But I like to flirt . Is that wrong ?
2006-10-06 03:59:00 · 19 answers · asked by mmmmmmm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am married as well. I dont see anything wrong with a stimulating conversation with someone of the opposite sex. You can always check out the menu as long as you eat at home.
2006-10-06 04:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by brandi c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is evidence to suggest that a little light hearted flirting is actually an important part of keeping the relationship with your long term partner fresh, exciting and strong.
Getting attention from someone other than our usual partner keeps us feeling attractive, sexy and ultimately more secure with our partner. These feelings transpose into our relationship. I enjoy a bit of flirting, but I'm always all the more pleased to see my boyfriend when I get in. Flirting can be as much about smiling, laughing and getting to know someone new as much as anything else. Flirting can be a good way to meet people and make friends. Just so long as all it really is just a bit of harmless flirting!
2006-10-06 11:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by parrotrustler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just asking the question tends to say that it is wrong. There are so many things in this world to tempt you to do wrong. You definitely don't want to add to it. Even if you are flirting on-line with someone across the country, when you get tempted to meet, things can be made to happen. Human desires can be ugly if left on their own.
Stay happily married. Flirt with your wife, be sure to make dates with her.
2006-10-06 12:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by uds_montoya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you might say you don't have any intention on having an affair, but if you continue to flirt and are given the right circumstance you might change your mind. It's like saying "I don't want to get burned by I like to play with fire."
2006-10-06 11:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by BAnne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no it's not wrong to flirt as long as you have clear that nothing can nor will ever happen with that person. now... your wife may not like you flirting so you could be a little more considerate and not do it, or at least not while she's around. remember that you would like if she did it to you.
2006-10-06 11:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by Julz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Do you flirt in front of your wife? That's rude, unless your wife is okay with it. Has your wife told you that it bothers you when you flirt, yet you continue? That's disrespectful.
Other than that, you're in the clear. Just don't let your definition of "flirt" get too broad.
2006-10-06 11:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of ppl's intentions were to never have an affair. im sure you know that sparks turn into flame. why flirt with fire? when you play with fire you will get burned. don't risk hurting your wife, its not worth it.
2006-10-06 11:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Niecy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good intentions are well respected. However, one thing can lead to another. Why open the door when it is already closed? By opening it, you are exposing yourself to other opportunity though you dont intend to step out of it.
2006-10-06 11:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad, but........it could lead to bad things. Some times "innocent" flirting goes too far. Be careful.
2006-10-06 11:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but keep it low, and remember NO flirting when wife is present.
2006-10-06 11:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋