why are women bitter and twisted?

Answer 1

Well, I'm going to treat this as a serious question, although it's so general that it might be:

1) a joke from someone trying to see how many women are offended, or
2) a "vent" from someone who just had a bad experience.

The obvious answer is "they're not." All women aren't any one thing, any more than all men are. For sure, there are bitter, twisted women, just as there are stunted, angry men - but thank God, neither makes up the majority.

The less-obvious answer is that we're all a bit bent, one direction or another, and we all have our "stuff." It takes a very mature soul to learn from bad experiences, put them in context, and move on without lingering ill effects. Most of us do that to lesser or greater degrees, and tote our unresolved stuff around behind us everywhere we go, like a toddler refusing to part with his favorite blanket.

It can be a hard world to be a woman in, but then, it can be a hard world to be a man in. People have expectations, and preconceived notions, and few of us fit comfortably into the pigeonholes other people would assign us.

Unfortunately, we don't always know what our preconceived notions or expectations are, which leaves us unsatisfied (how can you look for something to fill a hole you don't know the size or location of, or existence of?).

I'm guessing you've met one (or more) of life's walking wounded. It may be that you're noticing their shortcomings more than you do those of the men around you, either because you hope for more from, expect more from, and watch more closely the women you meet, or because the failings of the men feel more famliar, so less like failings...

...but we all have them. The trick is to identify your own and decide what to do about them, and find someone else who is also trying to get healthier, and work on your stuff together.

I hope you find that. Good luck!

Answer 2

Dear Tim,

Answer this question and "you" will know why women are bitter and twisted.....why do you perceive women to be bitter and twisted ? People often see things through their preconceived perceptions Change your perception--- and you may just find some sweet, intelligent women. Aren't you old enough not to let "her" who ever she was get the best of you? You sound like you've been burned bad and the after taste has left you bitter & your thooughts twisted ! And if ya" keep bumping into bitter, twisted women change the venue!

Answer 3

I am a guy, and I have to disagree with you on the women. Maybe you had trouble with the women you were out with, but not all women are bitter and twisted. I know some guys that are bitter and twisted, but I do not classify myself as one of those.
You might want to talk to a doctor and find out why you made that statement. I wish you the best of luck.
Please, do not consider every woman this way.
Stop, and Think About It.

Answer 4

I would like to start off by saying you look like a murder suspect in that picture, but maybe that was wrong of me to judge you when I don't know you, HUH??? All women aren't "Bitter" nor are they all "Twisted!" If you have put a particular women through a hard time like cheating on them or using them and then leaving them etc. then, they may have the right to be bitter and twisted toward you! be sides what is your definition of twisted and bitter???

Answer 5

women and men aren't bitter or twisted they are just tired of the games people play with there hearts and minds. Take in consideration of how it feels to be taken for granted and talk to all crazy by ppl . That would make you a Lil bit upset. Basically stop treating folks bad that's both sexes . Because men get hurt and used and that makes men really twisted and men why do you think men call women whores and stuff etc. or why they wanna play women all the time . An why women want o hurt men all the time . It starts in the house the house they were raised in. If men were raised in a house with a twisted goldiggin mom there gonna learn how to be twisted and morally bankrupted on how to treat women, if girls were raised with no father or there dad walked out them an their mom for another woman they are going have trust issues. Basically all i am say in if ppl would stop the carnage of dead bodies by hurting ppl there would be a lot less bitter twisted men and women. just next time you want to do ppl dirty think about how you'd feel that goes out to the ones doing the dogging etc. just think about an men stop callin us bitter think about where it comes from stop the endless games y'all play stop trying to conquer all the panties in the world . just stop it and women stop being goldiggers. think before you hurt anyone......

Answer 6

There are good people and bad people. Usually they end up with like minded individuals... Maybe the bitter and twisted women are a perfect match for you. The truth hurts I know!

Answer 7

Not all women are bitter and twisted, mmm not me, i am happy, and love life, so whos bitter and twisted..

Answer 8

The honest truth is because of the way our brains work, men have this amazing luxury of not caring about how their actions make other people feel while women dwell on things. I know many times when my husband and I fight he can just go straight to sleep while I stay up the whole night worrying and the next morning he acts like nothing happened. How lucky men are that they don't care.

Answer 9

ver simplified much, men do care, men are exhausted and tired with women who claim to care, but don't at all, they are unfortunately, as many bitter and twisted women, as there are men, who, cause men to just despair and give up, because they find them absurd, hateful and bizzare, the way some women wield women power, ends jobs, affects, their future and sometimes, ruins reputations, some women are incredibly dangerous, please try thinking in future

Answer 10

most womens problems like bitterness/ nastiness etc spring from having been spoilt all there lives - starting with their fathers being over protective of their little princess to sex mad men lavishing attention on women in the hope of getting in their knickers this leads them into a mental situation where they always expect to get their own way - when that doesn't happen they react in the same way an infant does when it doesn't get the sweet it wanted ie ; it throws the dummy out of the pram. harsh words but true.