Marriage & Divorce - 6 October 2006

I'm in love with my best friend's ex. He also happens to be a great friend of mine, so we see each other quite often. I really don't know what to do. I think he's attracted to me too, but have the same apprehensions I do. Should I tell him I love him? Or to my friend? Please, I need some advice. Thanks

2006-10-06 10:22:52 · 13 answers · asked by clueless 1

When I first introduced my littlest sister to my husband (at the time we just started dating) everything seemed to go well, Until that fateful evening. That first night, my sisters (I have another sister who gets along well with my husband as she and him respect eachother and not cross boarders when they interact and I feel no problem with him complimenting her and calling her beautiful in any way because it comes from a solid place as she is beautiful) my littlest sister (the one who took it upon herself to flirt with my husband and my other sisters boyfreind =( and him were "playing games" as he now refers to the incident, as it took him very long for him to admit! there were ALOT of small talks between them, her giving him the eye bat to appear mysterious and he fell for it..it dragged on through his encounters with her. He treats her the way he treats me and it feels awkward. When I brought it up to him when it first took place he called me insecure but the thing is I wasn't.

2006-10-06 10:21:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I even try to discuss it he gets all pissy. He chews gum constantly and I can't begin to describe how repulsed I am. I have suggested that he see his dentist if his teeth bother him but he says they are fine, he just likes to go without them.
I am ready to bail!

2006-10-06 10:20:41 · 7 answers · asked by Joy B 1

I have recently seperated from my wife of 4 years. Reasons being - my bosiness; arrogance; stubborness; i am unable to let my true emotions show, among others. How do I discover what has made me the way I am?

2006-10-06 10:19:17 · 6 answers · asked by rabbit_gate 1

2006-10-06 10:13:09 · 9 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3

I have been married 2 yrs. now. me and my husband dated 2 yrs. before we were married. We have always had a good sex life up until recently. He doesn't seem interested in sex anymore. Ive also noticed he masturbates more often. He acts like he's scared to even kiss me b/c he thinks im going to want sex! For instance last night he was falling asleep on the chair and i got him up and asked him if he wanted to go to bed. Well, to make a long story short he didn't want to go to bed b/c he thought i wanted sex. He say's its gotten routine and old. What i don't understand though is he has no prob masturbating. I know he's not cheating on me for a fact. his sis came over a month ago and he got one of his old friends # from her. Well, i found it and hid it and he made me give it to him! hes always saying how big her boobs are 7 how he would have sex with her if we wasn't married. i don't know if he's not interested or if i dont turn him on. What do u think?

2006-10-06 10:09:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

just met someone from Center Valley Pa. .and I am thinking of visiting the area. What is it like....what do you do there....what are the people really like in the area....tell me anything and everything

2006-10-06 10:08:42 · 2 answers · asked by rita 1

i have recently become a church officer and my wife is not as dedicated as i am!

2006-10-06 10:08:41 · 15 answers · asked by john d 1

at the bottom of the stairs? Guys can answer too. We are taking a huge couch down from upstairs, and I'm stronger than she is, where should she go?

2006-10-06 10:05:45 · 12 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I was really interested in seeing how many people would berate me and tell me what a bad person i was and i guess their ae alot of people who really are faithful to their marriages and their lives it was interesting to see the answers to my question...

2006-10-06 10:05:02 · 7 answers · asked by busy_softball_mom 2

Is there a box to tick to say you kinda grew apart or one that says actually should never have got married in the first place! Would like to make it as pain free as there are children involved, access not a problem he's a good dad, child support I trust later he will sort out too.

2006-10-06 10:00:14 · 16 answers · asked by GalaxyGirl 2

Im not looking to leave my husband at this point because of my kids but looking for just a person to be close to and have conversations with ....does that make me bad?

2006-10-06 09:53:58 · 39 answers · asked by busy_softball_mom 2

have a homosexual encounter. if it was only one time. and thats all .Just to get it out of thier system

2006-10-06 09:45:39 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

and if you did please answer these questions:

1. are you divorced or still married?
2. how long have your married last or been going?
3. did you regret living together before marriage, or no?

2006-10-06 09:45:36 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

This may be a strange question, but can I just change it back or does it have to go through the courts?

2006-10-06 09:41:55 · 31 answers · asked by emma c 3

My husband has always had trouble sleeping but the past year it has gotten worse. Last summer I was talking to a girl I worked with telling her my problems which I shouldn't have because since then my mind has been all bent. Last summer as soon as I would lay down my husband would roll and kick his feet I would get up and go to the couch. It got on my nerves and deel inside something told me he didn't want me to sleep with him the girl I worked with said he is getting it (sex) somewhere else. This summer he has had trouble sleeping. I have stayed up three hours to give him time to sleep and sometimes I am able to sleep with him cause he is sleeping but something goes off in my head when he can't sleep that he don't love me and he doesn't want me to sleep with him. We was having sex every other weekend now maybe three times a month. We work all the time and are tired a lot. He still wants to have sex with me though. I hope he isn't cheating. How do I get these thoughts out of my head?

2006-10-06 09:41:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

OBVIOUSLY THE WORLD IS COMING TO AN END !! IT IS NOT ENOUGH WE HAVE LOADS OF GAYS AND LESBIANS AROUND.. WE HAVE MEN REQUESTING THEIR WIVES TO HAVE 3SOME WITH OTHER MEN..FREAkS

2006-10-06 09:39:58 · 19 answers · asked by julia1975 4

2006-10-06 09:38:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-06 09:37:48 · 1 answers · asked by james t 1

he broke up with that woman nad says things are going to be better, i don´t know what to do , we have 3 chidren and have been married for 10 years , i´m good looking , in shape , good at sex, is he still thinking of her ? how can i make him love me the way he did? i´m 34 and he is 44. i need help

2006-10-06 09:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by silvia i 1

I don't have much money, so it can't be at the mall.

2006-10-06 09:37:08 · 28 answers · asked by S K 7

My wife and i seperated for the first time almost 3 months ago. We have been married for almost 5 years when one day she comes home and tells me she has found someone else. So i moved, and our 2 children stay with me most of the time. Now she comes to where i am, and wanting to talk to me.
Now she says she wants to try to work things out. She said she cheated on me with 2 guys in a lil over a year, and only cheated 3 times all together between the two of them.
Will she quite cheating? or will this continue? Can she quite cheating, or will this continue? i know we had problems, but i have been willing to work on them, but she wasn't. I still love her but don't want to continue this if its not gonna work. Is it possible that if we worked things out that she would be faithful??
or is it really true, once a cheater, always a cheater?????

2006-10-06 09:34:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

On of the main things my husband and I disagree on is how to show someone love. I show that I love him in romantic ways, by taking care of him, by making sure his needs are met (cooking, cleaning, having lunches packed, etc), and by listening to him.

He says all that is needed is for me to let him out of the house more, and to make sure dinner is ready.

There is an emotional connection not being met. Maybe it's just a miscommunication.... or I am I wrong by thinking this isn't love really. At least not being in love?

Maybe I am just being too damn picky....

(excuse the ramblings of a sad married woman)

2006-10-06 09:32:39 · 5 answers · asked by Willalee 5

2006-10-06 09:32:16 · 19 answers · asked by KANDACE 1

I would love some advise from non-professional (stupid) sources. I am a male doctor nearly 40 years old. I was very poor all my life until about 35 when i finaly became a physician. So poor I didnt have food all the time, no car, nearly homeless. I never got a girl because even though I am nice and average looking, my life was full of hardship. Anyhow, I have tried so hard and canot find any girl to date me. I am getting older, and most women my age are married, or have kids and are divorced (and have been "fixed"), or do not want any more children. You can forget me ever getting a younger girl (who wants an old fart).

I want a biological child of my own. No adoption, or some other mans child.

Does anyone have some advise for me? What would you do in my situation, or women what can you tell me?

2006-10-06 09:28:26 · 7 answers · asked by need answers 1

I've been having a difficult time lately, and the problems between my husband are adding up. We got married because I was pregnant, and I don't think we were ever in love with each other.

We have been married for 6 years, and we try to make things work. I am very committed to my spouse and I love him... but there's a lack of a spark... both emotionally and sexually between us.

Recently, I have come to the conclusion, that I think maybe it's not the best idea to stay together just because we have a child. I notice that the both of us are increasingly unhappy.

We have tried marital therapy, and it worked for a while, but it didn't solve the "chemistry" problem... as we call it. We have open communication, and aside from this we get along well.

I don't know what to do. I don't WANT to leave him, but I am not happy with him either.

Any suggestions?

2006-10-06 09:25:57 · 19 answers · asked by Willalee 5

I need them both in my life, just not at the same time. I love my wife's cooking, and my ex-lover knows things about me that I don't want my wife to find out about.

2006-10-06 09:25:51 · 22 answers · asked by S K 7

I have asked her to tell me what she likes. She says she doesn't know

2006-10-06 09:22:12 · 23 answers · asked by alknowing 1

We both wanted children and when we found out my wife could not bear a child to term we tried everything except adoption as my wife di not want to adopt. Since then I kept telling my self it would be OK. In the last year many other things have been happening between us and the idea of children has resurfaced for me. I feel as though I have changed my mind about it being OK. I really feel like I want a child of my own. In the beginning I would have been willing to adopt but, I think I feel differently about that now also. This is kind of a weird question coming from a man but, I don't feel like I have stopped loving my wife although things have been in kind of a downward spiral. I think it is more the result of my ambivalence due to the children issue. Surrogacy is way out of our league financially. Unfortunately I don't think I will feel satisfied in life if I don't take a good chance at being a father. I know that I may still fail but I will have taken my chances.

2006-10-06 09:21:57 · 30 answers · asked by D v 1

2006-10-06 09:18:33 · 6 answers · asked by DEANNAV 1