I asked my wife to have anal sex but she is refusing for over a year. She was a virgin when I married her. She says that I can do whatever in the front but not the back. She's a muslim and wears a headscarf
Am I being unreasonable?
2006-10-06 12:29:25 · 13 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We're both Muslims
2006-10-06 12:30:53 · update #1
if you can use a cucumber up yours and enjoy it.....then maybe she will give in to your desire........
its her body in the end and if shes not comfortable with that type of sex then you should respect that......
in my book the anus is a one way street things can go out but not in............
2006-10-06 12:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, you arnt being unreasonable. Alot of couples have anal sex. Its just something shes afraid of or not interested in. Maybe someday she will, but not right now, I guess.
Im not sure what youd do, to get her to change her mind.
2006-10-06 12:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by ~~ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am American and am a woman and I'd present you the answer this way, would you want your wife to place something like this in your anal area? I don't think that you would. I do not want anything going in my butt and I completely understand your wife's point. Our Father that created us and put us on this earth put us here to get along in harmony and not discord, so if you want to have a pleasant and harmonious experience with your wife, do as she asks of you and be glad that she gives you what she does, because some women would refuse if their mate/partner kept on after them about this issue. Respect her and love her for who she is not what she is.
2006-10-06 12:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you know the answer- it's found in the Quoran. Some actions are beneath human dignity and anal sex is strongly Makrooh.
2006-10-06 12:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The greatest thing a man can do for his wife is respect her, if she is not comfortable with it then it aint gonna happen pal. If you love her then you will respect her wishes regardless of your religious beliefs.
2006-10-06 13:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt want to do it she doesnt want to do it. How would you like it if she wanted to have anal with you? Your thing is not ment to go in that part of someone's body and if you want that then maybe you want a man. she has a mouf and a vagina use one of those or hit it from the back you do not need to go up the butt.
2006-10-06 12:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by dimergurl247 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, she's already said no...
Not only are you unreasonable, but disrespectful to your wife as well.
Grow up!
2006-10-06 12:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well stop and think about this for just a minute , ok? you bend over let her do you up the rear...you game for having something up your a-ss too? some men are , so fair play is fair play.
2006-10-06 12:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you are being unreasonable and gay at the same time. get a goat.
2006-10-06 13:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must remember that it is her body. If she feels uncomfortable then respect her decision.
2006-10-06 12:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋