have you ever lived together before getting married?

Question

and if you did please answer these questions:

1. are you divorced or still married?
2. how long have your married last or been going?
3. did you regret living together before marriage, or no?

Answer 1

First off we lived together first because we met each other on line. I wanted to get to know him very well before committing.

Yes were still married, going on 4yrs

Answer 2

Yes, I lived together before I married my ex as well as my current husband. The first marriage lasted 3.5 years (together for 5). My current husband I've known for almost 2 years, most of which were spent living together; we got married a few weeks ago. No, I don't regret it in either marriage, it just felt right at the time. These are the only two people I'd ever lived together with, I would not move in with someone without plans to get married in the future.

Answer 3

I guess I am going to be the only one on here that regrets the living together thing. There are pros and cons to it. It depends on your idea of what is important to you. In my case, I lived with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years before we got married. YES things did change after the "paper". Some good some bad. I felt that I was treated less than a sexy girlfriend and more like "the wife" after the marriage took place. I wish that I had waited to live together so that there would have been more to look forward to - sharing together the experience of getting along in a more intimate setting. I am not saying that anyone else has to do this or think like me... I just know that it would have been better for me if we had waited.We are divorced, married for 18 years.

Answer 4

My first real relationship we lived together for 7 years befor getting married, stayed married almost 9 years and are now divorced. At first I regretted living together, but inthe end I did not regret living together I regretted the marriage.

I am now currently living with my current fiance over a year and have a little les then a year to go until te weding. I do not regret this either. But I am 36 not 18.

Answer 5

well I am not married yet but am engaged and have 3 kids I did things backwards I got pregnant at 16 with a deadbeat and then got together with a friend of 12 years and now we live together and have 3 kids and have been together for 6 years and living together for 4 of those years. I would recommend that every couple live together first before marriage alot of times someone can act alot differently when you live together if you already lived together before marriage than you know you can spend the rest of your lives together rather than ending in divorce

Answer 6

Yes lived together before marriage.

1. I'm separated working towards divorce.
2. Made it till 1 year and 1 day. (the day after anniversary)
3. No. Regret the housewrecker I moved in. (don't ask)

Answer 7

1. are you divorced or still married? both
2. how long have your married last or been going? 7 years
3. did you regret living together before marriage, or no? heck no...i can't believe this day and age that people wouldn't live together for at least 7 years before getting married. There is a reason they call it the 7 year itch!

Answer 8

My husband and I lived together before getting married..as a matter of fact we had our daughter before we tied the knot,she was our flower girl!!! We have been married this next July for 10 yrs.. I do not regret living with him before marriage at all cause by the time we got married we had a 3yr old and we knew each other's likes and dislikes!!I'm glad we went backwards, you know met each other, had the little one then got married...It was the best thing I could have done...

Answer 9

I lived with my boyfriend for 3 month before we got married we had been together for 2 year that was 3 children and 20 years ago. I wish we hadn't lived together as we are christians today and the bible says well most people know what the bible says!!

but over all I still love him as much today as I did back then.

Answer 10

1. Divorced after the first time, still married after the second time.
2. 8 years the first time, 7 years and still going the second time.
3. Nope, never regretted living together either time.

Answer 11

I'm currently living with my boyfriend. We've been together over 3 years and have been living together for 1 year. We are also expecting our 1st child. Alot of people look down on us for that but we are both very happy. We will one day get married but it just hasn't happend yet. Why rush it when you know it's going to happen anyways and also, when we do get married, not much will be different.