I'm married and I love to fantasize about my husband raping me. Is this wrong or abnormal? Please don't be mean. I just want to see what the typical public thinks about this. Thank you!
2006-10-06 04:42:07 · 36 answers · asked by Julie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not wrong. I have that fantasy, as well. And many other women I know... Another big fantasy I have is to be raped, more like gang-banged actually, by 4 or 5 guys... I won't get into details here, but if interested here's is my addy ella87110@yahoo.com :)
2006-10-06 04:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman.
I would never liked to be really raped, however when in a monogomous relationship, sometimes things need to be spiced up. If he agrees that it would turn him on as well than go for it. Theres no shame between a husband and wife, just remember though he may want you to fulfill one of his fantasies in return. If thats ok with you then have fun.
2006-10-06 04:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Candy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rape is not sex but an act of violence. It is an act designed to humiliate and hurt the other person not pleasure them.
While it is quite common to be interested in bondage that is done with the purpose of sexual satisfaction for both.
Rape is not FUN. The aftermath stays with a child,teen,woman,boy,man, for years after.
Do you lock your windows & doors?
Do you lock your car doors?
Do you walk down dark streets?
Is it fun? Would it be fun if one or more guys decided to invade your body without your consent and use you like a toilet and possibly damaging your reproductive system or leaving you with an STD? Rape is not fun! If you think about what it actually is ...Why would you want to turn your mate into a perpetrator and yourself into a victim?
2006-10-06 17:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its rape especially since (1) You fantasize (2) Its your husband
I know there are sometimes my wife shows up in the bedroom with some crazy, tempting whorish outfit that brings the caveman out of me. I just tear all her outfit off and go for it!!! Shoot you got me thinking about her sexy a@# right now, gotta go find her........see ya!
2006-10-06 05:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by Blk Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not wrong at all. Alot of people fantasize about that. Rough sex can be a real turn on. Tell him, I bet he will go for it. Sex games like that help keep things interesting.
2006-10-06 05:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After watching Dr. Berman on Showtime, I've come to realize that a lot of women fantasize about being raped. I guess it's kinda normal...
2006-10-06 04:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by Chris C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong. People have all kinds of sexual fantasies. Share your rape fantasy with your husband and maybe he'll role play the part and you can experience it. Go for it girl!
2006-10-06 05:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's okay... fantasy is just that, it's using your imagination to make the sex more exciting... nothing wrong with that, unless you start to get obsessed with it, and you can't have sex without the rape imagery in your mind. At that point, it might start to be detrimental.
2006-10-06 04:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want it, it isn't rape. You are just fantasizing about your husband being rough with you.
2006-10-06 04:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a control issue, in other words you want a man to take total control of your life for a short period and this is the only way you can think of to have that feeling expressed or acted out!
If he is okay with it, go and have fun!
2006-10-06 04:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋