for someone two to three years if the both of you were in love with one another, but because of college can not be together the way you to want to be? (By the way we are in our thirtys, so this isn't some kind of puppy love.) Or would you just move on with your life?
2006-10-06 11:59:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move on. Love or not life is too short to wait. You or her could die tomorrow. Live life to the fullest, and at the end of the two years if you two are still in love with one another than reunite and start your lives all over.
2006-10-06 12:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no other alternative except to wait or to move on. . .wait. If you're worth it for one another, you'll find a way to be together eventually. It goes fast when you're in school anyway. If you moved on, you'll always wonder what would have happened anyway. Just keep the relationship going in the meantime (e-mail, calls, visits) and concentrate on your individual priorities and needs and know things may not work out anyway the better you know each other. Be ready though. If you're both done with college in 2-3 years be sure your own stuff is in order so you can have a complete relationship without the excuse of college. Dumb question: why can't you have both college and a relationship and just scale back your expectations for time?
2006-10-06 19:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by French4charityimpminusi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This comes down to if you cant wait a couple of years for her then what chance do you have of making it last for years? Just accept the way things are staus quo for however long it takes. It sounds like youre willing to wait but are impatient and thats not a good thing. Shes sounds like she is worth waiting for so do it if shes the one you want. Waiting is such a small sacrifice in the name of love
2006-10-06 19:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait! I have a cousin who is 42, she waited for her now hubby of 9 yrs for six years. he went to college and after he graduated went straight to work in a field he didn't go to school for! He then made some great investments and when he felt he was ready to settle down he came back to our area and a month later they got married! They kept in touch the whole time but they never visited each other they just talked in the phone and sent letters!! He says that's what kept him going and how they stayed in love the whole time!! It does happen but I would be just as skeptical if I was in that same situation!!! Good Luck!!! :)
2006-10-06 19:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it can be done. A lot of phone calls, personal letters, holidays together .. one flys in one time .. the other person the next time. If you feel certain this person is the one .. there are ways to make it work. But if you are unsure .. or if the other person is unsure .. then it might be time to move on. It's a very tough choice and I wish you the best! :)
2006-10-06 19:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that you really and truely love each other of course you should wait i would. Iwas told the sweetest thing the other day-" AGE IS JUST A NUMBER" so the timing shouldnt matter. So if you know you really and truely love her ther should be no problem in waiting
2006-10-06 19:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ruthie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd wait. I met my husband online 8 years ago. We've been together 5 years. We just got married in June. Yes, I'd wait. He's worth it.
2006-10-06 19:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your truely in love with eachother, then wait. If you move on and your in love with her, your never going to be able to completely fall for another woman.
2006-10-06 19:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by amgpsycho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is worth waiting for.
2006-10-07 03:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Harvie Ruth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! True love only comes along once. If it is right, waiting will not be a problem.
2006-10-06 21:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by nichole2583 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋