She keeps her finanaces a secret. She doesn't say where she is going. She doesn't say when she will be home. She talks in a foreign language on the phone for hours. There are many other examples.
2006-10-06 11:28:07 · 31 answers · asked by J T 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that she can't be trusted!
2006-10-06 11:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 22:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by mchellon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is spy or maybe you shouldnt have bought her from that mail order thing. I'd start being really secretive to i'd buy a briefcase and keep it in a safe in the closet and not tell her whats in it and she'd get all curious then be up and about at all hours of the night. give her some of her own mwedicine i mean she could be cheating on ya man.
2006-10-06 11:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are married then your fiances should be together and not a secret your money should be put together. Just don't pop up and ask if she is cheating (because she prob is) because I can tell you the first thing that she will say is if you accuse the your the one doing it. I think that if she loves you then she needs to be up front and honest with you and apparently she isn't. I think that you need to just tell her what is bothering you and see what kind of excuses she comes up with, and then take it from there. She prob is cheating with someone and just has her way of hiding it.
2006-10-06 11:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are touchy about finances. I wouldn't like it if I was married and the person wouldn't tell me where they were going. As for the foreign language, this does tend to happen when someone is from another culture. The important thing is how does she treat you and has she shown you enough love to make you feel secure? Are you being psycho jealous or are you sad and lonely?
2006-10-06 11:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well with those kind of secrets , I think I would be snooping! She is up to something....and ya better look fast because you may be out in the cold as october is going into november...take care , good luck honey
2006-10-06 12:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married? Why didn't you know these things before you got married?
It is a little weird, to have a healthy relationship you need to trust her & it doesn't sound like you do. Be staight up with her ask her what/why she is hiding, tell her what you have noticed. Don't hide things from her maybe she'll get the hint.
Is she a government agent or something? It reminds me of a movie!
2006-10-06 11:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by Erolynne T 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Doesn't sound like she really wants to be married to you - at least, she doesn't feel close to you. Usually husband and wife end up sharing their daily goings-on, you kinda can't help it if you're best friends (which is how it should be, ideally).
2006-10-06 11:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need marriage counseling. She isn't sharing her life with you and that is what marriage is all about. It sounds like too big of a problem for just you to solve. You need help.
2006-10-06 12:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down and explain the situation to her. I think she still thinks she's single. Keeping secrets is not a good thing in any relationship. I feel sorry for you. Hope for the best.
2006-10-06 11:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by Gucci S 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like a poor excuse for a wife...judging only from what you wrote.
2006-10-06 12:08:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋