ALL MY FRIENDS BROTHERS AND SISTER ARE MARRIED WHY CAN I NOT FIND LOVE? I AM ATTRACTIVE, HANDSOME, AND GENUINNE, A LOVING PERSON WHO JUST WANTS TO FIND SOME GIRL I CAN LOVE, CUDDLE, LOOK AFTER, FRIEND AND HUSBAND. WHY CAN I NOT FIND SOMEONE????
2007-05-10 04:47:07 · 18 answers · asked by sean O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Desperate people are a turn off. Stop acting this way and love will find you.
2007-05-10 04:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You may be trying to hard. You can't look for love, it comes to you. If you are going out to clubs and trying to meet someone you are looking in the wrong place. Believe it or not I found my one true love on the internet. We started chatting then talking on the phone, we sent pictures back and forth and before we met face to face we already knew each other. I have never been happier in my life. I never believed in internet dating but, I am glad I tried it. A good site is www.singleparentmeet.com. You do not have to have to be a parent to go on this site. Give it a try you never know. It made a believer out of me. I will be married in Feb. '08. Best thing i ever did. GOOD LUCK.
2007-05-10 12:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by bpfire1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're trying too hard? It seems as though there is pressure on you in your brother's and sister's footsteps...... Love will come when it is good and ready. There is no point in rushing it, for the sake of keeping up appearances with the rest of the family.
Take your time, enjoy goimg out and having fun before thinking about serious commitments.
You'll find Ms right soon enough.
2007-05-10 12:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by beausbreeches 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are anything like the people I know in your situation, they wear their intentions on their face. If you are looking, you look like you are looking. If you are just trying to start out with friendships, your face will say the same. You know what you want, but not everyone wants the same as you, and if they see what you want on your face, they run. Try dating. A whole bunch of different people - BUT TRY, TRY, TRY not to sleep with them. You will find that the crem de la crem will remain and will treat you better than anyone you did sleep with. Just date. It's really fun, and there are no strings attached. There is also no need for fronting or lying or pretending. You can be you without conviction.
2007-05-10 11:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by swilson_lewis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
-Are your expectations too high?
-Do you come across as desperate?
-Are you looking for love in all the wrong places?
Just break it down a bit and try asking yourself these kinds of questions but at the same time, DON'T dwell on it. The more you stress yourself over it, the less likely you are to find THEONE. Seriously, even though it's been said a million times before, love will find you when you least expect it and when you're not actively searching for it.
2007-05-10 11:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say that it is the good guys that get left behind I dont know how old you are but love will come your way and when it does i hope that it will be the right one for you as being in love is great but believe me if one of you falls out of love the other one will hurt more than you have ever hurt before so for your sake dont be in any hurry to fall in love .male aged50
2007-05-10 18:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by andrew h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where do you look for love? Your friends, brothers sister and friends who are all married, are you sure they are all in love? The first step is learning to love yourself, that's the greatest love of all ,remember....
2007-05-10 16:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by Prudie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are actually trying to look for it. Give up looking and you'll find that it will find you when its ready.
Its not you that does the finding - its love that finds you......so stop looking and just relax and enjoy the ride.
2007-05-10 12:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never never be desperate just take things as they come.There is love around us you just have to be realistic.
2007-05-10 13:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by TheMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't find love sweetie, it finds you. Relax, when the right person comes into your life, you will know it.
2007-05-10 11:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋