Marriage & Divorce - 26 September 2006

has anyone ever been in a marriage where you were emotionally abused and strayed but felt guilty about it later? Needless to say it felt like a tit and tat at the time, (he/she did it why shouldn't I) but now you feel really bad?

2006-09-26 03:06:54 · 11 answers · asked by Skypride 2

There is always so much talk about the Men who cheat...yes they are scum...but what do you think about the women they cheat with? 80% know they are married going into the relationship, but do so anyway. 10% find out within a few months but still continue, and 10% are one night stands that never find out. In your humble opinion, tell me how you would describe these adulterous women.

2006-09-26 03:06:20 · 47 answers · asked by mslorikoch 5

I am really close with one of my best friends. We talk about any and everything. We have so much in common. He he has been in a relationship since I met him, so I never thought of being with him. He's really sweet, but she doesn't seem to appreciate him. She always accuses him of cheating, even though he never has. She has messed around on him though. He spoils her and she doesn't diserve it. They just broke up. I'm moving away for a little while. I have been thinking about the possibility of me and him together. Since I started thinking about it, I can't stop. I think about the things she did wrong to him. I think about how wonderful he was to her. I think about what it would be like falling asleep in his arms. Or what it would be like to hold his hand. I even think about what it would be like to really kiss him for the first time. He is all I think about now. He could make me forget about everything that hurts me. Do I tell him how I feel even though I'm leaving?

2006-09-26 03:00:27 · 25 answers · asked by Alexia S 2

Chart or graphs

2006-09-26 02:59:28 · 3 answers · asked by brittany H 1

My husband is 25 and still horribly obsessed with anime.. especially Dragonball and the new Naruto... anyone know a good way to curb the obsession with buying every item related to this?? my house is getting full of this stuff and he's now added two new shows to his favorites!

2006-09-26 02:57:24 · 6 answers · asked by Gidgy 2

He has been good when he wants to be and bad when he wants to be.I am one person who likes to remember good things and forget and forgive wrong things.I miss him a lot though he has done enough to hurt me .He has taken my child from me and i miss him a lot.Miss the life when just three of us together.Lot of people got between us and both of us realize that.But he doesnt want accept that it his parents role also in that.He has been divorced before also.I started my life with him and have learnt many things thru him.He was also older to me by 09 yrs.I end up hearing his music recorded for me.What do i do?I miss the life together.My well wishers tell me to move on life.Its not that easy.I am living with a hope that things will be alright one day.Is it depression. Is it going to take time for me to become normal.Is it possible to live without my son.i CANT THINK OF LIVING MY LIFE WITHE ANYBODY.Do i still belong to older thoughts.I belong to India and i would want replies in respect to Indi

2006-09-26 02:55:48 · 16 answers · asked by jennifer r 1

Iam 24 years old and have been married 2 years recently i found out my husband was having sex with his boss. I was devestated because my husband and i had spent the last year trying for a baby and the first year of marriage really did not use protection. He had kept saying i was the problem and we had a lot of fights because he thought it was because off the miscarriage i had when i was18 with my first bf. He met me right after and helped me through it. We seperated for 2 months and i started the paper work and so did he for a divorce. While at the bowling ally i actually ran into my ex. bf my first love and the only other guy i dated befor my husband we had seen each other around before and talked. We went out and had some drinks talked about life he turned out to be married 6 months and they had major problems ext. I had sex with him one time thing and now i just found out i am 1 month 1/2 with his child. Problem i cant bring myself to tell my husband or ex.bf.

2006-09-26 02:49:43 · 29 answers · asked by Jessica C 1

my son is coming for a visit and i need a place for him to stay while i am at work. he is 5 yrs old and has started year round kindergarten in missouri. he is on his break and i have arranged to see him for 3 weeks. i live in florida and i can not seem to find a temporary place for him to play and fill his day with activities while i am at work.

i tried the YMCA and a few other day care facilities without much luck. anyone have any experience with this? or do divorced/seperated dad's typically not see their children? it makes it hard when there isnt readily a place for school age children to go for what seems like common situations for a lot of people.

thank you for any help

2006-09-26 02:49:09 · 6 answers · asked by itshowmuch 2

i found out he was cheating and blackmailed him so he can do what i say like buy me lots of videogames and R-rated movies but now i am feeling kinda guilty for what i am doing should i stop or tell my mom

PS. i am 13

2006-09-26 02:48:54 · 15 answers · asked by The Wise Spoon 1

sophia was served...............that is all Im affraid to ask him because what Im thinking is SSSSSSEEEEEXXXXX, can you tell what he minded???

2006-09-26 02:46:33 · 20 answers · asked by haki 5

the guy am dating seems so distant, he dogdes my family functions with no sound excuse and he never invites me to his. should i chuck him? am confused

2006-09-26 02:43:59 · 15 answers · asked by natuj 1

All of us "kids" are taking care of him, he has no insurence so we are the main caretakers with a hospice nurse who comes once a week. I want to do something special for my husband, he is very close to his dad and this is very hard for him. Does anyone out there have and Ideas on a great night to help my husband be able to get his mind off this difficult time?

2006-09-26 02:38:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 28 yrs. sex has been exactly the same all these years, how do I approch my husband with trying new things? he is very hard to talk to about some things. how do I get him to explore? I NEED HELP! or I'm affraid I might end up cheating on him...

2006-09-26 02:38:13 · 19 answers · asked by ondrea b 1

would you be upset i your husband or bf or spouse or wife had a half naked man/ woman picture on the wallpaper of their cell phone?

2006-09-26 02:36:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-26 02:34:01 · 16 answers · asked by lucy p 2

I love him so much but whenever he talks about his ex-wife or his kid, it hurts me.
He married her after having cheated on me, their kid is the reason why he married her.
He's serious about me but why does it break my heart when he mentions them?

2006-09-26 02:26:54 · 21 answers · asked by ♥Lasha♥ 3

Unfortunately, I "finish" super fast...

What is the best way to handle these quick-release situations? Should I say nothing and move on to pleasing my partner a different way? Make a joke? Say sorry?

Just wondering how to make the best of an embarrassing and awkward situation!

Help and Thanks!

2006-09-26 02:26:36 · 21 answers · asked by bob_xc452 1

2006-09-26 02:19:46 · 5 answers · asked by royalbitch55 1

my husband and i have been married for 9 yrs now.. and it seems like i'm the only one doing everything household wise.. and when it come to time for bed he's like why dont you do this or do this and by the time for bed i'm tired.. why should i have to start it i just did laundry all day cleaned the whole house folded and put everything away polished furniture and vaccumed and took care of 2 kids.. he says that i dont love him anymore or im cheating on him because i dont start anything .. but geeze im tired.. and i want some love and affection to show me he appreciates what i do all day..dont get me wrong he is a good man and i love him to death and i know he works a 10 hour day but so dont i in the house.. how can we meet in the middle. sometimes it leads to arguments because he says im cheating or just not interested in him anymore.. and none of that has ever crossed my mind. he is my soul mate

2006-09-26 02:13:49 · 18 answers · asked by cottoncandie1969 2

2006-09-26 02:07:21 · 27 answers · asked by willisonfam 1

My husband's ex-girlfriend calls him from time to time and tells him that she thinks about him all the time and wants to know if that matters to him? She asks him if he will take her back? and I might add that this is the same girl that cheated on him with my ex-boyfriend YES!!! My ex and I broke up after 4 years, because she cheated on my husband with him and as fate would have it my husband and I ended up together married now for over a year and have a 1 year old little boy together! I told me ex- to just stay away and he has, he has moved on and it was hard for him but he has.but, my husband's ex will not move on she keeps popping up! My husband has told her over and over that he wants nothing to do with her, and that he is happily married and loves his wife and child What should I do? He has already had to get his cell number changed! now she is calling him at work SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME???? I love my husband and trust him, but I dont want her in our family picture!!!!

2006-09-26 02:05:19 · 29 answers · asked by YOUKNOWYOUWANNAKNOW 1

I am agnostic but my parents and my aunt are very devoted Catholics.

My sister wants to marry a guy in the service. Something about his military duties stated that they had to have a civil wedding in order to live on his base together.

My sister is also agnostic and would only be doing a Catholic wedding to please my parents, which is what I did.

My parents are not respecting my sister's decision to have a civil wedding, and they were making huge problems for my sister by meddling.

Now my sister has decided to elope and not tell my parents. I have advised my parents that they need to respect her decision or they would end up causing hurt feelings on both sides.

I know my sister does not want me to tell my parents about her plans for a civil wedding, and I WILL respect her request. This is going to devastate my parents.....

How do I deal with the fallout? Anyone go through a similar experience? It's not going to be pretty.

2006-09-26 02:00:57 · 7 answers · asked by CJP 3

I am 29 weeks pregnant and I actually still WANT sex with my husband...but sometimes he doesn't! Others times...thats all he wants! I want to all the time but he just says not right now.
Example: Last night we had sex in the shower...Well I didn't finish so I wanted more. When we climbed into bed I tryed and he said not right now.
I know I'm probably not the HOTTEST right now being so pregnant (I only have a big belly...I'm still tiny everwhere eles)...but I wanted to c-u-m too! It's almost like we have sex untill he finishes then he's done... What can I do to make him want to make me finish? he says I am still extremely sexy... so what's the problem???

*And for all the immature people...
NO HE IS NOT CHEATING!

2006-09-26 01:49:54 · 25 answers · asked by NaVy WiFeY 2

2006-09-26 01:49:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do women mess w/ married men? What do they get out of it besides (blank). (You can fill that one it).

2006-09-26 01:47:59 · 41 answers · asked by Love 2

At first i wanted to know and now I'm sorry she told me. Now what do I do?!

2006-09-26 01:32:57 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-26 01:32:09 · 26 answers · asked by juzz 1

My ex and I haven't been together for about 17 months now, we had problems for over two years before I finally left. We were married for 14 years. I am living with the love of my life right now and even though we are having some financial difficulties we are very much in love and happy with each other. My ex is still having feelings for me, he still says he wants me back, he tells me to listen to the new song "what hurts the most" by Rascal Flatts. He gets angry and lashes out from time to time due to his hurting over me and the loss he is suffering. I told him he should seek counseling but he thinks he's doing "just fine." He has said and done alot of really horrible things to me over the years...he made his bed and now he needs to lay in it! However, I do feel bad about his hurting, he needs to let go of his feelings for me, it will never happen!! If I broke up with my man now, I still wouldn't go back. Should I just ignore my ex's sadness/anger and comments?

2006-09-26 01:31:53 · 26 answers · asked by Shae 3

I'm not planning to get a divorce. I'm just testing my theory.

2006-09-26 01:29:43 · 8 answers · asked by OOO! I know! I know! 5

an attractive, sexy, but high maintenance wife OR
a plain looking wife who will take care of you?
Both are very loving.

2006-09-26 01:15:18 · 12 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3