what would you do or say if your husband told you that you can have sex with anyone you want as long as you come home to him? Would you do it? Does he not trust me?
2007-06-24 15:34:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he has told me that he knows he doesnt fulfill my sexual needs because he is small. I know he doesnt have someone on the side because he would have told me and he said that he doesnt want to have sex with other women.
2007-06-24 15:43:10 · update #1
I would be hurt if my husband didn't value the monogamy of our marraige. I would ask myself how much he really cared if he was willing to share me with others...and then I would realize he's probably doing it himself already.
I would explain that I hold my vow to foresake all others dear, and hope he does the same.
2007-06-24 15:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave! If hes telling you this hes probably doing it. There are to many things out there ajax can't wash off. Every time you have sex with someone these days you put your life in there hands(cause you never know were they've been). You obviously can't trust this man you call a husband so find someone you can trust your life with and be happy.
2007-06-24 22:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by snapdragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not know any husband that would say that. Even if they were totally secure with themselves. No I wouldn't do it because for one it may be a test and 2 because I love him and married. By doing so I committed my life to him so why would my life be better fulfilled if I slept with others?
2007-06-24 22:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by caligal68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to do it? To me it sounds like a bit of an excuse to allow him to sleep with someone else. I personally wouldn't do it because its important to me to be with just the one person that I love, but if this is something that you are happy about, then go ahead, but realise that this gives him an open door to sleep with others also. Open marriages work for a lot of people, so you need to decide if it will work for you and your husband.
2007-06-24 22:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only 2 reasons why any man would say that.
1. He is playing w/ someone on the side
or
2. He is a jokster personality and you knew he was kidding.
If he wasn't kidding, I would be watching his every move.
2007-06-24 22:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Teri ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhh no i would not do it. Honestly why would he say that? other than the fact that if you have sex with anyone you want so can he. he must trust you unless its a trap. Good luck. If you don't want him sleepin around you shouldn't either
2007-06-24 22:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by a.rose19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is making an "easy out" for you to exit the relationship. If he really loved you, he would not say such things to you.
He also sounds like a coward.
2007-06-24 23:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants other women. He may be feeling guilty about already being with another woman. Don't have unprotected sex with him.
2007-06-24 22:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try giving him some confidence and affection and he will come around. Don't do it. He has self esteem issues and needs ur support and going to someone else will only make things worse.
2007-06-24 22:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Rockster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is his plan to do the same?There are some people that swing but it causes rifts in the marriage--if you cant hold the standard of he is yours and you are his alone then why be married?
2007-06-24 22:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by dove2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋