Marriage & Divorce - 10 May 2007

2007-05-10 04:49:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ALL MY FRIENDS BROTHERS AND SISTER ARE MARRIED WHY CAN I NOT FIND LOVE? I AM ATTRACTIVE, HANDSOME, AND GENUINNE, A LOVING PERSON WHO JUST WANTS TO FIND SOME GIRL I CAN LOVE, CUDDLE, LOOK AFTER, FRIEND AND HUSBAND. WHY CAN I NOT FIND SOMEONE????

2007-05-10 04:47:07 · 18 answers · asked by sean O 1

We used to wrk together,but we hardly spoke,he always used to stare @me,i sent him an email to tell him that sum1 else set up my pc,so its ok-initally he was suppose to,he never responded-when i saw him yesterday i just looked at him & turned around,but it was a lil distance,today i saw him & just ignored me,i only wanted him to respond,so i can start to chat to him thats all,its not working :(

2007-05-10 04:45:45 · 5 answers · asked by Cassý 1

Everytime my mother goes to shower, he comes out, grabs the phone, dials a number, speaks in light tone and then erases the number. This has occured for the past year. Plus, I have learned from outside resources that he is speaking to someone else. He has been great to me but lately I just can't stand him. I ignore him and can't tell my mom what is happening because it will devastate her. Any suggestions please? I would greatly appreciate it.

2007-05-10 04:44:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 3 yr old and 17 month old twins. I sometimes feel one of them , in a given time, is getting more attention than the others. And one gets more dicipline from me or my husband.

2007-05-10 04:44:25 · 8 answers · asked by amersunshine 2

her job at the daycare center. She's always carrying other men's and women's kids. They don't pay squat, and I think she'd make more money elsewhere.

2007-05-10 04:44:01 · 18 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

My husband won't touch me. We have become more pals than anything. I am just wondering what makes men lose interest? I am attractive & am told this by friends also, that has not been a problem. I however don't feel that way around him. I feel awful & like I am nothing. If I lean one foot/leg on him on the couch he moves away, like I repulse him. Nothing has happened that I can think of that could have caused this. I am pretty sure he would never cheat..I also have resources to check on this. He won't spend much time with me either...would rather work constantly. When I bring it up, he denys it. I ask him if he is attracted to me & he laughs & says: Come on..you know you are beautiful! Umm...no I really don't since he doesn't even sit near me. Kissing(pecks) is nearly out the door now too. My quesiton is...what makes men act this way? And is there anything to be done to change it? It's very hurtful & upsetting. Men please feel free to answer this one as well as anyone else!

2007-05-10 04:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by purple 2

With Mother's Day this weekend, my boyfriend is contemplating what to get his daughter's mother. (She is not even three yet, so obviously can't do the shopping herself.) What is appropriate? Last night he was looking at spa treatments at some posh resort. I thought that might be too much, but he thinks that whatever he spends for Mother's Day, she'll reciprocate for Father's Day a month later.

What do you think?

2007-05-10 04:37:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been married for 3 yrs, my daughter is 8,my husband is not her biological dad.My husband has left to go stay with his family for a while b/c we had a disagreement.I have talked to him to see where the problem lies.He stated that he can not live in a house where he is disrespected by an 8 yr old.He doesnt feel that I discipline properly & feels like I am against him and take her side.I try to tell him that that I am not choosing sides, however I often feel that his military background causes him to nit pick over things and sometimes the punishments that he chooses are too severe for her actions.That is not the only prob, I feel that he emotionally neglects me and my child. Our sex life is dissapating, he makes me feel undesired, unattractive,& unimportant. I dont know how to fix our problems,everytime we argue he leaves for days and then comes back and I am so glad hes home that the prob doesnt get fixed but I cant continue this cycle.I am mentally, physically,&emotionally exhausted

2007-05-10 04:37:45 · 13 answers · asked by Slugger#4 2

My husband would rather hang with friends and play poker than spend time with me. ( wife of 5 yrs together 8 yrs) I told him I had a sitter and wanted to go to the movies, it was saterday at 12 noon, he said there might be a poker game that night,so I said that my friends are all busy and I want to spend the time with him. I left it up to him to decide his plans that evening. He chose poker, and didn't even invite me to come hang with him and buddies. I sat at home alone all night with our 1st babysitter in a long time.
I told him the next day I was mad and expected him to chose to spend the time with me. I have given up trying to spend time with him. I now joke and tell everyone that we are not friends just married. Any ideas?

2007-05-10 04:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by Marge 5

2007-05-10 04:28:45 · 12 answers · asked by E 1

My fiance and I decided to send mothers day cards and flowers as a couple. He said sending seperate cards seperated/divided us and that we were now getting married and should be doing things jointly, which I agree with.

Just wanted some others opinions, is it ok that I sent flowers to my future MIL and my mother from both my fiance and I? Or should I have waited until I am officially her DIL and he is my moms SIL?

2007-05-10 04:24:24 · 14 answers · asked by Katie 3

My partner of 6 years started an affair which I wasn't supposed to find out about. She then openly admitted it and refused to stop seeing this guy. Things got worse and now she has kicked me out and is moving him in. She says she is sorry, feels ashamed and feels guilty. It's still raw for both of us (it's only 6 weeks old). She has mental health issues but is extremally intelligent most of the time. She has some drink related problems. She is not faithful at best of times but I still love her, she loves me, but is IN love with this other guy. She has a long track record of broken relationships and returning to the previous partner. If I openly try to stop the affair she WILL resent me and I lose everything, she still wants us to stay freinds and have contact. He is very jealous and she is very gregarious. I have just got him a job with late finishing times to try to separate them as much as possibl(she hates being alone). Their relationship is already stormy. how do I get her back?

2007-05-10 04:23:38 · 29 answers · asked by dumped_on 1

2007-05-10 04:15:43 · 25 answers · asked by stella 3

Ok my husband is best friends with his ex-girlfriend and she has already admitted to her husband that she still loves my husband, Well we're moving back to GA week after next (which of course is where she lives) and she wanted to throw HIM a welcome home party, not even acknowledging that he has a wife and baby coming home too. I've told him that there is something about her I don't like but he says there's nothing to worry about. I trust him with all my heart, I just don't trust her. Am I just being paranoid or could my instincts be right?

2007-05-10 04:10:22 · 8 answers · asked by Heather C 1

I moved in with my gf, who has three kids that arent mine. Should I pay 50% of everything, rent, food, utilities, etc, or should I get a break, and if so how much would be fair? She gets child support and food stamps and tanf, and the rent goes to her mother, who hates me. Im more than happy to pay a quarter, since i do live there and use her things, but I dont see paying half, especially since she will see much of that back again one way or the other.

2007-05-10 04:03:48 · 27 answers · asked by tomhale138 6

Do most mothers just spend it on themselves ? I never got a dime from my mother growing up yet she recieved payments from my father. I never even got an Allowance !

2007-05-10 03:24:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Unfortunately, during my fiance's previous marriage, he co-signed on an auto loan for his then-wife. He made every payment on the account for several years, and maintained insurance on it for her. When he left, he continued this for almost a year. He told her she would have to take over, and warned her five or six times over a three month period that the insurance was going to expire and she needed to renew it in her name. Well, she didn't, and then she totaled the car. The car was repossessed and sold.

From what I understand (and I won't go into all the details), I highly doubt they are going to come after my fiance with any gusto. It would basically cost them too much money. However, if we get married, and they then decide to come after him, can they take my income into consideration in settlement proceedings? We do not live in a commonwealth state. I ask because Jay looked into bankrupcy, and the lawyer wanted my income too because we live together. Thanks for your time

2007-05-10 02:54:59 · 3 answers · asked by Rose 1

I met my fiance over the internet in 2005. He just got out of a 6 year relationship and was going thru a divorce. He has a little girl who is 3 from that relationship. She lives in CO and we live in kansas city. We still get to see her. Anyways heres my problem. We met and after 3 months of talking we moved in together. He moved here from CO to be with me. Were engaged and have been for about 10 months. We dont have a "BED" relationship hardly ever maybe once every other week. I feel that I may not be that attracted to him. I know he loves me, but I dont think im in love with him. Some days I do and some I dont. Hes very good to me and this is the first man i have ever trusted in every way possible. BUT ive put off the wedding twice. Am i just scared to be alone? I dont know if i want him here or if i want him to leave. I dont want to hurt him. BUT what IF he is THE ONE for me and he leaves. So confused please give advice and soon.hewantstoknownowifIdontwanttobewithhimsohecanleave!

2007-05-10 02:44:57 · 11 answers · asked by ask alotta ?s..lol 1

2007-05-10 02:00:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm definatly going to wait for him, and I'd never cheat on him, but does anyone have some advise on good ways to get through this?

2007-05-10 01:57:20 · 17 answers · asked by ~*~Fuzzie~*~ 1

Desperately seeking help !?
This is unbelievable he has been cheating our entire relationship he has been going to a online sex site and asking women out .I don't know if he's ever follow through and met any of them but I know he has been doing this according to his emails for a long time . I am so shocked I don't know what to do I need someone to talk to someone to help maybe I can see counselor .............I guess I should have realized it when he started treating me very abusive calling me names tell me I'm never satisfied denying me love I think this is been an ongoing problem for him in every relationship he's ever had he's never been loyal or honest With anyone . What do I do now tried to make this work. I think it always will be in my mind that for three and a half years he has been disloyal and I didn't even see it ............when they say love is blind I know what they mean now. I was so dedicated to him and I am definitely destroyed by this .is there no trust does it not exist

2007-05-10 01:54:10 · 11 answers · asked by Just me 1

Do you think if a kiss is bad that it's a sign that sex will be just as bad?

2007-05-10 01:23:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

In december of 2006 we seperated he quickly found a "friend"(female) and became close to her even felt feelins for her(more than friends feeling) she had issues she needed to work out so in return stop communicating with him...In mean time we have gotten back together to work things out and we were doing good then out of the blue she calls him to see if he wants to have drinks he agreed ,I felt it was not a good idea , he said i love you and noone else. how can i believe that when he sat there before he went out and said he felt something for her.....Well he didnt get home when he said he would and no sooner than he got home she called cryin that one of her friends was mad at her for being out with him(my husband) he said i will help you whatever i can do ...Now he is callin to tell her friend(a male) that there is nothin there(bs) i feel its not his place to get mixed up in her affairs and she will now be callin cryin anytime something goes wrong in her life, we have problems ourselv

2007-05-10 01:15:58 · 7 answers · asked by nida 1

2007-05-10 01:11:02 · 6 answers · asked by brik 2

2007-05-10 01:10:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short, alot has fallen apart lately. There's alot of bad things that are between us and I've grown more and more bitter and cold about the everything. We really don't get along anymore and sometimes I can't help but be cold towards him. Just when I start thinking I'm not even sure if I feel like I love him anymore, I think, naturally about divorce. But I can't even imagine being without him. I always get upset when I think about divorcing him because I don't want that....? Am I nuts for thinking this way? What am I supposed to do?

2007-05-10 00:39:15 · 23 answers · asked by pittehkitteh138 2

the other man accepts me w my 2 kids.we are truly inlove,madly inlove,he loves even all my flaws and me his.my husband on the other hand is only worried about making more money,i dont love him anymore and i stay with him only for the sake of the kids and their future.there is no spark between me and my hubby,no passion i never feel aat ease when w him.problem is he is an influental guy we live in france and my tru love in italy.i am so unhappy,i know who i want but i dont wanna jepourdise the future o happiness of my children on the other hand i dont wanna live my life without love.what do i do.

2007-05-10 00:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by jaycee1977 1