We have been living together for five months and I adore him with all my heart. My previous relationship of many years was terrible and I sometimes have a hard time telling my lover how special he is to me - in so many words. Yesterday I sent him a very thought out and loving e-mail that expressed my deepest feelings for him, but he has not mentioned it to me at all. Why?
2006-10-06 04:07:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You did this in an email!?
Email is like a postcard. And your loving feelings are next to messages about work ... must feel very odd.
Tell him.
Or if you really can't write it down by hand on good paper and leave it on his pillow.
Good luck.
2006-10-06 04:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a hard time expressing your emotions to him, he may feel that you sent the e-mail b/c it's easier to express your feelings in writing and not get an immediate response. He may think that mentioning it could make you uncomfortable. There is also the possibility that he hasn't read it yet. I would just ask him what he thought of the e-mail. It is possible that he is uncomfortable with discussing deep feelings and emotions as well.
2006-10-06 04:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jan S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's hard for him to express his feelings to you. If you sent him a letter to tell him how you feel about him, the important thing here is that he knows how you feel, not that you get praise for telling him. People in relationships sometimes need reassurance of their spouses "feelings" towards them, but they are overlooking the fact that words are words, and actions are actions. Just him being there with you, and sharing his life with you, should tell ya something. *winks* Good Luck!
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P.S. I send my husband emails all the time, and he does with me. I have never once asked him or had him ask me, how we felt about the note. It's something to put a smile on your face, a modern day love note, that doesn't need a response.
2006-10-06 04:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,first of all ,do you know that he received it, well if he did,
and he ha sent mentioned it to you at all ,well that is not good ,
it would be like avoiding it, and that would be that he doesn't feel that same for you, if he felt the same for you as you feel for him ,he would of written you back a wonderful e-mail, and also called you when he received it ,and let you know that he felt the same about you ,i am sorry but i think that you should have a heart to heart conversation with him , you really need to know his feelings for you, and when he has told you what are his feelings for you,then you need to think about .if you want to stay in the relationship or not,you don't need to get hurt, good luck
Leena
2006-10-06 04:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by leena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he didn't read it yet or maybe he thought it was a sweet email and felt that there was no need to answer it. Or was it a type of email that needed a response? That happened to me once before too and when I asked him if he got it he said Yes and he didn't realize he was supposed to respond. You don't always need a response (like a thank you.) I know how you feel though. Just wait it out.
2006-10-06 04:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In an email? Okay, you need to warm up to him more than that. That would be okay for a long distance relationship but my gosh, you live together!!!
Email is more frigid than a hand written note, a note is more cold than saying it in person. What are you scared of?
Sit him down and face to face tell him everything in your email.
If that doesn't work perhaps you have scared him off because he never realized how involved you were.
2006-10-06 04:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah perhaps he hasn't checked his e-mail yet. Or perhaps he's trying to come up with a nice responce to your letter to return to you.
2006-10-06 04:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mam o man give him time maybe he did not have time to get to his p\c or he did not see it are you sure you sent it OK good luck
2006-10-06 04:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not have had a chance to read it, perhaps he had a really busy day, ask him!!!
2006-10-06 04:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋