Marriage & Divorce - 6 October 2006

how it started and how you ended it?did it hurt or was it ok?

2006-10-06 07:53:17 · 17 answers · asked by super girl 3

I am conservative, but try not to be jugemental.

I found out that my friend got pregnate on purpose to trap her man into marring her for stability.


My friend has been going to strip clubs with her husband & he buys her lap dances.

she has been naked in a swimming pool at a party, with her husband, her cousin, and other people. (My friend is 40) No I was not there. She has told me all of this.

My husband now thinks they might be swingers and wants me and our family ( the baby) away from this family.

He feels you are who you hang out with. My husband and I are all NOT the above. Do you believe you are who you hang out with?

2006-10-06 07:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by Dori 2

and they get divorced does she really deserve any of his money?
Or is a husband plays video games all day while his wife works and he cheats on her and they get divorced does he deserve any of her money?

2006-10-06 07:52:24 · 34 answers · asked by horrorfan 3

2006-10-06 07:52:11 · 17 answers · asked by mrkittypong 5

What is it about your spouse that makes you remain faithful? I'd like to hear from the guys on this one. And if you did cheat, how did you manage to hold on to your wife?

2006-10-06 07:51:02 · 12 answers · asked by vitamin D 2

So, I started receiving these text messages on my phone today. They are making references to things I have not done. Suggesting things like, "yesterday was fun, let's do it again." "Meet me tomorrow for a nooner." "I'm not wearing any panties."

Sounds crazy, but I think she is doing to get a reaction out of me somehow. She is sending them anonomously, but I know it's her, because I have suspected her of cheating, I think she is trying to frame me or something. I delete the text messages from my phone, but should I confront her about sending them or should I just let her mind wander???

2006-10-06 07:50:33 · 6 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1

I am 33 and have been married for 7 years. My wife and I argue constantly. We have a 5 year old daughter that is my life. I work all week, do all the laundry, cook the meals, mow the grass, and always pick up after myself. She does not work (daughter in school most of the day). She started gaining weight as soon as I asked her to marry me and has gained 80 lbs. She also gets irrate with me every time I ask her to just pick up after herself, saying I am criticising her. She can not enjoy a moment without finding something to get irritated about. The only thing she does is talk on the phone, watch TV and eat. She does help with the church and meals on wheels but that doesn't take much time. I know it just sounds like I'm complaining but I feel like I give everything and am miserable in return. I don't want to divorce because I would miss seeing my daughter all the time, but I don't think I can take much more. Plus I don't want our little girl to see us argue all the time. Help!

2006-10-06 07:44:53 · 43 answers · asked by dubhub9 1

2006-10-06 07:44:15 · 4 answers · asked by natalie_morris2002 1

I mean, did it really work out?? Can you ever trust a man you met while he was cheating on his wife?? Be honest!!!

2006-10-06 07:44:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

(1) a relationship characterized by intense emotions where fights are frequent but attraction to one another is very intense; or (2) a relationship characterized by average emotions where fights are rare and attraction to one another is modest. In the first case, it seems the potential risk is that the attraction will fizzle out eventually. In the second case, I can see how this sort of relationship could lead to an unspoken boredom and unhappiness, a search for something 'better' out there. Yes, yes, I realize these aren't mutually exclusive categories, but I'm just saying in general. What's your feeling on this?

2006-10-06 07:41:23 · 7 answers · asked by tickblock001 1

think that divorce law tend to be very fair to the breadwinner. I've worked hard for what I have and don't want to get screwed.

2006-10-06 07:41:02 · 11 answers · asked by horrorfan 3

my ice sculptures that I placed on the lawn yesterday. I made two of them, one is a huge carrot and the other is two large plums. I had to have the ice shipped in and it took me a day to make them. I told her they will melt on their own.

2006-10-06 07:38:36 · 10 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

ok, me and my wife have been married for three years now and i found out about a month ago that her ex of two years who treated her like crap and cheated on her and she knew and stayed with him has been calling her moms house and looking for her, when i found out i was irrate, i just wanted to go beat his a*s but she wont let me cuz she dont want me to get in trouble, well we are going to L.A. this weekend (where she is from) and he lives only a couple of blocks away, i just keep thinking that she wants to see him or even be with him even though she says there is no way in hell she wants to, but i just have this feeling, i mean she let this guy walk all over her for two years and stayed with him, he even got her pregnant in which she had a miscarrage, is it wrong to feel like this or do i have something to worry about?

2006-10-06 07:36:59 · 24 answers · asked by justin c 1

My husband loves kids and loves when I'm pregnant, we've 2 girls (a 2 years old and a 6 mos old) and he already wants another (a boy) ! He keeps begging me, but I think it's too soon, he says we're still young, so it's better now than later. How long should we wait?

2006-10-06 07:35:29 · 22 answers · asked by Lis 1

...if your wife had a penpal in prison that was serving 25 to life?

Years ago, I was in a sociology class and this lady came in to talk about this organization to keep kids out the street. In doing so, she brought up this murder case which was the foundation on which this organization was built. This story really touched me so I asked for the address to the prisoner she mentioned. At the time I was in the process of changing major of Criminology due to a proposition that relates to this case and this cases really brought it home for me. So, I started writing this guy and getting insight. When I meet my husband, then boyfriend, I told him I was writing and he had no problem. Then we got married and he saw the box of letters and started questioning me if I was still writing. We talked about it and he tried to act as if he didn't mind me writing but I could tell he wasn't okay with it. Now, out of respect for my husband I told the guy that it would be a problem for me to write.

2006-10-06 07:33:18 · 26 answers · asked by Coco 5

im just wondering.because there a bunch of woman here complaining about their husband watching porn and im like is not like if they can f u c k the tv.so im just wondering.

2006-10-06 07:32:15 · 21 answers · asked by super girl 3

We're a young couple in our early twenties with a HUGE problem. He feels that I keep alot of my feelings in and don't tell him anything. I feel like I tell him how I feel but he says he knows there's things I hold in. What kinds of things do you guys want to know? He feels like he doesn't really know everything about me but I'm completely puzzled on what he wants to know. I ask him what it is I don't tell him, but he says that I should think about it. He says this relationship will end if I can't communicate clearly which breaks me up inside because I love him to death. Because of my poor communication problems he feels he can't trust me because if I can't tell him something as small as " how I feeel about my fathre" then I am probably not telling him other things. People please help me on what he might want to hear...we have a baby on the way and this stress is killing me. I just wish I knew how to talk better...

2006-10-06 07:31:45 · 7 answers · asked by Tara A 1

2006-10-06 07:25:05 · 20 answers · asked by no name 3

Ex-wife has been “Baker Acted” (where police, judge or physiatrist find a person harmful to themselves or others and hospitalizes them until they are rational) and thus lost custody of the wonderful older children (16,14 & 9). Father temporarily stops working/traveling to take care of his family. When the father returns to work 3 months later, he puts a “Nanny” in charge; the ex-wife shows up one night and tells the “Nanny” that she is taking over and makes the “Nanny” leave. What’s the right next step for the father?

2006-10-06 07:25:02 · 11 answers · asked by bl 4

Why the heck does my husband and all guys for that matter watch porn? Is there something wrong with me? What am I ugly or something??? what should I do to stop him?

2006-10-06 07:23:21 · 22 answers · asked by tinkerbella 2

He isn't really into gadgets at all, and he hates sweets. I don't want to get him something mundane because it is our anniversary. We are going to the symphany and then to a nice restaurant. Any ideas?

2006-10-06 07:18:54 · 13 answers · asked by donnamspeirs 3

I am divorced with with a special need 11yr old boy and a very smart 9 year girl. She loves her Daddy but he has been ful of empty promises. He has been living at a christian place for abusers(alcohol) and he preaches to everyone when he is visiting even though I know he has been drinking. 3weeks ago he showed up here with his new girlfriend and her 4kids. He wanted to take my kids to his mothers to go swimming. He left to the store while I got them ready. He never came back and did not call until hours later. he no good excuse. My daughter was devistaed(crying, ocasionally,sceaming, ect..) He has been bugging me ever sinse to see them. I have not told her anything except that he has called but I am not sure I should allow him to see her. I did not grow up with anything like this I have no idea what she is going through. I am afraid she will lose her faith because of his actions and preachings Ineed to explain this in detail to someone with exsperience I have no money does anyone know

2006-10-06 07:16:28 · 4 answers · asked by inquirer 1

My bf of 5 years and the father of my child was accussed by my niece and sister of sexually touching them, my niece said that he popped her panties and my sister said that he was rubbing on her butt but she didn't see him cus she was a sleep but she feels it was him. I could never in a million years believe he would do something like that, he has been caring, patient, never viloent, never mean, took care of my niece like she was his own daughter. We have are times but we hardly ever agrue or anything. He is really close to his mother and father. He doesn't watch porn, he dont do drugs, he dont drink, he works everyday to support our family has never been without a job. He is a great dad very patient and loving. It is just so hard to believe but my sister sticks with it and I am stuck in the middle of it. It is hard for me to chose. My sister is not mad at me for staying with him she just wont come around. I can't stop thinking about it and dont feel as close to him, should i leave him?

2006-10-06 07:13:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

im just trying to find out a couple of things before i get married,lol

2006-10-06 07:04:43 · 17 answers · asked by super girl 3

my wife and i are interested in this kind of sex, any suggestions?

2006-10-06 06:55:29 · 16 answers · asked by Daniel C 2

For my wife and I, we set out every Friday as our special day. We go out for dinner to a different restaraunt every Friday, walk around down town, go shopping, thenn we go home, and spend quality time together like watching a movie, or doing cross words, or just playing trivial pursuit. Keep the answers clean please.

2006-10-06 06:54:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Generally it is assumed that males are selfish but how to handle when the female is selfish in the act

2006-10-06 06:47:53 · 30 answers · asked by chetnand 2

We never had relations yet because I told her we should wait until we are married and she thinks I'm gay because of this.

2006-10-06 06:47:22 · 20 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1

can there be any secrets between partners ...is it healthy

2006-10-06 06:44:58 · 10 answers · asked by tamanaahamed 3

2006-10-06 06:43:52 · 19 answers · asked by tjanet23 2