2006-10-06 10:41:56 · 21 answers · asked by reeltimesniffer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why? Sounds like you're having issues in your marriage. If u are not satisfied with the way things are, why don't u try working on your marriage? Are u going to keep running away like a coward everytime some problem pops up?
2006-10-06 10:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy with your current marital status, then you need to sit down with your wife and talk about these issues. Marriages don't work without open and honest communication. You should seek out counselling as a couple. Cheating doesn't fix your problem and will only hurt both of you in the end. You should stop cheating and work on your marriage and if it can't be fixed then you should separate and get a divorce.
2006-10-06 18:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bettie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES!!
Reason being is:
If your unhappy then the first thing you do is
C-O-M-M-U-N-I-C-A-T-E with your wife. In a very sensitive/respectful way let her know what it is she's not doing ( Here's a tip-she may be neglecting a particular need of yours due to something your not doing........ever think about that?). It may take having this conversation with her a few times. Alot of women go into a bit of denial when there husband is man enough to come to her about what's she's not doing.....but you seem to be like every other jack ask out there, instead of making it work with a good woman you'd rather f*uck around and ruin your marriage.
2006-10-06 17:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you think IDIOT? Do you really need an answer for this or are you just like most others, in that if you get enough to say you are okay, you wont feel bad for being a dirt ball?
CLUE for you. If a thousand people tell you that you are not wrong, you still are. For those thousand have no moral compass either.
2006-10-06 18:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You no your wrong , picture this if you can.Your wife walks in and tells you she has been unhappy in this marriage and has been seeing other men on the side.She tells you that you don't do it for her anymore that's why the other men.What would you do how would you feel ? I hope someone she knows reads this and tells her what you have been doing behind her back. she deserves someone better then you. Be honest with yourself do you think she deserves what you have been doing to her?
2006-10-06 18:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by teeny r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but that doesn't change the fact that you're unhappy and you probably shouldn't stay in a marriage that you don't want to be in. The fact is, it's not fair to her or you.
Here's the thing, if you aren't happy, do something about it or you're going to stay unhappy.
2006-10-06 18:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Terra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you are seeking other partners, you are cheating and no man or woman deserves that, so jump out of the fire and make sure you're relationship works or get out of the relationship before everyone gets hurt!
2006-10-06 17:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Dee Dee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is called adultery. When we become married we are supposed to become one flesh, Did you even listen to the vows or were you asleep when they said " forsaking all others"? You sir are not only disrespecting your wife but yourself and the women you are pursuing. ( And trust me , I am speaking from experience)
2006-10-06 17:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no its perfecly normal to want to explore when being married but u need to look at the reasons why u are not happy in ur marrage nad maybe try a trail seperation to see if maybe u will miss ur wife maybe that will bring u guys closer together or it wont but either way let ur wife know how u feel so maybe she can try and fix whatever it is that needs to be fixed
2006-10-06 17:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by angelbaby 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This does not make you a bad person, but consider your partner, they also took they vows.
Is there something in the relationship you Can fix...don't break it even more try to fix it then if it doesn't work talk to your partner about separation!
2006-10-06 17:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by DragonLady 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋