Marriage & Divorce - 22 April 2007

Can someone answer this question and give me some detailed reasons why financial compatibility is critical to a successful marriage? Thanks

2007-04-22 10:54:58 · 3 answers · asked by abxamz 1

Yes or no please. It's for a survey. Thank you!!

2007-04-22 10:49:10 · 22 answers · asked by katiecski 1

Me and my husband arnt speaking at the moment , over his sister , she had a baby 3 weeks ago ,2 days after having the baby she was home and her mum went down for a few days to help out , which is a natural thing most mothers will do, anyway my mother in law only came back to her own house on friday, and was telling us that from the day she arrived down to her daughters that she had the baby in her room and was getting up to do all the feeds while the child mother stayed in bed ( the way my mother in law said it was like it was great that she was spending the time with the baby). i just couldnt get my head round this and said it to my husband that i thought that this was wrong and his mother shouldnt of been taking the baby every night as his sister cant be realing on her mother , she has to learn herself in her own way , my husband said i was making a big deal out of this but i was only giving my opinoin and to me its wrong what his sister is doing , she isnt a single parent either.

2007-04-22 10:44:02 · 47 answers · asked by fafandloo 5

When we go out to have some drinks, at the end of the night we end up in bed. He knows that I like him, but his excuse is that he's not over his ex and he's not ready to commit again. We been doing this close to a year. When I want to have some action he gives me excuses, I like him alot and I work with him and some times I just feel like quitting my job that I love. I've alway been there since he broke up with his ex.

2007-04-22 10:40:48 · 13 answers · asked by Queen_B_007 1

Husband & I are close to divorce. He knows I'm houseshopping. He's been making an effort to change and is now helping with chores and the kids. Even spending time with family now. But still acts like a teen at times. I don't think he understands the difference between sex and love. He was always a sex addict (porno mags and internet) but I thought that was done with. Yesterday I was looking for an old shirt for mudbogging and found a mag and 2 dvds. But his fettish is not beautiful models, they are 40DDD in nasty skank sex positions. So I can't let go in my head this fettish. I have tolerated a lot with this topic through the last 10 yrs. But he refuses to grow up and I have. I finally declared "enough," when he would say, "I know you've been running all day with kids and work but will you have time for me tonite? It'll only take a few min. all you have to do is lay there." I don't think the new mags help his case any with me staying in the marriage. Ladies,how'd you feel about this?

2007-04-22 10:38:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

he trys to hide almost ALL drinking and drinks ALLOT......I think? Any resorses I could try/

2007-04-22 10:38:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, most of us are in love with one person. However, we all can be sexually attracted to more than one person. Very few of us cheat, but it all depends what you call cheating. Fantasizing about someone other than your partner can be called cheating too. So, do you think it is unnatural for people to stay with one partner for entire life, and we are pushed to do so by religion and society?

2007-04-22 10:36:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i have had issues since we married. tried counseling and he was the one that admitted he was not ready to get married,so it was hard to commit to someone else but him. he is a good person,but show some bad behavior when we has irritated. he left home twice and came back,etc. this was 2 years ago. For the past 2 years, we were holding on,but never happy. I got a job offer overseas and he asked me to take it and told me he will support me. months later he change dhis mind and said that he wasnt sure. I moved and we kept talking.he came to visit 3 times within 6 months and the last time he really showed he cared about me and really mature. He realized he didnt wanted to loose me when i told him that we had lost lot of time and it was better to get divorced. Eventhought things were great last time, i didnt wanted to tell him to move right away again. I even felt pressured &felt i wanted to meet more people before taking a decision. am i wrong?

2007-04-22 10:34:04 · 5 answers · asked by confuse06 2

i read somewhere that sex is the backbone of a marriage.....
how would u react if for some reason ur partner couldn't perform, would u carry on in this relationship or would u break up even if everthing else was perfect in this relationship?

2007-04-22 10:26:55 · 47 answers · asked by Butterfly 3

My wife and I actually had this exchange today. Tell me what you think.

Me: Honey, can I make you some eggs?
My wife: I just cleaned the kitchen. Now you want to mess it up?

2007-04-22 10:24:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband told me that he wanted a divorce last week, then he told me that he didn't know how he felt about me. then he decided to keep me. i just got a full time job, first one in 6 months and then he was all lovey dovey towards me and now he is back to yelling and being mean and evasive with me and telling me that he is going where ever he wants when ever he wants. he also just quit two jobs in the last month and they were good jobs. mine is just a clerk at a convience store. what should i do? i really need to know. please this is sensitive to me so only serious answers. thanks

2007-04-22 09:53:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

and i have a part time job. I don't have the money to be on my own. BUT my mom is making my live a living hell. This past week alone she hit my car, and then called the cops on me because i was upset my car was hit. I went to mental health and in reality she's the one that needs mental health. The cops escorted me there so i was forced to go. She has cost me money and i dont even get a apology. She mentally abuses me, calls me every name, told my boyfriend not to go out with me because i'm not good enough for him. but in reality i'm not mental, she just wants people to give her sympathy. she is manipulative, and no one sees it. i need help, i'm living in hell

2007-04-22 09:48:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 28yo male who is going to be getting married, and I just want some female advice. Anything will help!

2007-04-22 09:41:18 · 21 answers · asked by luckyman 3

We met each other around June ' 04, got married December '05. Ever since our honeymoon (seriously)things have been wierd. He's stressed about work, money,everything. He tells me at least once a week he couldn't live without me and would probably kill himself if he ever lost me. He asks me daily if I am happy, and the more he asks me, the more un-happy I seem to get. Last month I kissed his friend on the cheek...then about 2 weeks later I did kiss his friend - I know I am a ***** for it, it was a mistake I know, I was drunk bad excuse but I was REALLY drunk. I already know I am wrong. In a previous question I asked if I should tell him I really kissed him. He answered the question for me...last night he told me that when I kissed his buddy on the cheek (which was in a FRIENDLY way at the time) he almost beat the guy up and thought of hurting himself. So if a friendly kiss on the cheek got him thinking that, how would a drunken kiss make him fee. So I cannot tell him that. Which is,.,

2007-04-22 09:41:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm sure some of you will say i'm being unsensitive, but I'm about to blow a gasket with my mother in law. She is 81 and has lived with us the past six months. She supposedly has alzheimer's or something, which I question. There are lots of days when she is completely fine, but any time i threaten to throw her out, all the sudden she has symptoms again. Coincidental? I think not. She is lazy and talks back to me way too much to tolerate. I will not be spoken to in my own home disrespectfully by anyone. I'm considering moving out for a while to give her and my wife time to bond and to give myself a much needed break. I understand my wife wants to take care of her mom, but she is being taken advantage of, and I'm not going to suffer any longer for it. I'm going to be the bigger person and move out. Any suggestions?

2007-04-22 09:27:25 · 18 answers · asked by glyph 1

I was married for 8 years, I've never cheated or betrayed a women before. It's complicating but i love my wife even when she cheated on me i forgave her for all the wrong things she has done. Time and time again she walks out of my life and she cant live without me and as well as i cant live without her. She recently divorced me months ago. And when that all happen i was so majorly depressed i fell into a relapse memory which i dont remember a whole part of my life. I thought i was 17 and didnt even knew i had a son. I fell in love with another Girl when i couldnt recall anything.Until only then i had my memory back and im in a delimma of confusion. My love for my ex-wife goes beyond love itself, I've bled for her done everything i could and i never gave her any less. She's been thru hell for me it drove her insane. The other is young she's 18 and im like 24. She's sweet and all that is merry but lacks commitment and undergoes curfews,and she lies to her parents to see me.

2007-04-22 09:20:34 · 6 answers · asked by Lawrence 2

2007-04-22 09:15:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

T and I have been best friends since we were 18. Even though there was always an attraction, neither of us persued it since we were both a little, shall we just say, wild and carefree. Our mutal friends had often refered to us as "the King and Queen whores of babylon". There were numerous nights throughout our friendship when we would sit up nights discussing our latest "conquests". We both married and divorced other people and neither of us was faithful during our marriage. Then about a year ago we started dating and everything has been realy good, we never argue, hardly disagree and always communicate well. The problem is that I think we know each other too well. Sometimes i have a hard time trusting him and I worry that he's going to do the same thing to me that he did to his ex. And i know for a fact that he gets jealous of me with some of my male friends. I have been faithful since we got together, but I dont know about him. What should i do?

2007-04-22 08:38:31 · 2 answers · asked by Gypsy 2

I am an unimpressive male of 48 with an academically brilliant 22-year son.
A few days back, some of my junior colleagues asked me to arrange for a feast to celebrate my son’s success at Exam.
I told them why should I? Rather; they should salute my limb that created such a brilliant student. I assured them that though my wife is past her reproductive age, if I get a 20 something, I can still make another brilliant student.
The joke backfired. A colleague is seriously asking to have sex with his wife to make a good kid.
I am happily married and I and my wife vacation and foreplay a lot. But the pushing job is not feasible now. The prospect of unpaid, unprotected consensual sex with a girl younger is always alluring.
We are Hindus and our religion has sanction for such arrangements. Read Chapter 104 of Adiparva of the Mahabharata.
What should I do? Should I tell my wife about the proposal?

2007-04-22 07:25:27 · 21 answers · asked by sexy grandmother 4

Do girls go into different lessons at school to learn it? or is it something that females develop naturally so that by the time they are women they are masters at it? is it then an inbred instict to go out and marry a man so that they have got something to hone their skills on over the years? as the saying goes "lifes a b*tch and then you marry one" Thank god I can go back to work tomorrow,,,weekends!!!!! bah !!

2007-04-22 07:22:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-22 07:17:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-22 07:16:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have just looked at a text message he does not know that he has it. have you texted julie or have you erased her number remember she has yours. i am 32 not getting any younger and i am going to leave the idiot at the end of the week while he is on nights. i am not imagining this am i?

2007-04-22 06:31:58 · 41 answers · asked by kirsty 1

I want to thank you all out there in this cyper community! I live out in the country, our families are far away, and the people here in this community are not very nice. I've just recently found JahooAnswers and I finally feel like I belong somewhere and maybe can do some good for others. I know all of you, with your honesty and passion, have touched my heart. By reading your posts to eachother and to me, I see there are good people everywhere. I've learned so much and know what I need to do.
So...thanks!

2007-04-22 06:18:50 · 6 answers · asked by EarthGirl 6

it botheres me I have never said anything to my husband but I don;t know what to do any andvise ....

2007-04-22 06:15:12 · 20 answers · asked by julianneciechoski 2

2007-04-22 05:51:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my girlfriend had an affair with this guy about 5 months ago, right.. I'll admit I pushed her into him, kind of the way I was acting, my fault. I have been with this girl for 8 years, I had planned for us to get married, and then she begins acting strange and hiding thing. I suspected she was cheating with a certain guy so I gave in and broke up with her.

Well I forgave her about 2 weeks later, and it's been 5 months. She told me she had no reason to contact him ever again.

Well about 4 am, she gets a text message saying "hiii.." I grab her phone and she gets mad and starts screaming for me not to text him! LOL.

She says she doesn't know why he's texting her and has no control over it. Then she says maybe he was drunk or it was an accident?

Wow.. everything JUST had been normal again and now this. What do I do about this!?

2007-04-22 05:50:21 · 4 answers · asked by chris s 1

I have a friend who has been married for 20+ years. In his words she is physically and verbally abusive. She is controlling and jealous of his relationship with their daughter. After she accused him of having an affair he finally had enough and moved out. He accepted a job 3 hours away and started to rebuild his life. 2 weeks ago they got together to hash out some of the details. The conversation ended with her talking him into marriage counseling. He says he'll give it a shot but was doing so with a lot of apprehension. By nature he is very passive and she is very... uh, assertive... spelled c-o-n-t-r-o-l-l-i-n-g.
Anyone care to sound off?
What is your best guess, can a leopard change her spots?
Can this marriage be saved with the help of a therapist?

2007-04-22 05:39:27 · 11 answers · asked by Never.moon.a.werewolf 2

2007-04-22 05:29:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girl needs to text this guy (who I don't like) to find out information about a job she applied to. Well she deletes her texts and calls, and sleeps by her phone and whenever it rings or beeps she flies up.

Last night she left her phone away from her and he texted her, for the first time in months. I was going to try and act like her but she got up, screaming and yelling to not to text him or she'd never talk to me again. She said she has no control over him texting her. He did say he hadn't heard from her in a while in the text

Is she hiding something?

2007-04-22 05:26:59 · 4 answers · asked by aa 1