2006-10-06 09:32:16 · 19 answers · asked by KANDACE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since your friend is married, as is the guy, she has no business allowing it to get to the point where she is now "in love". Apparently commitment doesn't mean too much. Either she's married (and acts like it), or she isn't (and doesn't act like it)- it's that simple.
2006-10-06 09:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy that your friend is in love with, does he feel the same? Or is this a "crush" on your friends part? Is your friend having problems at home? If they both feel the same, then this is a bomb waiting to go off for the 2 of them. Most guys always look around to cheat on their wives but not get serious. But lets say they get divorces and they get together, will she ever think that he may be cheating on her like he had done with his 1st wife??? Cheaters usually lose everything. get out while you can, or she can??!!
2006-10-06 09:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by mailbox1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice, dont even go there . Not unless you are prepared to be very very hurt. I gave up a marriage to do just that, and ended up the looser. Spent three xmas's on my own crying while he was with his family. And after my husband divorced me, he now is remarried and happy and im on my own with nothing. All because the guy i fell in love with couldnt committ. So after 8 yrs of pain and misery i have ended it . Now i have to start all over again. If a married man was dripped in gold i wouldnt go there. Trust me.
2006-10-06 10:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by millygreen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question is, how strong is her marriage and is she still in love with her husband? Is he in love with his wife? If no to both answers, then I think it's time to move on. They need to sit down with their respective spouses and explain the situation. No point in being in a marriage with no love.
2006-10-06 09:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Forceof1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That situation never works. Runnnnnn. Breaks the trust rule of a good relationship right off the bat.
2006-10-06 09:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not doing anything to you so therefore you should just stay out of it. If you do not like her ways tell her you would rather not hear about the affair she is having ,ask her to talk about something else.
2006-10-06 09:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's a problem. They should leave each other alone and deal with their current spouses. Once they've ended their marriages, then they can pursue each other, but not before.
2006-10-06 09:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love is about others not about oneself.
This is a clear case of lust.
Lust is also known as 'pizza love'. It's all about consuming the pizza, not preserving it. In True Love you preserve, not consume others.
2006-10-06 09:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by M. K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking what YOU should do or what THEY should do? It obviously bothers you or you wouldn't post here. However, they should divorce or stop their affair. Plain and simple. Black and white. Trying to do both will only end in disaster.
2006-10-06 09:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by mommyofmegaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you better advise your friend don't do anything to hurt another. this is 4 people's love, two of they will hurt. your friend got children??? you as her friend, you must give some benefit opinion to let she know how her husband love she, don;t make something regret.
2006-10-06 22:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by ying 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋