So, I started receiving these text messages on my phone today. They are making references to things I have not done. Suggesting things like, "yesterday was fun, let's do it again." "Meet me tomorrow for a nooner." "I'm not wearing any panties."
Sounds crazy, but I think she is doing to get a reaction out of me somehow. She is sending them anonomously, but I know it's her, because I have suspected her of cheating, I think she is trying to frame me or something. I delete the text messages from my phone, but should I confront her about sending them or should I just let her mind wander???
2006-10-06 07:50:33 · 6 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i do it to my husband he thinks its funny and i think it is funny when he answer "sure i'll meet you at the motel down the street and dont worry my wife doesnt suspect a thing" it's all just clean fun!! p.s i go by the name candy cane
2006-10-06 07:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're jumping to conclusions and someone has your number by mistake.
You suspect her of cheating but have no proof. If she's cheating, why would she care or send you messages like that?
Talk to her. Bring your suspicions out into the open. If she is cheating, deal with it. If she's not cheating, apologize for thinking so and be grateful that you haven't done something stupid to wreck your marriage.
2006-10-06 14:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games. Just tell her you keep getting the messages. If you say nothing she will think you really do have something going on elswhere.
2006-10-06 14:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've done that, it was funny for a while but then its not funny when the other person gets upset and thinks its real. maybe she is just trying to get a rise out of you.
2006-10-06 14:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hold of her phone and review her message log.. Ask her why she is doing that.
2006-10-06 14:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call your cell company to find out for sure where they are coming from.
then confront that person.....could be somebody playing a joke on you that is not funny
2006-10-06 14:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋