have a homosexual encounter. if it was only one time. and thats all .Just to get it out of thier system
2006-10-06 09:45:39 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, lots of homophobic replies - not to mention closed minded ones!!
If you're in a relationship that's a truly trusting and loving relationship, you should discuss this to great length with your spouse. Neither answer will be acceptable to both of you until you have explored all possibilites, outcomes, and meanings of the situation.
I know someone who is a bisexual female, in a semi-open marriage, which includes "swinging" with other females only when it includes her husband. If her husband were to be interested in a homosexual encounter, she would approve of it if she were involved.
Another thing you DO need to consider whether you end up encouraging an encounter or not is whether they will go behind your back to satisfy the curiosity or not. Or if they're just learning their true sexuality, and there are other problems that need addressing, such as the future direction of your current relationship. This could be a wonderful way to get closer and understand your spouse for who they really are.
Whatever you decide, please keep communication lines open with your spouse. Hear and understand what they have to say, and express your true feelings with them as well. Good luck!
2006-10-06 10:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by phxarchitecture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He may just decide to stay there. I dont give a f**k about being politically correct. Men were designed to be with women and vice versa. Chemical reactions in the brain stimulate attraction to the opposite sex. So I sincerely believe that homosexuality is an imbalance in the hormones. I really think someone should look into this and try to get back our men and women. Get your husband to see a religious psych. See what can happen from there. Good luck.
2006-10-06 10:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless you both mutually agreed on it. I personally think that marriage is a commitment, and anything that needs to be taken out of the system it should have been done before. Yet on the other hand, though you may not agree, they may do it anyway and hurt you when you find out. The final desision is up to you, but talk things out with your spouse and make it clear how you feel about the situation and try to come to a compromise.
Best of luck to you =)
2006-10-06 09:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by ME2010 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him do it one time and then he can give you AIDS one time in your system.
Why would you ever want to condone bad behavior. People act the way that they do in relationships sometimes because we have programmed them that way by letting them do bad things to us.
STOP IT.
I have to say that "Just to get it out of their system" statement is a joke. If something is in your system and you do something to meet that craving then you are feeding that craving and went more of it. Only way to get rid of it is to starve it not feed it.
2006-10-06 09:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by James C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would never want my husband to have any kind of sexual encounter with anybody but me. I would think less of him and always be worried that he really liked being with the same sex. I say NO WAY!!!!!
2006-10-06 10:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no . why would you ? homosexual or not why would you allow him to be with someone else and if he has homosexual feelings than chances are just one time is not going to get it out of his system.
2006-10-06 09:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by freckleface 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating is cheating. Under no circumstances should you ever invite trouble into your relationship. Troubles try hard enough to get in without your helping them.
2006-10-06 09:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, homosexual, or heterosexual, my husband vowed fidelity to me, that means no encounters whatsoever with anyone but me.
2006-10-06 09:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by daisyk 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's always better to get things out of your system BEFORE you get married. But I don't know, maybe, especially if I got to watch.
2006-10-06 09:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is just 1 time
2006-10-06 09:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋