devotion of your husband, and if you aren't getting it you need to consider ending the marriage--and I'm not saying that divorce is necessarily what you ought to do. Just look at your options, is all.

My recommendation is that there is little or nothing to be gained by getting him to confess.

Answer 4

Not sure you can make him confess, simply ask him and tell him you deserve a truthful answer because if he does you want to move on and if he doesn't then why is he doing the things he's doing that lead you to believe he loves another woman......good luck

Answer 5

If you think that is the case, ask him in private. Look into his eyes and ask him to tell you the truth. If he does love another woman, divorce him. You deserve a husband that loves you and respects you.

Answer 6

it doesn't matter what he tells you, you already convinced yourself that he loves another woman.

if you love him, leave it alone for now. instead, focus on making your marriage better.

talk things over with him. find out what he wants more in your marriage. you tell him what you want.

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if you want your marriage to END, then push him to confess!

it is possible to love more than one person.... this IS a fact of life. accept it!!! what you need to do is focus on keeping your marriage and making it grow positive together!!!

Answer 7

Watched the movie A few Good men.
Here is a trick......it worked for me.
You start by initiating a dispute. When you feel he's getting all round up you push it further and further....when he's besides himself then you hit him with the question. He will be unprepared and the truth will come out.

Answer 8

Why should you? You looking for a reason to ditch him? Work on being a super wife. If he is cheating, things will surface that are tell tale signs.

Answer 9

well, are you sure of that, if he loves another woman.. why are you still with him? life is too short.. find someone who will make you happy and not cheat on you. you deserve better.

Answer 10

Bend his arm behind his back and twist it until he confesses.