Marriage & Divorce - 22 April 2007

i just dont know what to do anymore. i feel like me and my boyfriend
are growing farther apart than closer together. when we first got
together he would always show me lots of love and affection. now its
like he almost throws a fit when i want a kiss or a hug. he makes
excuses for "other" things too. when we sleep together, thats just
what we do, sleep. he wont even cuddle with me in bed because he says
it makes him all cramped up, blah blah blah. pretty much i just feel
like were friends and nothing more. ive tried talking to him but he
just says im beating on a bad subject. i dont think hes cheating on
me and i trust that hes not. he wont go out to karaoke with me
anymore like he used to. he says i always catch him at a bad time but
he never tells me when its a good time. i just need to know what to
do to get the man back that i fell in love with. its taring me up
inside and i cant even talk to any of my friends about it cause they
all know him and i dont want them to slip. im just afraid that will
make our relationship more rocky than it already is. i dont want to
loose him but im tired of him just bein my friend. i dont ask for
much. just a little attention is all i need and i have to practically
fight for that. i hope im not being selfish. i just need some advice.

2007-04-22 05:19:49 · 8 answers · asked by *Jenn* 6

a christian marriage

2007-04-22 04:25:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

cheating all the time. I think he has also been physical in the past. My husband would never think to treat me this way, so I have no experience in this. I want to help, but I don't know what to do! Any advice? (they have 2 small boys)

2007-04-22 03:52:26 · 16 answers · asked by sophiensamsmom 4

I asked for the house and and all that was in it any help on this will do. I was given a default Divorce if that helps Thanks! It was attained in California!

2007-04-22 03:50:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been drinking since i was 14 i am now 28 an i work offshore im only home 1 wk. out tha month 3 months a year an the other day i came home an got drunk i got so drunk that i couldnt remember what i did but it must have been bad cause she was mad i had a black eye an blood on my face when i woke up an she said she hit me with her weddind ring on its a carrot diamond so i went out again an got drunk an came home an got in an argument an the rest of the week went ok .an when i went back to work she called me an asked me to quit drinking should i ? o she goes to bars when im offshore an when im home she dont want to go to bars with me is that wrong

2007-04-22 03:46:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 9 and 10 year old daughters.
I 'm sharing custody with their better than nothing call mom.
She cares less for them all she cares is how much money she can squeeze from me. I moved to SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA and my daughters want to come down and stay with me and visit mom duruing vacations.
Right now is the other way, how can I make this change so they can stay with me , my wife" my daughter's step mom, but they call her mom" and my two boys.
They do better in school and overall better with us.
Their mom is always changing schools evry year and their grandma is the one who actualy take's care of them and not the mom iher self.
California seems like they go toward the mom's side all the time. I had social services involved cause her husband use to hit my daughters and they didn't do anything just a warnig. mom got caught lying in court and making my girls make up stories and still she always get's wat she want's.
So I'm getting desperate at thi point.

2007-04-22 03:39:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i wanna know, my marriage is about over and im wondering if i cheat on my husband can he or the state say im unfit because im with someone else?

2007-04-22 03:38:54 · 16 answers · asked by Leah P 3

2007-04-22 03:29:45 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have, or had rather a friend who did nothing but use my husband and I. We would come home from 12+ hour work days and she would be calling us to take her out. (She would always "forget" her money so we would have to pay. Yes, we have told her that we are not taking her any where unless she is prepared to pay and sometimes provide gas money. She never has given us gas money)

When the dr. told me to stay in bed (dealing with some pregnancy issues) this friend was told about the situation. She still called me and wanted me to come help her mow the lawn. Then she wanted me to take her out for lunch. She pulled this crap three days out of one week. I told her that I needed to rest and don't have the energy to even leave my house. She still didn't get it.

When I had my surgery to remove a growth, (in my side) I was on bedrest. She called me many times wanting to DO things for her and got angry when I kept telling her I had to stay in bed.

Plus many other things.

2007-04-22 03:15:57 · 13 answers · asked by Mrs. K 3

My marriage is over and I've moved back home to the US.

Can I file for divorce in the US or does it have to be filed in the UK? The marriage is legal and is recognized in the US so in theory you should be able to file for divorce where it is recognized?

2007-04-22 02:46:10 · 7 answers · asked by Melissa 2

2007-04-22 02:38:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

if it's for having sex then many peopel do it before they get married then why they get married??

2007-04-22 02:31:10 · 14 answers · asked by mariam w 2

I was away from my family working for months in late 2005 early 2006 for 10 months. (Hurricane Katrina relief) I had been married 10 years to an amazing wife and mother. I F'ed up down there and had an affair. I can't even tell myself why I did it. Just stupid and selfish. My wife has forgiven me and we now have our womnderful marriage back. She has good days and bad days and I accept that and do everything I can to make it up to her. Here is my question. She never used to drink or smoke and now she does both. She has gotten a tatoo and her nose pierced. Nothing trashy, actually very sexy. Her sex drive although it has always been strong is out of the roof. I feel like she is changing into a different person. Is this normal for what I have put her through? I know she still hurts inside and that kills me, I do not know what else to do but show her all the love I can. Is she going through a phase or have my actions changed her that much? How can I show her that I love and support her...

2007-04-22 02:22:05 · 20 answers · asked by Nothing but the truth...!! 3

We do not have a problem paying the past child support, the money doesn't matter. We are concerned for his daughter. We know he is the father. The daughter is 16. Last October she ran away from mothers house...Her probation officer said that if she is found she will go to a detention center for 2 years. She is listed as a runaway...We are looking for her...last we heard from her was a little over a month ago she said she was in Washington State. Now before she ran away the mother said she wanted us to take custody of her. The mother told the probation officer that she didn't want her and that she was going to give us custody. When she ran away the mother stopped all proceedings for us to get custody of her. Can she legally go after current child support for a child that does not live in her home?

2007-04-22 01:48:58 · 8 answers · asked by totallyserious29 2

but if a woman has a lover and she is married, what is he called?

2007-04-22 01:30:19 · 20 answers · asked by ♪♫♪justpassingby♪♫♪ 5

2007-04-22 01:06:39 · 30 answers · asked by robsmith6502 1

2007-04-22 01:03:02 · 17 answers · asked by queenbee 1

he still telling me that he loves me, that he didn't stop the divorce but still don't know what will be.the hope to divorce is getting smaller because he is home more then 2 months. he is telling me that still have chance our dreams to come true. Only to wait.But how long to wait. I love him and i didn't see him 2 weeks. I didn't want i told him that is better not to see me and talk to me but we talking on messenger.Telling me that he still love me, what i have from that? I'm feeling more worst.
I wrote him e-mail now. I gave him 2 solution, very soon to divorce and to be with me and second to stay at home and forget me, no talking,no meeting, nothing.
We were in very big love, those feelings never happened to me, he was calling me every day 20 times, we were meeting every day 2-3 times, we were talking of our future and children: David and Sara.
What to do?
Please somebody to give me some thinking

2007-04-22 00:51:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can I just simply notify banks , dvlc, etc

2007-04-22 00:28:44 · 24 answers · asked by crismus1 1