Marriage & Divorce - 6 October 2006

I'm not saying anyone is right or wrong, I just wonder what it matters who marrys whom?? I personally don't care if a girl marrys a girl, or a boy marrys a boy. I am married to a man, so if a lesbian couple marrys, it does NOT effect me as far as I'm concerned. I know that most people feel that a marraige is between a man and a woman, but how would it effect you if your gay neighbor married his gay lover? Would it effect you differently if your streight neighbor married his streight lover?? And while we're on the institute of marraige, why isn't infidelity flat out illegal???

2006-10-06 04:51:05 · 20 answers · asked by mcnees79 3

2006-10-06 04:49:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-06 04:49:32 · 27 answers · asked by butnozzle 2

2006-10-06 04:47:02 · 30 answers · asked by sexy one 1

My wife after 9yrs left me. (No kids and in our early 30s) We mutally seperated for two months to see what we should do.... I tried to learn about myself and he was to do the same as a "relationship break". Found out she started dating a guy three weeks after we seperated. I met someone three months after and have a great time with a great women.. Now my "ex" wife wants us to reconsider. She says she misses what we had and that it was indeed special... We never had any major problems like alcahol, drugs or affairs, not even an ugly nasty fight, only arguments that I would consider normal. We trusted each other and enjoyed time together but she thought we fell out of love and thus atrted to drift other ways.. W hat would you do... So confused as maybe I should try again w her but have met someone who is promising and again have a great relation but wonder what can be... I want to be fair but what would you do??

2006-10-06 04:46:20 · 20 answers · asked by Charles in Boston 1

My wife and I have been married for 2 years, and it seems that the longer we're married, the bossier she gets! I don't know what it is, but it's like she's more like my mother and not my wife. I know she loves me, but I'm not so sure she "likes" me anymore...does that make sense? How can we have a more loving, caring relationship?

2006-10-06 04:44:37 · 26 answers · asked by nomoretv4me 1

I'm married and I love to fantasize about my husband raping me. Is this wrong or abnormal? Please don't be mean. I just want to see what the typical public thinks about this. Thank you!

2006-10-06 04:42:07 · 36 answers · asked by Julie 3

We have been married for 10 yrs and have a child. Since the beginning of my wedded life, his love for me has always been so illusive.At the end of the day, i am always asking myself...why doesn't he love me? He has had many affairs, i've forgiven him all because i always thought of my son and the effect it would have on him if we seperated. I have talked to him, showed him a lot of affection, been there for him whenever he was in trouble.... he hasn;t even handled the family responsibilities well..most of the time the house runs on my earnings.He has mismanaged his earnings a lot. Today we dont even have our own house, or any financial security. He loves our child a lot and both are so happy in each others company. If I leave him, what will happen to my child? No, we aren't having any physical relationship at all and try to survive peacefully under the same roof. He never compliments me, makes me feel so unwanted... but helps a lot in housework. I am confused. What should I do?

2006-10-06 04:28:01 · 34 answers · asked by chweetestme 2

My husband doesn't like oral much, so I'm always hooking up with strangers, then I feel really guilty - once I even went to an adult movie theater because I knew there would be needy men there - I was sure I was going to get raped, but I couldn't stop myself! What can I do about this compulsion?

2006-10-06 04:24:29 · 20 answers · asked by cdrfish15 1

Or is there somewhere else on Earth to pass legislation in favor?

2006-10-06 04:16:16 · 8 answers · asked by Candy C 2

Having divorced my ex husband over 10 years ago, my 4 children have been subjected to verbal and emotional abuse for continuing to love me. They have been torn apart emotionally, to the extent where they need councilling at the ages of 12 and 14, and continue to have to take this from their father, whom they love also. Social Services will not do anything about it, as it is a "grey area" and neither will the cattle markets that are the familly courts. No one is interested in what some people are doing to their children and what effects it may have in their adult lives. Innocent children are being used as pawns in parents grudges. We all know right from wrong, so why is it still allowed to go on? Any views?

2006-10-06 04:14:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who you will marry?
A: someone who loves you, but you dont love him
B: someone you love him. but he doesn't love you

If you have to marry one, who you will marry?
I know it's to hard to choose, but life is hard sometimes as well.

And tell the reason please.

2006-10-06 04:10:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been living together for five months and I adore him with all my heart. My previous relationship of many years was terrible and I sometimes have a hard time telling my lover how special he is to me - in so many words. Yesterday I sent him a very thought out and loving e-mail that expressed my deepest feelings for him, but he has not mentioned it to me at all. Why?

2006-10-06 04:07:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has a "friend" that she stays in contact with. He now lives about 400 miles away but she stay's in contact with him. He has family here so I know he must come back for visits, and she works very late some nights. Her phone records show a call to his number the nights she is working late, but I need more proof, how do I get it?????

2006-10-06 04:05:10 · 16 answers · asked by Joesmoe 2

I am living with a man whom I love very much and I believe that he loved me too. About two months ago we moved to a home together about 350 mile away. I got a new job, which I like, and he is retired. The problem is this - I'm not sure that he loves me anymore. He has started picking at small things that I apparently need to change. We have been together for five months and I do love him with all my heart, but recently he hasn't been as affectionate and spends a great deal of time alone in the garage fixing things, reading and just sort of minding his own business. Before I came along, he had been alone for some time and maybe he misses his own space?

I miss him terribly the way he was with me before. He used to spend every minute with me - even spending hours with me in the bathroom talking, etc. We used to make love at least once or twice a day, now it's more like every other day. He used to leave me the most loving notes, but no more.

Am I overreacting or is he gone?

2006-10-06 04:03:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do u wake up and return the favor? or do u just want to get more sleep?

2006-10-06 04:00:57 · 36 answers · asked by Gabe 2

Tell everyone the kinkiest thing you enjoy -- the kinkiest person gets the 10 pts.

2006-10-06 04:00:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I discussed it and we decided it was the right time for him to go back to school full time. That meant I was the sole income for the house. This semester he only has morning classes with mimimum homework. I thought he would take over some of the house chores but instead he comes home and nearly dives mid air onto the sofa and watches ESPN all day. I come home and it looks like a college frat house. We dont have kids at home. Is it fair of me to ask him to assume more of the house chores since I am the income provider .. How do I explain that it feels disrepectful that he sleeps on the couch in the afternoon and watches TV while I come home and do laundry and pick up the mess. I know he is a good man and I think he is just experiencing a little bit of freedom but I need to get this under control before my feelings get really hurt. Any suggestions?

2006-10-06 03:59:04 · 21 answers · asked by AlabamaGirl 2

But I like to flirt . Is that wrong ?

2006-10-06 03:59:00 · 19 answers · asked by mmmmmmm 3

To come straight out state that you're a rascist or a homophobe. I'm not but if you have any guts you'd say so.

2006-10-06 03:56:50 · 14 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

2006-10-06 03:55:43 · 14 answers · asked by Amber 1

2006-10-06 03:52:41 · 3 answers · asked by patsBme 1

l have a b/f for six year any time we want to make love he did not rele inside me he do that in my body which l don,t like an dl ask him y he do that he tell me maybe l don,t like it that y.so he stop making love to me.l love this guy l don,t have anybody in my life my family know him very well but he never take me to his family.he do tell me he want to marry me but l never get pregnan for him all this years pls help

2006-10-06 03:48:06 · 17 answers · asked by folly 1

I thought the summons was for a divorce - but 2 weeks before the hearing I filed a null and void request (I no longer desire a divorce) and the clerk said to make sure I send a copy to my spouse attorney (which I did). After the hearing my spouse called me and told me the hearing was for a paternity test. Therefore, he was requesting me to pay for a paternity test for 1 of the children in question, that he new was not his and he verbally told me that he wanted to take care of this child and didn't want this child to know, see or hear from his biological father. My spouse told me that he was going to be the provider for this child - well now he wants a divorce and don't want to pay child support for this child. He knows the child is not his, but he want me to pay for the paternity test. If I would have known that the hearing was for proving paternity, I would have been there with bells on. Now I need to know what I can do to turn this thing around to defend myself.

2006-10-06 03:43:55 · 7 answers · asked by SLM 1

i am so sick of seeing all the super feminine gay men and butch gay women parading and all that B.S...so my question to all homosexuals...if you were given the right to marry would you live normally? i dont feel the need to march adn have parades about my sexuality so i really dont see why you should.

2006-10-06 03:42:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

she shook my hand and said (don't worry i would never try to take your husband) i was speechless i said nice to meet you..what the heck

2006-10-06 03:38:33 · 14 answers · asked by glitsyjewels 3

There was a middle-aged couple that had two stunningly beautiful blonde
teen-aged daughters. They decided to try one last time for the son they always
wanted.
After months of trying, the wife became pregnant and, sure enough, nine months
later delivered a healthy baby boy. The joyful father rushed to the nursery to
see his new son. He took one look and was horrified to see the ugliest child he
had ever seen.
He went to his wife and said that there was no way he could be the father of
that child.
"Look at the two beautiful daughters I fathered." Then he gave her a stern
look and asked, "Have you been fooling around on me?"
The wife just smiled sweetly and said, "Not this time”.

2006-10-06 03:32:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

We eat ice cream about once a day, I have come to expect my daily scoop.

2006-10-06 03:32:08 · 16 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-10-06 03:29:11 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2

I am planning an initimate dinner for my huband and me for our anniversary. Just needing some good music ideas to set the mood. Thanks for your help!

2006-10-06 03:26:50 · 13 answers · asked by katydid 2