I can't get over my soon to be ex-husband. I think maybe I entered the relationship in a rebound type of situation because my husband is really selfish at times, and immature, and hard to get along with at times, but our passion is like hot fire and he TOTALLY satisfies me sexually. My boyfriend is GREAT too, but not really in comparison to my soon to be ex.......but my boyfriend is a close number 2.
My boyfriend is trying so hard....and he's sweet, loving, affectionate, and all of that but I can't get my ex out of my mind. It doesn't help that lateley my boyfriend has been SUPER insecure and asking "comparison" questions about him and my ex. Ofcourse I lie because I don't want him to feel bad......but he is turning me off with the insecurity and when he brings my ex up he only REMINDS me of how amazing our passion was ALL the time, instead of how it is with the boyfriend....just SOME of the time. The relationship with the ex was dysfunctional, but I loved him. How can I forget him?
2006-10-06 12:28:54 · 8 answers · asked by lilac b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know how to answer "how" you can forget him... It seems as if maybe you did enter into a new relationship too quickly.. There is still love there, regarding you and the ex.. I think that the best thing to do would be to be fair to your boyfriend.. He seems amazing.. so I would be fair and tell him you need time to do what you need to do.. whether get over the dreaded ex or consider the possibility of the getting back with him.. Because if you continue this, your boyfriend will begin to feel worse than he does now.. Just put yourself in a situation where you love someone but never measure up.. It's an awful feeling that no one should go through.. Good luck.
2006-10-06 12:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by KIm Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason that he is about to be your ex.... you might want to wait on having a next. if you boyfriend is annoying get a man friend instead. Start fresh....
2006-10-06 12:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by dee-dee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats a tough one!
2006-10-06 12:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ali R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick which one u like da best and one u like da best stay wit him and da the one u dont like da worst dump him good luck
2006-10-06 12:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just rember all the bad thing it work for me
2006-10-06 12:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't everything. I'd rather be happy than have the best sex ever.
2006-10-06 12:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do black girls always have to say something about d!ck size? who gives a crap if he is "well endowed"!?! "well educated" is FAR more important.
2006-10-06 13:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
huh
2006-10-06 12:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Applebomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋