If the female partner is selfish in the act what to do?

Question

Generally it is assumed that males are selfish but how to handle when the female is selfish in the act

I mean when she is batting she wants me to bowl at spots of her choice but when i am batting she never bowls at places of my choice

Answer 1

i suggest both of you study the work of MASTERS & JOHNSON'S- on sex and human loving published by jaico publishing company.both of you will be benefitted. you should not come to a conclusion that she is not listening to you. women naturally have inhibitions and normally don't initiate. you are to gently tell her your feelings.

Answer 2

Curious, if males are assumed selfish and the questioner is wanting to "handle" a female that appears selfish, what would the motivation be? Selfishness, perhaps?

There are a couple of old pieces of advice sometimes given to younger folk from the older. First, decide, would you rather be happy, or right? Second, if momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy.

Answer 3

Sex is by nature a selfish act. Have you ever heard of anyone becoming a saint through the charity of giving sex to the needy?

Answer 4

When females are selfish then there might be a reason as to why. Talk to her before and if she doesn't change, then I say enjoy the ride.

Answer 5

In women people the main serious actuality approximately intercourse is to convey them to orgasm, in case you have endurance then attempt to no longer to insert your penis interior until she graved for it and shop on doing a similar alluring acts of foreplay as directed by using "representative ok" in different answer, supply it a attempt to additionally you may experience after intercourse that she is happy with your overall performance. wish u success.

Answer 6

one must appreciate that even the females have desires and urges that need to be satisfied and so any selfishness in the act should be taken in the stride(sic).
Also, if a man can satiate the biological needs of his mate, its a feather in his cap(sic).
and finally, love is two-sided ..so where does self come into this?

Answer 7

If you are close enough to have sex, then you are close enough to talk about sex. Tell her that you think she's being selfish in the bedroom and see what happens. She may just not know how you feel, and if you tell her she will probably start paying more attention to your needs.

Answer 8

Personally, I would suggest saying something to her....

A lot of women are accused of "laying there like a brick" or wanting the man to do all the work..

As nature has made it, in past history, the man is genetically made to be the "giver" as in thrusting motions etc...so it's only natural for us to want to lay on our backs spread our legs and enjoy the ride..

However, in today's society this isn't acceptable as much, as equality is stressed especially in the give-take relationship in the sexuality area. I would highly suggest that when she actually DOES something that you like, you make it KNOWN that you like that...such as if she is performing oral on you...moan a bit louder, and make it plainly apparent that you are in pleasure... many women are also afraid that their ways of "performance" will not be accepted...reassure her that she is beautiful, do not critique her body, and tell her what you like about her body, and see if that helps.

Answer 9

Female partners are always selfish after marriage. Go slowly & tricky & you will get what you want.

Answer 10

If you're mature enough to have sex then you should be mature enough to talk about it. Ask her what's up. You never know, maybe there's a reason as to why she doesn't care to do that. It doens't necessarily mean she's selfish. Talk about it.

Answer 11

hi
as i am a girl i can tell u if she is selfish in her act the main reason is that she is not possesive as well doesnt have too many feelings for u.
the best way is u also act in the same way as she acts.