Marriage & Divorce - 6 October 2006

I asked my wife to have anal sex but she is refusing for over a year. She was a virgin when I married her. She says that I can do whatever in the front but not the back. She's a muslim and wears a headscarf

Am I being unreasonable?

2006-10-06 12:29:25 · 13 answers · asked by Mr Business 3

I can't get over my soon to be ex-husband. I think maybe I entered the relationship in a rebound type of situation because my husband is really selfish at times, and immature, and hard to get along with at times, but our passion is like hot fire and he TOTALLY satisfies me sexually. My boyfriend is GREAT too, but not really in comparison to my soon to be ex.......but my boyfriend is a close number 2.
My boyfriend is trying so hard....and he's sweet, loving, affectionate, and all of that but I can't get my ex out of my mind. It doesn't help that lateley my boyfriend has been SUPER insecure and asking "comparison" questions about him and my ex. Ofcourse I lie because I don't want him to feel bad......but he is turning me off with the insecurity and when he brings my ex up he only REMINDS me of how amazing our passion was ALL the time, instead of how it is with the boyfriend....just SOME of the time. The relationship with the ex was dysfunctional, but I loved him. How can I forget him?

2006-10-06 12:28:54 · 8 answers · asked by lilac b 3

when my boyfriend moved into my house with me with nothing but his clothes and a clapped out car ,i was concerned that if we split up he could claim half of my house and as i have two children i was worried so i had a trust deed that he signed but as i have found out to my cost it was not worth the paper it was written on.as he contested it .to cut a long story short it was a legal binding document ,i was told that when it went to court i would win but it would take approx 18months and a huge amount of money to get that far i supported him for years when he was out of work i even paid his child maintenance

2006-10-06 12:21:43 · 5 answers · asked by demmi 2

2006-10-06 12:09:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ignoring the fact that uncut is more ugly and ignoring the fact that it may have smegma, which one actually feels better for the girl. I've heard that due to the friction a cut one causes, it feels better for the woman. Is there any truth to this ladies??? No guys please theres no possible way you could know this unless your asking your wife!!!!

2006-10-06 12:02:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

for someone two to three years if the both of you were in love with one another, but because of college can not be together the way you to want to be? (By the way we are in our thirtys, so this isn't some kind of puppy love.) Or would you just move on with your life?

2006-10-06 11:59:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-06 11:41:09 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

Could you help me with this situation? I had co-signed for an ex-lover to purchase a vehicle about three years ago. I haven’t heard from this person in over two years. I came home Wednesday night to find the vehicle sitting in my driveway, with the keys, and the registration in it. There wasn’t a note or a message or anything.
I called the finance company and they had told me that the payments where always made on time except for the last three months. I also found out that the registration was three months behind as well as a few tickets on it.
So, I made the payments to the finance company to catch it up. I am taking care of the registration and tickets. As well as added the vehicle to my insurance.
Now I want to protect myself if I am going to take on the financial responsibility of the vehicle.
I am unable to reach my ex and I think that he may have even left the country for a period of time.
The registration lists him or me as the owners of the vehicle. Which is apparently different then if it was listing as him/me.
DMV is telling me that this makes it possible to remove him from the registration of the vehicle with out his signature.
Now DMV will not remove him from the vehicle until he is removed from the loan from the finance company. The finance company is telling me that I need to refinance the vehicle and take on a new loan myself.
O.K. sounds easy enough. Right?
Well, I am trying to refinance the vehicle and nobody will take it until DMV removes him from the registration.
So DMV will not remove him until the finance company does, and the finance company wont remove him until DMV does.
Big problem!
It seems that the only choice I have is to continue paying the loan and keeping him on there as an owner. Once the loan is paid off, I can go to DMV and have him removed.
Now my question is how do I protect myself from my ex just coming over and driving off with the vehicle. Assuming that he has as much legal right to this vehicle then I do.
Is there a way for me to legally take over ownership of the vehicle without being able to contact him? Assuming he has just abandoned the vehicle? At least for now.
Do I as the co-signer have more legal right to the vehicle then he does? What can I do to remove his rights to the vehicle at this point?

2006-10-06 11:36:36 · 3 answers · asked by sfcastrolionmark 2

2006-10-06 11:35:00 · 3 answers · asked by mario_pimpin2004 1

2006-10-06 11:31:27 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous

She keeps her finanaces a secret. She doesn't say where she is going. She doesn't say when she will be home. She talks in a foreign language on the phone for hours. There are many other examples.

2006-10-06 11:28:07 · 31 answers · asked by J T 6

2006-10-06 11:28:03 · 28 answers · asked by Sexy Lady 27 1

after having a baby

2006-10-06 11:27:39 · 18 answers · asked by kristina 1

2006-10-06 11:20:41 · 6 answers · asked by anonymous 1

If they have separate accounts, is it ok for the wife to take money out of her husband's account without asking?

2006-10-06 11:18:21 · 34 answers · asked by J T 6

She is pregnant...I have been pregnant twice, it is not cancer.
She is costantly complaining about her pains, she is so sick, however she can wolf down Taco Bell, Gold Star Chili & McDonalds with no problem AND get seconds and thirds at the dinner table.
She has missed tons of work, not because of Dr. appts, not because of complications, because she is lazy and wants to watch FRIENDS DVD's all freaking day.
She has used this pregnancy as a crutch to get out of her share of housework as well.
They are financially strapped and she is the bread winner, the one with the insurance, the main source of family finacial security.
All she talks about is the pregnancy, nothing else ever.
My brother is depressed, he spends alot of time with friends playing poker on the internet, etc, looking for an escape.
I love my SIL and want to tell her to be a wife & a person NOT just a pregnancy before she loses her marriage. When the baby is born it will get worse I can see that.
No intimacy there

2006-10-06 11:13:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been arguing lately and b/c of that I have not been in the mood. He says I don't perform in bed anymore. So I am determined, no matter how tired i am to give what he needs tonight. Other than that any ideas to help him relax we are both stressed out lately.

2006-10-06 11:10:21 · 11 answers · asked by Wouldn't u like to know 2

I have been with my husband for 7 years. We have two sons 4 and 1. We'll have our 1st anniversary on the 26th, and lived with each other for the last 3 1/2 years. I filed for a divorce in March, because I felt like I didn't know what else to do. We were having money problems and argueing a lot. Plus we are a blended family, with him having 2 other children from before me, and myself with 2 other children before. I love him dearly and he moved back in to reconsile. 2 months later he moved out again. I don't feel that a real try was ever really given. We are seperated once again, and going through with the divorce. I want to talk to him, but don't know how or what to say. I need help here. I do love him, and want to work things out. However, when we are around each other we just shut down and don't talk. I just want to know how to approach him with the topic, and really talk to him. I want him to know I love him, don't want a divorce, and want to work on things still. What should I do

2006-10-06 11:05:36 · 11 answers · asked by Evie 2

hi guys i been married with this guy for 5 yrs and he treats me like ****. im tired of it i left him for 6 good months and now a couple a months he comes back and says he sorry he wont do it again same bull **** i deal with 5 yrs i told him to leave me alone and now he says that he is not caplebale of leaving me again that he ll kill him self he is 30 yrs old a im full of it help (he has a resiting order and he still doesnt leave me alone HELP

2006-10-06 11:05:02 · 11 answers · asked by playa 1

ex has filed for modification of custody. I have a beautiful home and a stable lifestyle. Ex has continously tried and succeeded in alienating my childrens affections. He has turned me into dhs more than 10 times in the past 2 years claiming child abuse. I have been investigated several times and the claims were always determined to be unfounded. He has convinced my kids that they are abused. And when asked if they are abused they say yes because mom spanks me. When visiting their dad they become upset when I come to get them. Now, I had an incident happen in home that is NOT good. My husband had been drinking which he does on occasion. On this day he was very intoxicated and threatened that he was going to shoot my dog. When he went to the closet for his gun, I held him down. I had the kids call the police. When they arrived they arrested us both for domestic violence. Now ex is filing for custody on those grounds. Do I stand a chance in court, or am I going to lose

2006-10-06 11:03:23 · 6 answers · asked by lilmisstickletoo 3

Guys...does your lady satisfy your every need? You know what I mean. Does she do whatever you ask?

2006-10-06 11:03:21 · 8 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4

My husband who I've been married to for 3 years, & been with for almost 10 yrs. we were best friends, soul mates, had a great sex life, & rarely fought and he cheated on me. It happened during the last three months of my pregnancy. I've forgiven my husband but I will never forget the horrible thing he did to me and his daughter. He still to this day can not give me a reason for why he did what he did only that he was curious about what it'd be like to be with some one other then me. The girl was 3 yrs. older then me and fat & ugly. So I know looks had nothing to do with it, b/c I'm drop dead gorgeous & I have an extremely high sex drive. My man was always getting some, and I'm adventurous, always roleplaying, & trying new things in the bedroom, even during my pregnancy. I only gained 24 lbs. during the pregnancy and I've lost 34 lbs since then so that's not it either. Just let me know what you all think about what happened to me. Thanks!!!

2006-10-06 10:48:43 · 23 answers · asked by shimmy 1

how do i get over my sexual inhibitions? i think of fun new things i want to do, i'll even tell my husband about them, or I'll say he gets to choose, but i always wind up feeling embarrassed or too shy to actually do it. he's supportive, and we've been together over 5 years, i was just brought to think all types of sex are dirty. it's really hard to get that out of my head...... help!

2006-10-06 10:45:10 · 14 answers · asked by mrs_eke 2

2006-10-06 10:44:09 · 22 answers · asked by Dr. B 1

2006-10-06 10:41:56 · 21 answers · asked by reeltimesniffer 1

While I try to explain it's me and not him, he can't help but take it personally. I can get there with a vibrator or the right shower attachment, but not with foreplay or intercourse and being on top is actually painful (like being stabbed in the stomach) Does anyone have any advice. I've tried using a toy simutaneously, but that doesn't work. Is there anyone else with this problem?

2006-10-06 10:38:43 · 27 answers · asked by bml28 2

we lived together for9 years, got married for nine years and then filed for divorce. we seperated for 6 mths and I had found a significant other,when my ex found that out , he asked me to come back. I want to leave , what should I do?

2006-10-06 10:34:12 · 16 answers · asked by Dee Dee 1

For me it's any song of Los Lobos' album By The Light Of The Moon.

(One of the best american bands ever.)

2006-10-06 10:27:49 · 34 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

Im currently deployed overseas. I met my wife in basic training and lately im wondering if I really do love her? I feel like I rushed into it so fast. I just turned 20 and im coming off my deployment.. and my son who will be a year old in a matter of weeks Ive seen a total of maybe 3 weeks. I want to see him so bad, but im already looking at volunteering to go on another deployment, just because of my marriage.. I would rather face the enemy then my wife. I feel like a coward, but also feel like a failure as a husband because as hard as I want to try to make it work..deep down inside I dont really want to, but I also dont wanna do that to my son. I say I love my wife on the outside but I feel different on the inside, I dont like who she is even though she is a good woman, she just doesnt fit "me".How to tell a wife who loves you more than anything with what most people would look at as a perfect family that you dont love her? and deal with myself afterwards.. or am I wrong completely?

2006-10-06 10:27:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

She can be so unreasonable some times.

2006-10-06 10:23:03 · 18 answers · asked by S K 7