is this an ended relationship or am i just seeing things?

Question

i just dont know what to do anymore. i feel like me and my boyfriend
are growing farther apart than closer together. when we first got
together he would always show me lots of love and affection. now its
like he almost throws a fit when i want a kiss or a hug. he makes
excuses for "other" things too. when we sleep together, thats just
what we do, sleep. he wont even cuddle with me in bed because he says
it makes him all cramped up, blah blah blah. pretty much i just feel
like were friends and nothing more. ive tried talking to him but he
just says im beating on a bad subject. i dont think hes cheating on
me and i trust that hes not. he wont go out to karaoke with me
anymore like he used to. he says i always catch him at a bad time but
he never tells me when its a good time. i just need to know what to
do to get the man back that i fell in love with. its taring me up
inside and i cant even talk to any of my friends about it cause they
all know him and i dont want them to slip. im just afraid that will
make our relationship more rocky than it already is. i dont want to
loose him but im tired of him just bein my friend. i dont ask for
much. just a little attention is all i need and i have to practically
fight for that. i hope im not being selfish. i just need some advice.

Answer 1

well his indifference can be caused by many things.

he may not love you anymore and not know how to end it, and is waiting for you to just have enough.

maybe there is something wrong with the relationship. r u too demanding? are you doing anything to drive him away?
some times if he harbors resentment for you, he may not be interested in u sexually anymore.

the best thing is to talk to him about it. either way if it stays like this, it will end. so its better to talk about it and chance it.

Answer 2

there's nothing wrong with wanting a little bit of attention. It's normal. Maybe he's feeling that your going too fast with the relationship and if he step out of his comfort zone, he might do something wrong and loose you. And sometimes its okay to just sit down with him and talk it out. He might be playing hard to get. And its aight, just play hard to get back. If he doesnt want to hang with you, go with your friends. Tell him how you feel and how you're really worried about how your relashionship is going to turn out. Sometimes all you need is time away from each other. If he's feeling another chick than, thats that. He is not the only man in the world. There's always someone out there madly in love with you. You just never take the time to realize it. I hope everything goes okay ^.^

Answer 3

Try backing off a little, and see if he shapes up. I know it will be very hard not to wear your heart on your sleeve,but, you have to, to feel him out. Hold back a little. Don't keep questioning him about this or that. See what happens. After all, people want what they can't have and want more of that which they have to work for. Good Luck.

Answer 4

As much as you wish for things to be like they were, it looks like it isn't going to be. He has pulled away from you. You must move on as well. Someone who really loves you and wants you in their life does not act the way your boyfriend is acting.

Answer 5

maybe he has lost interest in you, ( this is common) . or his just been side tracked by something which he seems to find more important , try making him aware of the way you feel and hopefully he`ll understand and come to terms with you
good luck.

Answer 6

dont worry you will cheat on him in no time, he needs to listen to you but unfortunately for him he isnt going to. he will find out the hard way

Answer 7

seems like he's not in love with you anymore, cut your ties while you both still young and move on.
find someone that actually cares.

Answer 8

if your not comfortable with him or he doesn't pay attention to you then dump him..and find someone that does really care about you..