I called my ex crying and he never called me back. Things ended on a bad note with us. He was mostly at fault and I told him I wish I never met him and so on. But time went by and I felt horrible. So I called him and left him a message crying just telling him that I was sorry, but no response. He really hates me now and wants nothing to do with me. Did I make a huge mistake. I told him I never wanted him back like that. But I did want to try to get past things and he has not responded. I dont think he will:(( I did make a big mistake didn't I?
2007-04-11 13:53:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I called him because it felt horrible to me the way we left things off, I never wanted him back like that even back then. My heart hurts because....I don't know...I have one maybe? I thought we had a close connection on several levels. I thought even after all the confusion he would think the same... I suppose not:(
2007-04-11 14:03:23 · update #1
the same kinda thing happened to me. we had a huge fight and he ignored me for a month....a whole month, phone calls everything. I was really upset so i decided to entertain myself and have a fling with a guy at work and i changed my phone number ;) It took my mind off it then after a month of him ignoring me, he got in tough with loads of emails saying how sorry he was........now were married :)
im sure you will be fine, he wont ignore you forever. Just do something to take your mind off it.
2007-04-11 15:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sophia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never call an ex crying, makes you look desperate. That is a mistake, letting him think you are still in love with him. Why, you said things ended badly because it being his fault, why do you need to do anything, didnt you learn from the lesson the first time around? Why would he reply? He has nothing to say, he has moved on with his life as you should have yours, good luck
2007-04-11 14:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mistake you made was thinking he was mostly at fault. He isn't you are both equally otherwise you wouldn't have called crying. I don't blame him for not calling you back, he should just move on and don't look back. Maybe he realizes that you are not right for him, that you unfairly blame him for your problems and he can do better.
You told him you don't want him back, was he not suppose to believe you?
2007-04-11 14:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself. Live and learn. You sound like a nice person with a big heart. My advice would be: do not call him back again. It is his loss - you deserve better. It will hurt but try to get past this, move on and find a nice guy. Good luck!!
2007-04-11 14:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by brian M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you feel bad? you said he was at fault. and it must have been bad if you said you wish you never met him and you will never get back together with him.... and you were just speaking your feelings at the moment. he cant hate you for being upset that he did something awful. just put it behind you and move on. if he doesnt want you, what can you do? you should find someone better, anyway.
2007-04-11 14:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just goes to show you made the right move
2007-04-11 13:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by panda bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mia, focus on career and yourself. get away from relationships for awhile. it sounds like your not ready for one.
2007-04-11 14:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by just hanging around 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the big mistake was calling him crying........he's already over you......
2007-04-11 13:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on he proble did
2007-04-11 13:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by mack 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋