2006-10-06 11:28:03 · 28 answers · asked by Sexy Lady 27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start communicating with your husband and not thinking about the other person I bet if your husband made you feel special you wouldnt be wandering away from him so talk to your husband and start rekindling your marriage
2006-10-06 11:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you beleive in this typical buzz word crap huh? Okay, how about some reality for a change? Emotions and feelings are under your control. If you want to be in love with your husband, you can be. But you have to want to be to start with.
This crap about I am not in love anymore is junk. The IN LOVE is in the first stages for the most part. You body could not take that all the time, as it is when you first get together. Look, marriage is about learning to love the person for who and what they are. For how they do things, for how they act with you, for how they try to help you. It isnt about the butterflies all the time.
Dont buy into the liberal, no morals gang junk. Cause that is all it is. You made a commitment. You didnt have to do so, you decided to do so. He deserves your fidelity and your love. Do your job and what you said you would do.
2006-10-06 18:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to just stick it out with your husband and then if you really tried and you still feel the same way then you just need to follow your heart and leave your husband and be happy I mean you only live life once you might as well live it to the fullest and be happy with it and go for the man you love
2006-10-06 18:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a faithful wife and forget about the other man would be what I would do ...but since I truly love my husband I'd never have feelings for another man. If you don't love your husband do HIM a favor and leave. Everybody deserves love and honesty.
2006-10-06 20:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids? Honor the commitment
No Kids... leave. That's not fair to hubby. He should be with someone who loves him.
Remember, the grass always appears greener on the other side of the fence, until you are close enough to smell the s*%#
2006-10-06 19:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying, " you can love the one your with, but, not be in love". I think you should come clean with your husband. Its not fair to him, the guy your in love with or yourself. Check your emotions before if you decide to do so. You need to really discern love or infatuation. If indeed it is love, you owe it to your self to let him know that you have climbed out of love with him..
Just be true to yourself.
2006-10-06 18:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by skawp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Faithfulness. I can't think of anyone who wants to be cheated on. Get divorced and let your soon to be ex find someone who shares the same goals in life.
2006-10-06 20:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by fred k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a commitment, took a vow, and said an oath to be true and honorable to your husband. Don't let an emotional entanglement interefere with your pledge. Remain true to your husband- or when you said I will love you and be with you forever, did you not mean it?
2006-10-06 18:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think married is what??? just play play only??? why before married, you don't think carefully beside you the man, you really love he and want stay with he??? you just can blame your new lover appear too late. i advice you as soon as make a choice. cause you choose who, another also hurt badly, especially your husband. if you don't love your husband, please tell he the truth, don't let he hurt badly.
2006-10-07 02:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by ying 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would advice that you stop seeing that other person cut all communication and go see a marriage councelor because you made a promise and a commitment. not only to your husband but to god.
a marriage is a wonderful and hard thing. counceling is my advice even if its just for you
2006-10-06 19:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by hopeincubus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋