Marriage & Divorce - 21 June 2007

I mean really? Where the heck do they get that from? I have never EVER heard of a couple whose marriage failed because they didn't "check" to see if they are "sexually compatible" first.

2007-06-21 08:34:31 · 20 answers · asked by mr_cheevus 1

re arrage the above list starts from the best one.

2007-06-21 08:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by kukunet n 1

I have posted this question before, but I wasn't clear enough so the answers were somewhat irrelevant. I met this woman on a train reading a book that I had previously read. She is 35 years, yet she looks 25 years old (that was what I thought before she told me her age). I am 26. We, after a small talk, exchanged numbers.

Prior to meeting again, we spoke over the phone about 4 times getting to know each other. She is nice, sweet, educated, classy, and open-minded. The first time we talk a walk at Central Park. We had a good time. I told her my feelings toward her. She told me that she is looking for someone to marry and settle down and considering my age not ready to do so. She also mentioned that I am young and the youngest person she has dated was 5 years younger.

I listened but still I wanted her, so in my third date with her while holding each other at the movies, I went for the kiss. She was hesitant, yet went for it. Yes, we French kissed. It happened twice that night.

2007-06-21 08:32:48 · 5 answers · asked by EDD 2

My friend's wife called cops on him suspecting that he has cheated on her. They arrested him on so called "domestic violence". I am shocked. What would you girls do?
Would you ever call cops on your husbands/boyfriends.
Should he get back with her. What if she calls cops again.
I am confused. Please help me

2007-06-21 08:18:53 · 6 answers · asked by ogantom 2

Or the immature ones?

2007-06-21 08:16:42 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3

car fender trying to remove the bump from her accident. My wife told me that I shouldn't be doing this, and there was other work to be done. Is wife too harsh on alfred?

2007-06-21 08:15:27 · 30 answers · asked by alfred pimples 1

I am 21 yrs old still in college and hubby is 25 yrs old works for insurance company only been married 3.7 months before he filed for divorce.Long story short we took 4 month break before marriage his idea(i am sure he was not innocent during the break) and i had a fling ex.bf and got married unaware i was pregnant w/ ex.bf child hence pending divorce.He took 90% percent of furniture whe he left and then came back and stole my clothing/shoes(thank goodness my jewlery was in safe in wall that i never gave him combo for) except for what was in laudry room but left his 2 dogs.Police told me all i could do was file a report so i did.I move out of the house end out next week so house can be sold i told my hubby this and asked for my stolen clothing/stuff back he said prove it?
At this point do i ignore him and his nasty messages?

2007-06-21 07:51:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-21 07:37:10 · 6 answers · asked by xadralix 2

Because of new child support laws and the constant battering of my ex. and the court system( jailed every other month) even though I paid the support regular as required. Do i have any avenues now, children grown up, still it wasnt right and I feel I'm not the only one, Please help.

2007-06-21 07:26:39 · 16 answers · asked by Barry B 1

say the truth no one will tell.

2007-06-21 07:18:29 · 39 answers · asked by ¸.•*♥P!cαŘα §☼Ňαd☼Řα♥*•.D®eαMe® 6

Ok, I just finished posting one question about how my ex-wife handles our kids' bedtimes at her place but let me try another one now. My ex and I are tired together for life because we have 2 kids, ages 6 and 10. She holds a lot of resentment towards me because of how our lives have turned out. I think she is genuinely unhappy with herself and her own life so she takes it out on me whenever she has a chance. Our 50-50 custody has always been around her work and school schedule and I have done many things to try to help her when she asks. However, the fact remains that if I bring up an issue of how she is doing something it becomes a fight. She seems to be more of the emotional one and I deal with more of the facts. Example, she said she does more driving when it comes to getting the kids to me. I mapped how much driving we do and it turned out that I was actually putting in about 50 miles more per week than she. So, how do we mediate these problems without an attorney?

2007-06-21 07:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband have been separated for almost a month. He hasn't filed for the divorce yet and he created a myspace profile and put the he's single. I created a fake one n he accepted me as a friend... to make story short he has been saying bad things about me to the gurl i created on myspace. He sed that he came out of a terrible relationship and that he's really happy, that I had problems n dat he also did but that I was just out of control!! I'm so hurt by what he wrote I know I should move on but I don't understand why he's writing bad things of me after we agreed to let the marriage go in peace. Could it be that he's just sayin it to feel better or could it really be true?? I never cheated on him, the reason why we're separated is cuz he sed I nagged n b*tched alot but dats about it.. I always cooked n cleaned. I jus don't get it.

2007-06-21 07:10:22 · 33 answers · asked by Lily 2

Would it bother you if your boyfriend was going on sites and messaging other woman? (and i've noticed a trend of big booties and boobs lol) My boyfriend and I have been in a serious committed relationship for over a year. I recently discovered that he has been going on random sites and talking to girls. They are all from the USA (he's in canada) and his profiles all say he's in a relationship... but sometimes he gets kinda flirty. This bothers me even though I know he would never cheat on me or anything. I just want to know if it's normal to get jealous over something like this and if you would say something to your boyfriend about it?

2007-06-21 06:59:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Husband's friend since childhood makes me feel.. Horrible.

At a glance, he is nice. But every single time I see him, he talks about how he hates everything I am.. " I could never be with a really feminine girl, I'd feel like I would break her... I don't like blounde people.. I hate big boobs... I don't like people from the south.. I could never be with someone who made dinner every night..." Stupid reasons! But, I let it go- he is my hubby's friend , not mine.. Last weekend, We where at a baptism and when my hubby's friend have me a hug goodbye... HE GRABBED MY BUTT!
not a wondering hand, he grabbed my whole butt! I was in shock and I didn't know what to do! after we got home, I told my hubby. He said he would talk to him, but- I still feel so uncomfortable. We have a graduation and a wedding to go to this weekend- He's going to be there. I've never been in a situation like this.
I know it's going to be tense after my hubby talks to this guy.

2007-06-21 06:54:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

On father's day my step daughter came over and I noticed something different. They both were playing in the pool and I was making lunch, when I kept hearing my husband telling her No! I went to see what was going on and I noticed her trying to kiss her father on the mouth. She kept saying kiss me like you kiss (my name)? He got out of the pool and came inside. We talked about this strange behavior and we were wondering is this normal? Is it for attention? She has a new step- father is something going on in her home we don't know??? Or is it just a young girl loving her daddy?

2007-06-21 06:48:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is in the state of Florida

2007-06-21 06:32:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-21 06:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1

My boyfriend is the best guy I know. I've never been more in love and more willing to want to start a future (marriage) with someone.

His one downfall is that he use to have a gambling problem. He had bad finanacial problems b/c of it; but is in the process of getting his life back together.

I love him, but he's never seeked professional help. I'm a little concerned this "problem" will start again. I DO believe people can beat their addicitions, I DON'T believe they can do them WITHOUT professional help.,

What should I do? I'm scared both ways. I'm scared that if I dump him, I'll be making the biggest mistake of my life. I'm also scared that if I stay, we will just ended up divorced if we get married?

What should I do? I've been with him for 3 years. We have so much love and so much history?

We are in our mid-20's.

2007-06-21 06:22:27 · 18 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5

In a nutshell.
I had 3 credit cards that she did not know about. I opened in both our names. I opened a myspace acct just to see what the hype was all about. Logged in once never again. She found out about it. I was playing an online video game 4+ hours a night and on the weekends. So these are the things that she says caused a trust issue with her.
Said she started talking to her "friend" talking about his marital problems and her marital problems. She says she felt neglected and disconnected for the last 4 years. All her girlfriends are saying that they don't blame her for talking to another guy. I feel like I can't trust her anymore. Now the coworker does work in another division and they are not in the same office, but they do travel together to meetings out of town with other coworkers. Is it fair for me to ask her to cut ties? I am obsessed with checking her text messages and cell phone bill help!

2007-06-21 06:21:43 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at the local mall with my wife, who frankly is a little too tall. Anyway, she has brought Jesus Christ into our household, and for that I am always grateful. She is a great tickler.

Sorry, I digress.

We were at the mall and walked past a sporting goods store. I saw a brand new golf club that would just have been a fantastic addition to my club set.

However, the only credit card either of us had on that trip was with my wife. I asked her to let me have the card, and she refused!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Then she said something about clothes for the kids, blah blah blah. The kids get all of the attention! What about me?

Basically, the weekend was ruined. Every time she started talking to me about anything after that golf club purchase refusal incident, I started to choke up. She did ask once what was wrong, and I told her that if she didn't know, then she didn't deserve to know.

Should I wait for her to apologize, or should I take the first step and ask for an apology?

2007-06-21 06:16:52 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are going to scatter his ashes next week and I just feel that it is the last thing to do and I feel there is no point in keeping wearing my wedding ring. I am trying to accept that I am not married any more and he isn't coming back. I am 49 and I don't want another man, I still love my husband very much and miss him dreadfully, but I have to stop being a martyr to all of this.

2007-06-21 05:50:00 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

was married in maine, now live in virginia. {residents} would it be quicker to file in virginia or go back to maine and get it even though i'd have to be a resident there. i want out, so does she. no one wants to contest

2007-06-21 05:43:15 · 6 answers · asked by bullhillroad 3

Ok this is both frustrating & embarrasing for me at the same time. Here's the deal. My mom & Dad got a divorce a couple years ago (she wanted the divorce - she was having an affair at work). Anyway, they got a divorce but she still goes back to my Dad when she needs money or is in some sort of financial trouble. My Dad keeps taking her back even tho she treats him like a bank and not like a husband. Well that's not really what bugs me, I mean they're both grownups and I say let them deal with their problems / relationship. Here's what gets me. My mom always stares at my husband. She'll be talking to me, but instead of looking at me while she's doing it, she will be looking at him. Not just looking at him, staring at him. She has done this since my husbad and I were boyfriend and girlfriend and it really irritates the hell out of me. But it's not just my husband, she's always had a staring problem since as long as I can recall, the thing is she ONLY stares at men. Plus ......

2007-06-21 05:32:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a two year old daughter, her father left us when she was one to return to his home country Brazil. He hasn't been in contact since, we have very little money although his family have sent us a bit on the odd occasion, they are not poor. I have written to ask him for money but recieved no reply. He can earn good money and i think it is terrible he hasn't sent anything for her, shall i email him again but this time giving him the ultimatum of never being allowed to see his daughter if he ever chose to in the future? i am so angry with him.

2007-06-21 05:06:42 · 22 answers · asked by Soso 1

We really dont know what to wear and who to have perform the ceremony. I would like to have my two children walk me down the isle to their father. but not really sure how the cermony should go and how to start the whole thing. Should we greet our guest then have the cermony or stay hiden then do the cermony?

2007-06-21 04:53:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met a guy through the arranged marriage system. we would talk for 3-4 hours everyday.then one day he just stopped calling.he was in usa and i was in india. but he was suppposed to visit india to meet me and he did that.we met for a week. and after a week we have a roka or a sort of an engagement party. now he gone back to the us and again he has started to have second thoughts. he says he likes me but doesnt get the feeling. but then we have spent only a short time together. whats his problem . should i drop him, is he emotionally unstable. or should i be patient with him. this is the second time he is acting strange and flippant. i am losing my patience and my warmth for him

2007-06-21 04:45:28 · 28 answers · asked by confused babe 1

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2007-06-21 04:24:10 · 10 answers · asked by mktxlady 2

After 17 yrs of marriage, I divorced my husband. Overall, he's a good person, good provider and a great father. Some of you may tell me I should have been satisfied. But I didn't feel his love. Yes, he bought me what I wanted (then again, I worked and contributed 50% towards the household). It was never a strong marriage. We were never really affectionate He wasn't there emotionally, he embarrassed me and he wasn't supportive. For example, there were many times I attend family, functions and weddings without him. I always made excuses for him, he's sick, working, etc. The last straw was when he refused to go on vacation w/the family. We have 2 girls. He said he couldn't take off because of work. I pleaded w/him but he said no. So we went on vacation without him. Things were never the same since. I don't know if he was cheating and it doesn't matter now. My concern are the kids. They are acting out in school, at home, I hate lugging them back and forth from homes,

2007-06-21 04:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-21 04:12:56 · 11 answers · asked by babygyrl 1