Marriage & Divorce - 11 April 2007

I called my ex crying and he never called me back. Things ended on a bad note with us. He was mostly at fault and I told him I wish I never met him and so on. But time went by and I felt horrible. So I called him and left him a message crying just telling him that I was sorry, but no response. He really hates me now and wants nothing to do with me. Did I make a huge mistake. I told him I never wanted him back like that. But I did want to try to get past things and he has not responded. I dont think he will:(( I did make a big mistake didn't I?

2007-04-11 13:53:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Story 2 long 2 tell. Separated over 6months. We said we'll go 2 da courthouse 2gather to file for divorce. However everytime I say lets go. He say he can't take off work? Do he really want a Divorce?Please try to just answer the question, really its a long story. I know we still love each other, just can't live togather any more. It may sound crazy to some. Other may understand. Please Help

2007-04-11 13:48:24 · 4 answers · asked by confused 1

If you think (but not sure) your Mother/Father is having an affair..you should?

2007-04-11 13:46:25 · 20 answers · asked by ELON 1

My husband just took off 2 weeks ago, I am pregnat by the way and we have 2 beautiful kids, 3 1/2 and 1. We are still married and I just dont think its fair my children should be around her. Do I have the right to ask for a custody agreement that states he may not have his children around this woman? I asked legal aid, and they said they heard of it being done before, but dont know if its oftemn a factor. I just want whats best for my kids, I think seeing their dad hug and kiss me just 2 weeks ago, and now do the same w/ this woman is immoral, WE ARE MARRIED! What is that saying to our kids?

2007-04-11 13:15:08 · 15 answers · asked by AntzaGurl 3

I just asked this question: "How do Get Her trust back?"

Should I Show her this answers from you guys in order to convence her that I am being honest with her.... (by the way) I broke Up with my Ex longer than six months.... we still talked kinda sorda.. untill about a three weeks

2007-04-11 12:49:46 · 8 answers · asked by webdesignsperu 1

In the state of Illinois, at what age does child support stop if the kid starts to work at 18 or stays in school ?

2007-04-11 12:09:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been having problems with my fiancee's family. His mother ran and told his sister in law that I cld her a lesbian which I never did. His sister says that I talk about his parents like they are dogs which I dont. Ive been threatened by his brother and his oldest sister. Everytime they decide to go to his mothers house I have to find somewhere to go. Its driving me nuts because I cant tell them how i really feel about them it will make things worse. These ppl are all about 10-20 yrs older than me and act like this. Help what should I say to them when they come at me with this crap without causing more problems. How do I tell them that they r liars?

2007-04-11 11:58:37 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-04-11 11:45:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has been having emotional to almost full blown sexual affairs in the past couple of months. She has been having an emotional affair with a person at her work who has suggested that she divorce me. It seems she has a deeper connection with the person then I do. She also had been initiated erotic chat with other men on the internet. I have gone to extreme measures to discover everything monitoring her email, keyboard loggers, etc. She agreed to stop her online relationships but refuses to break any contact with her coworker friend. Since then we have gone to counseling to try and make our marriage work, but I sill feel something is going on. I have found myspace accounts with pictures of her hugging and getting really friendly with her coworker and she still has secret email addresses. She also continues to get several text messages from this coworker all of the time. We are currently going to counseling, but I still feel like something is going on. Help?

2007-04-11 11:44:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know repulse is a strong word to use but i dont think i am being stuck up they are just quite disgusting only bathing once a week which makes them smell,wearing the same dossy clothes and socks for days on end, i have tried subtle hints but they were ignored. i dont want to cause a fight over the matter but they really need to realise how disgusting it is

2007-04-11 11:36:54 · 22 answers · asked by MARIE S 4

Thiers this guy who got out of jail recently and he has a tear on his eye which is like a tatoo but my husband says it was cause he got raped but i say he killed someone, which one is it?

2007-04-11 11:17:19 · 12 answers · asked by marilyn 1

I have this five year old son to deal wtith. Whatever.

I'm curious as to who the father is. I was seeing 3 guys during that time and was a little social during the weekends and stuff.

One of the dudes just sold his and his wife's business. If I could porove it's his i might be in the $$$$.

Can i just go to a doctor?

After all that i've been put thru, it's time fo ra big payday. I deserve it.

2007-04-11 11:17:09 · 7 answers · asked by Mel Dogg 1

We are in a committed relationship, but a year ago, he and my sister started an affair and ended up having sex several times. I've thought of how it has affected me. I still love my partner. I have forgiven him and my sister from the moment I found out. But i have trouble committing to him again. We have a lot of friendly togetherness in our relationship which makes it hard to leave coz it is great source of happiness for me. We can irritate each other alot tho. Also Im not very physicaly attracted to him. My desires stemmed from his faithfulness and our deeper connection. He said that he had the affair coz he got more affection from her. We have since been living separately, and iv found men who i find appealing attracted to me. Ive been faithful to him anyway. I can do more things i want if im not in a committed relationship. Do i stay and build on our friendship or should i go single and see the world b4 committing to any1? is it unfair 2 him 2b with me? He wants 2 work it out.

2007-04-11 11:06:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my husband in October because of mental and emotional abuse. The right before I left, he gave the ultimatum that it was his way or the highway and told me if I didn't do what he wanted me to, I shouldn't come home because I wouldn't want to know what the consequences would be. I left the next morning and went to a Safe House, ended up there for 1 1/2 months. I have always maintained that I didn't leave to leave for good...I love my husband and wanted to work on it with him. I tried to explain to him how he makes me feel with his repeated degrading remarks, lack of helping around the house, and continuous disregard for how many bills I covered vs how much he covered. At first, his attempt to get me back into the house was, "you will do this and this and this". He didn't listen to me at all, so I didn't go back. His next attempt was, "if you don't come home now, there will be another woman by the end of the week. I have someone in line". I didn't go back then either

2007-04-11 11:02:37 · 21 answers · asked by Shannon H 3

FIRST OFF IM NOT SHARING THEM!!
i just want to know what other wives have done. they say dont send pornographic material but my husband is such a guy. he will find some somehow. i dont think he is capable of masturbation with out porn, (it has torn our relationship to peices). lately he has been such a nice guy on the phone, just saying hte nicest things and not arguing. i love it. i want to show him how proud i am of him for bineg so nice to me and also i would rather him masturbate to my pics rather somone elses. so should i take some pics for him and send them or what? my friend (also military wife) said she would do it if her hubby was there but i dont know if there are other wives that actually have the guts to do it.

2007-04-11 11:01:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

flirting with some guy and telling him i wanted to hook up for some no strings attached sex. i wouldn't have, but i would have with some other guy if i were attracted to him. the worst part is that i was telling this guy that my husband never wants to have sex and that he can't handle me. which is true, but mean. i love my husband so much, but i've tried so many times to have a real sex life with him that now i don't see him as a sexual being at all. it's like being married to my gay best friend, except i can't paint his nails. i already know what you're gong to say-obviously the marriage is over. but like isaid before- i am welcoming all comments. be as mean or as nice or say whatever the hell you want. i'm just hoping that maybe something i read may inspire to know what to do. thanks!

2007-04-11 11:01:45 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do some husband have affairs and still don't want to leave there wifes. Why? And also what makes them think it's ok for them to stay in the marriage, when the wife told him to leave. And he won't.

2007-04-11 11:01:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

not be togeather again

2007-04-11 10:59:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

In court order, both parent are each order to pay one half of the uninsured potion of the medical, hospital, dental and orthodontistry expenses.

2007-04-11 10:58:22 · 16 answers · asked by Minako I 1

My husband will not stop smoking marijuana. I was okay with it at first because he said he was going to stop when we got married. Now that I want to have kids, I don't feel comfortable with him smoking anymore. Plus his habit is costing a lot of money. What should I do? I love him, but I don't know how long I can keep doing this.

2007-04-11 10:56:25 · 10 answers · asked by mustanglvr 1

Here are the facts: Wife and I married seven years and have been separated for eight months. During those eight months, I've had my boys over 60% of the time. I make $60,000 per year; she makes $52,000. We have two boys, ages 6 & 5; she also has two other boys, ages 12 & 14 from another marriage living with her about 90% of the time. There are no issues regarding abuse or drugs.

Currently, I pay all of the monthly $1,200 child care bill, plus the $400 a month med. insurance. According to various child support calculators, I'm paying much more than I should.

She says that she can't afford to pay anything, yet she's paying $200 a month for a housekeeper.

Those of you who have been before a CA judge, how has the judge determined child support? Is it strictly a numbers game, or do they take into consideration other more subjective things? Do they overly favor the mother?

Anyone that has been through this kind of thing, please share your thoughts.

Thanks!

2007-04-11 10:33:32 · 7 answers · asked by Kevin H 1

My ex and I were together 14 years, he got involved with a nightmare, he left me for her, cause he could not deal with the guilt of what he did, though he is still in my life, sexually, emotionally. She knows we are very much connected, so she has gotten pregnant twice, both times she loses the baby, she harrasses me constantly, and though he lives there now, he cannot formally live there, he is unhappy, and does not stay away for long, I love him more than I can say, I can not seem to move on, though I have had lots of therapy, he is the love of my life, he is unhappy, and I just can't seem to make him see, that I forgave him so long ago, I just don't know what I should do, he will not say good bye, he will not stay away, we talk, and laugh, and spend time together, but I want him home, with me, and I don't no if I can make it happen, I have lost 40 lbs, and 7 sizes, I look awesome, but it is not enough, I feel lost, though when I see him, I feel so much joy, for days Help

2007-04-11 10:29:53 · 4 answers · asked by mattymycat 1

2007-04-11 10:29:02 · 2 answers · asked by dena s 1

2007-04-11 10:04:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love this 35 year old man ....he is married and he has 2 kids. i saw him last night and he tried so hard to hide his feelings from me but i know that he knows that we belong together.i just want to be with him and hold him and touch him everyday but HE IS MARRIED!!!! what can i do???? i sleep with his picture under my pillow at night thinking of what we can be ......but i have no idea how to get thru to him and make him love me. help me....i`m desperately dying!!!

2007-04-11 09:59:45 · 27 answers · asked by dog head 1

2007-04-11 09:58:43 · 43 answers · asked by justcurious 1

Or are they the same thing when having to prove a legal marriage

2007-04-11 09:53:53 · 9 answers · asked by ZZZ>>>>ARA!!! 1

My husband began building our current home as a single man 4 years ago. It is a great size 4 bedroom house for a family, but I would like to be a part of choosing the home that our family is going to live in long term. We have a 15 month old daugter and I just found out that I'm pregnant again. I want to move into our dream house sooner than he does. He wants to wait until our daughter is 4 when we have to move for the school disctrict. How do I convince him to move now. We've been in this house now for 3 years and the market it is so bad that we won't get what we paid for the house. I just really want to move into the home of our dreams! :0

2007-04-11 09:35:54 · 6 answers · asked by MBA mom 2

I think if I sit through baseball games with my husband that he should not complain when I am watching something on Lifetime. Don't you think that is fair.

2007-04-11 09:35:09 · 15 answers · asked by MommyofTwo 3

When we met he'd been divorced for 1.5 yrs. She didn't talk or let the kids talk to my husband until she found out we were dating. She would also txt & email him with nothing relating to the kids. She told him that she only got pregnant & married him to get out of her parent's (they were teenagers). I don't stop him from seeing or talking to his kids. I don't want the kids to grow up hating me. She's constantly harassing me & I say nothing to avoid drama. I know she'll always be there because of their kids but what do I do to let her know that our marriage is not going to end like theirs? That all I want is for her to stay out of our marriage? I wish she would just accept the fact that WE ARE happy. Is she just miserable and pretending to be happy w/her new man? If she doesn't "care" or "love" him why is she interested in our marriage & the things we own. Why does she hate me so much? She says that we are pretending to be happy. I mostly want to hear from ppl who've been through this.

2007-04-11 09:21:55 · 22 answers · asked by Jocelyn's mommy 4