hi guys i been married with this guy for 5 yrs and he treats me like ****. im tired of it i left him for 6 good months and now a couple a months he comes back and says he sorry he wont do it again same bull **** i deal with 5 yrs i told him to leave me alone and now he says that he is not caplebale of leaving me again that he ll kill him self he is 30 yrs old a im full of it help (he has a resiting order and he still doesnt leave me alone HELP
2006-10-06 11:05:02 · 11 answers · asked by playa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
call the cops ! no man should treat their woman like that...don't ever go back to an abusive guy ,,,he'll never change and he won't kill himself either....just a bluff , so you will never leave him
2006-10-06 11:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you are doing the right thing. When ever he comes near you call the police DO IT EVERY TIME. Really mean what you say to him. I believe he will get tired and leave you alone. He's just hurting(so dam what)
2006-10-06 18:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by LuvMe2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call the cops then, and tell them how he says he is going to kill himself. They will take him to the hospital for a 72 hour lock up. It is called an EDO, emergency detention order. Maybe the therapist can help him, and who knows he might leave you alone then. Otherwise he goes to jail.
2006-10-06 18:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Evie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go back with him. He only saying that he will kill himself to make you feel for him. Thank God you got out when you did. He sounds like he has many issues. Call the police if he keeps coming around.
Be careful....he doesn't sound stable
2006-10-06 18:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you calling the POLICE when he violates the order? If not, then it really is no good. He will NOT kill himself. That's an old ploy from the weak playa's handbook (uh... Terrell Owens, exhibit A). Run away, girl.
2006-10-06 18:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do what's best for you. If he cant deal with it,so be it, He has to deal with the consequences of his actions. Do not feel guilty for his response to your telling him to leave you alone. He is only going to hurt himself,don't let him hurt you.
2006-10-06 18:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dicuss to he, ask he think about what he does. if he really want suicide, you can tell he go away, i think he did not got the bravely, like this foolish men, u won;t give another chance to he come back hurt you again. stang your ground srongly.
2006-10-07 03:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by ying 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him, move on, leaving him and staying away from him are smart moves on your part...call the police if you need help, tell them also about his suicide threat
Good Luck!
2006-10-06 18:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days, why do people even bother with marriage?
2006-10-06 18:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's stupid enough to guilt you with suicide, give him a gun. people like that will never change.
2006-10-06 18:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by xxxshannon1971xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋