i have recently become a church officer and my wife is not as dedicated as i am!
2006-10-06 10:08:41 · 15 answers · asked by john d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Religion and spirituality are very personal. You can't and shouldn't try to make anyone feel the way you do. Your dedication is the only one you have to answer for. Her amount of interest is between her and God himself.
You can express your concern that she become more involved, but don't pressure her and leave it at that.
2006-10-06 10:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by brown_iyed_grrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Christian look at it as an opportunity for you to excercise fruits of the spirit like "long-suffering, mildness, patience,".
Lead her through example. Attitude is a reflection of leadership.
You must learn to reason w/o judgement and being argumentative. Only God truly knows her heart. There are many who do alot of "services" for the church and are doing it for the glory for themselves and not for God. Think of it as your test or a testiment to God's spirit if you remain strong in faith despite this heavy burden on your heart.
When she sees for herself the benefits then she will make the change. It can't be forced. It has to be a choice.
2006-10-06 23:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do sport. However Acts says Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you shall be saved and your whole house. Everybody has their own level of commitment you cannot expect her to have the same level you have. Congratulations to you but dont worry about your wife if it is Gods will she will come around
2006-10-06 17:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BIG problem in a past relationship for me.
I am a conservative, a Christian and ademently Pro Life.
He was an Atheist, a liberal, an alcoholic and did not care to be held accountable for his actions or words.
It fell apart.
You cannot force YOUR beliefs or lifestyle on anyone....makes us sad as Christians, but, in the end her salvation is up to her.
2006-10-06 17:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have patience.
Ask yourself this question.
Do I treat her like Christ would?
He is our example to live by, and He laid down His life for you.
Are you willing to treat her this lovingly?
If your answer is yes, then give her time and most likely she will take God more seriously in time.
For my husband it took 25 years, but it was worth the wait.
For many others it takes only months, or a few short years.
Think about how old you are, and realize God waited all those years for you. Be equally patient.
2006-10-06 17:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by M. K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question is, didnt you know this when you married or did she lie about it? If you took her that way, then you have no legitimate gripe. Pray, maybe she will turn around. Be a good example so she wants to be a christian.
2006-10-06 19:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what my wife did for many years. She went to church and left me at home, and quit trying to change me.
2006-10-06 17:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is don't force religion on someone, it can have the opposite effect you were going for. Just leave her be and let her make her own decisions.
2006-10-06 17:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by colorguy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray pray pray pray pray pray pray pray pray!
Love your wife as Christ loves the church.
Be the spiritual leader in your home.
Trust God.
2006-10-07 03:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by Harvie Ruth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lead by example. Just do what you know is right and everything will fall into place. Good luck.
2006-10-06 17:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋