On of the main things my husband and I disagree on is how to show someone love. I show that I love him in romantic ways, by taking care of him, by making sure his needs are met (cooking, cleaning, having lunches packed, etc), and by listening to him.
He says all that is needed is for me to let him out of the house more, and to make sure dinner is ready.
There is an emotional connection not being met. Maybe it's just a miscommunication.... or I am I wrong by thinking this isn't love really. At least not being in love?
Maybe I am just being too damn picky....
(excuse the ramblings of a sad married woman)
2006-10-06 09:32:39 · 5 answers · asked by Willalee 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why is it your job to see to his dinner? Yes, the things you have been doing have been an act of love on your part (he could easily meet his own needs for cooking, cleaning and lunches IF he had to). If your Momzilla name means you have a child or children at home, does he assume because he works out of the home that he deserves to be taken care of or is that your thinking?
Chances are he misses the expressions of himself he might be missing from not getting out more on his own. You also need the same kind of time. Why not set up a compromise -- you let him have his time out by and for himself and he give you an equivalent, taking on what you do while he's out
2006-10-06 09:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Charlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't do the things that you do for him, then he would complain about that too! He has it made, he wants his cake and eat it too! He is probably the was he is because you allow him to be this way. He is a typical male!!
2006-10-06 16:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by CSI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to leave u to hang out elsewhere its definately not love ...however pls read this book its called The five love languages... as it helped me and my hubby understand how to show love...for me its flowers and chocolates for my hubby it was quality time together ...we learnt this from the book and yes ur man needs to read the book too
2006-10-06 16:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by aaks 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where is he wanting to go?? because leaving you at home feeling bad isn't love
2006-10-06 16:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by gabby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh baby, he needs to show you the love....
2006-10-06 16:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋