My husband doesn't like oral much, so I'm always hooking up with strangers, then I feel really guilty - once I even went to an adult movie theater because I knew there would be needy men there - I was sure I was going to get raped, but I couldn't stop myself! What can I do about this compulsion?
2006-10-06 04:24:29 · 20 answers · asked by cdrfish15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should see a therapist. Not to be mean, but there is obviously something wrong if your willing to sacrifice your marriage for this fetish. And with strangers. Think of all the diseases that could be flailing around you. You need to protect yourself. You should talk to a professional about this immediatly.
2006-10-06 04:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Amber S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you have a problem (other than doing oral with strangers) but it sounds like your husband has a problem. I have never heard of a man that didn't like oral. Where is he from anyway? Talk to her husband and make him see that this is something that you truly enjoy and he needs to get with the program. Tell him to do like some women do, pretend to like it. I'm sure after awhile he will start to enjoy.
2006-10-06 11:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It trolls are giving your question a lot of thumbs down, If it is a genuine question then I feel that there is a genuine problem here. I am not on to judge on this matter.
Your main problem is that noone will take this problem seriously and you can be putting you life and marriage in danger.
I believe there is a possiblity you are an sex addict and you may need to search out a support group to help you with this. They do exist but they are hard to find.
2006-10-06 11:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This has nothing to do with sex, it is a power trip on your part...you have misguided belief that having a man "at your mercy" is power. You are wrong. You are debasing yourself in this position...your choice. Get counciling or get knee pads. Again, nothing to do with sex. That is for sure. Also, glad I am not your husband...the diseases you can bring home are NOT pretty. You are headed down a path of destruction ....loss of home, house, and family. Instead of paying for movies, pay for a shrink to find out why you need this power!
2006-10-06 11:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definetly seek medical help. This sounds like an obsession. Your husband does not deserve this, you should maybe seek couples counseling to help your marriage. Also get checked for possible STD's just in case. Its too bad your husband cant enjoy this part of you. Just remember be honest and be careful.
2006-10-06 11:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get help!! Sorry, but that's pretty sick. You don't know what dieases those nasty men at adult movie theaters have. Find something else to put in your month or leave your husband don't bring no dieases to him because you don't care what you catch. UGH!!!!!
2006-10-06 11:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by Coco 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow, are you serious? first of you should never put your safety at risk regardless thats not a bright move! second cheating on your husband is WRONG! see a professional to get some help or just leave your husband and go service random men!
2006-10-06 11:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to a Shriners convention. I hear some people are really turned on by men in sruare hats with tassels.
2006-10-07 10:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by U can't b serious 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Buy a latex on and watch some porn to learn how to do it. You may not do it right for him to enjoy it. Stay out of those movie theatres. You sound like one horny gal.
2006-10-06 11:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll say it again-- rape is not something to joke about.
I'm wondering why it is that you have so much time on your hands that you have nothing better to do than ask these types of questions. I hope that one day you realize it's not cute.
2006-10-07 10:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by Lanani 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋