he broke up with that woman nad says things are going to be better, i don´t know what to do , we have 3 chidren and have been married for 10 years , i´m good looking , in shape , good at sex, is he still thinking of her ? how can i make him love me the way he did? i´m 34 and he is 44. i need help
2006-10-06 09:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by silvia i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hes moody because that was his night with the other woman. He still has feelings and memories. Start doing things together, take a vacation, hold hands, if he doesnt respond to all your attention, then almost all hope is gone. he fears losing you, but you are still there for him. If you were to leave him, would he beg for your return???
2006-10-06 09:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by mailbox1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may never be able to love you as he did before. Feelings change and circumstances change. I wish you a lot of luck in taking him back. My ex husband cheated on me and I would never have considered taking him back.
Once trust is broken it is very hard to rebuild. I could never trust someone who cheated on me. How could you ever get over someone who broke the most sacred vow you can make to another?
2006-10-06 16:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheat always a cheat, first time is hard, next time is easy, they don't stop cheating after they have gotten away with it. Make him leave, or you'll be going through it again Trust me I've been there for 22 yrs and am finally getting out
2006-10-06 17:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by Dee Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating,It's (Adultery) !!! We cheat in card games.It's Adultery!! You see people soften the words we call it so it won't sound so bad when they do it! It is bad!!! It hurts me and you if our spouses do it.It hurts our children and their parents and our parents.It hurts the spouse's of the ones their involved with and their children.It hurts our friends.Hell it hurts so many people I don't have time to type them all. So you see to make it not sound so bad they call it cheating.Like in school home work or like in cards or on our tax's.Every one does it sort of thing. Kick the low life out and tell him to go to hell.If he is truly repentant make him work hard to get you back if you even want him back.When the trust is gone the marriage is over.
2006-10-06 17:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by archer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get moodier than he does and tell him you're not about to put up with a cheating spouse. You can do better than him.
2006-10-06 16:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Professional counseling and prayer.
2006-10-06 17:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋