When I first introduced my littlest sister to my husband (at the time we just started dating) everything seemed to go well, Until that fateful evening. That first night, my sisters (I have another sister who gets along well with my husband as she and him respect eachother and not cross boarders when they interact and I feel no problem with him complimenting her and calling her beautiful in any way because it comes from a solid place as she is beautiful) my littlest sister (the one who took it upon herself to flirt with my husband and my other sisters boyfreind =( and him were "playing games" as he now refers to the incident, as it took him very long for him to admit! there were ALOT of small talks between them, her giving him the eye bat to appear mysterious and he fell for it..it dragged on through his encounters with her. He treats her the way he treats me and it feels awkward. When I brought it up to him when it first took place he called me insecure but the thing is I wasn't.
2006-10-06 10:21:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Any man that will flirt with your own sister is not worth having. Your sister is some piece of work too.
2006-10-06 10:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you'd like to believe your husband is some innocent bystander. Sure your sister is out of line but a decent man would nip that in the bud and not even entertain such behavior with his wifes sister or anyone else. Sounds like he's been testing the waters for the future and if I were you I'd stop pretending that it's all the other women in the worlds fault.
2006-10-06 17:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by girlnextdoor409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is the one who sounds insecure and the one that has no morals. I would give a good talking to my sister and tell her she needs to stop flirting with your husband. She should be able to find her own man. Sounds as though your sister may be beautiful on the outside but ugly on the inside. I have 4 sisters and they are all married and yes they all have good husbands and some are very goodlooking now I would never ever think of flirting with them or trying anything with them they are suppose to be like your brother. Talk to your sister maybe she is unaware on how she is flirting as well. You might want to talk to your husband as well and ask him why he would want to flirt with your sister I would be just as mad at him as well.
2006-10-06 17:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I agree--if he were any kind of mature and commited to you, he'd nip that in the bud the first bat of her eyelashes. Case in point? We were in a bowling alley and the gal at the register had very HUGE breasts barely held in by the low-cut top she was wearing and she had a great bra that hefted them right up under her chin. *I* couldn't help but notice, but when I giggled and said to my husband, "God, did you see those?" he blinked and very seriously asked, "See what?". He hadn't a clue. Nip it in the bud now honey and talk to your husband. If he won't listen, try counseling first. But yeah, I'm sorry to say that is very near to being worth a divorce. He's not treating you with respect at all and he's not honoring his commitments.
2006-10-06 17:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a "code of conduct" that should be followed by both husbands and wives with other people of the opposite sex. In my experience there isn't any way for you to have a close relationship with someone of the opposite sex without it hurting your marriage. He should just not even go there.
2006-10-06 17:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying they were making out, or making love? Very weird behavior. If it was only flirting, have a talk with him, and the little sister. More, you have to work that one out. Best of luck.
2006-10-06 17:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his cheating @$$. I mean your sister. It is bad enough he is cheating, but he could have at least found someone other than your sister to cheat with.
2006-10-06 17:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think is worth the divorce but just keep an eye on him okay.
2006-10-06 17:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by ~My 1st. Girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea talk to him more about it . then see what he say about then if he talk about like he did not do it say i saw you two talk and hared it two and do not lie to me
now i do not know nothing else
2006-10-06 17:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by tesha p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he cheat or not???
2006-10-06 17:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋