In december of 2006 we seperated he quickly found a "friend"(female) and became close to her even felt feelins for her(more than friends feeling) she had issues she needed to work out so in return stop communicating with him...In mean time we have gotten back together to work things out and we were doing good then out of the blue she calls him to see if he wants to have drinks he agreed ,I felt it was not a good idea , he said i love you and noone else. how can i believe that when he sat there before he went out and said he felt something for her.....Well he didnt get home when he said he would and no sooner than he got home she called cryin that one of her friends was mad at her for being out with him(my husband) he said i will help you whatever i can do ...Now he is callin to tell her friend(a male) that there is nothin there(bs) i feel its not his place to get mixed up in her affairs and she will now be callin cryin anytime something goes wrong in her life, we have problems ourselv
2007-05-10 01:15:58 · 7 answers · asked by nida 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband is showing an incredible lack of respect to you and your marriage. Tell him his behaviour is inappropriate and tell her not to call your home again. If he refuses it should be obvious that he doesn't have the same commitment to your marriage that you do. Then you'll have other decisions to make.
2007-05-10 01:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are not firm enough with him. He needs to choose either you or her and the best way to do it is to tell him to either stop communicating with her or you will do the same and find a boyfriend.
2007-05-10 08:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Tourang B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only agree, that he should have stayed home, and now should stay out of the other woman's affairs.
2007-05-10 08:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Beau R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You husband is still involed in this relationship emotionally.
If he is really trying to make your relationship work , he would never have gone to meet her etc. etc....
I don't think it is a good idea for him to have contact with her or get involved with her life...
if he persists,you had better move on... you guys are done.....
2007-05-10 08:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask him "Isn't there already enough drama in our lives without playing into her mind games?"
It's true, this chick sounds messed up and is just playing the "I'm all messed up and need you" sympathy card for his attention.
2007-05-10 12:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL THE WOMEN AND TELL HER TO STAY OUT OF YOUR MARRIAGE AND AWAY FORM YOUR MAN OR ELESE !! DONT PUT UP WITH THAT CRAP MEN ARE STUPID WHEN THERE IS SOME WOMEN IN NEED !!
2007-05-10 08:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey,i totally agree with you.he dont need to be mixin his self up in her affairs when he has problems of his own...he need to stop before it ruins you all...
2007-05-10 08:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_4_dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋