has anyone ever been in a marriage where you were emotionally abused and strayed but felt guilty about it later? Needless to say it felt like a tit and tat at the time, (he/she did it why shouldn't I) but now you feel really bad?
2006-09-26 03:06:54 · 11 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
KNOW EXCUSE FOR CHEATING. IF YOUR UNHAPPY GET OUT.
2006-09-26 03:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one thing you must always be and that is true to yourself. While your husband may have strayed and it hurt you very bad for you to then do the same to kind of get back at him more than likely only hurt you.
If you feel guilty it is telling you that you have gone against your belief of what is right and what is wrong. You have no responsibility as to how he is but you do have for yourself.
Stand up for you and either get a divorce or learn to live with what you have but never ever do something you know is wrong for you just to get back. You know as a woman you have so much more to loose. If you were to continue this you could get pregnant. And you think you feel guilty now. Mmmmm. Not at all.
2006-09-26 03:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The affairs whether or not who started or end with etc. Is only the tip of the iceberg dealing with the deeper problems with the relationship. What helped me was to do a time-line of the relationship from my own perspective. If the relationship is dead for a long time and you share nothing with the other person then it is time to move on. If you see what the problems are and the other person truly wants to work on the relationship then get some proffessional help. Either way I wish you luck
2006-09-26 06:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married 2 times now, and neither with my x husband or my current husband have i ever cheated on them..
Although i did cheat on a bf once when i was younger and although he knew where i was going and who i was with and more then likely id cheat... he hoped for the best..as he knew were were both heading towards what seemed like the end of our relationship at the time.. and unfortunately i made a horrible decision and it wasnt worth the 10 minutes of sex that had taken place..(went to see an x bf..for the weekend unfortunately i was still wrapped up in dwelling in the past of what if's and wondering if i had made the right choices in my life of who i was with.. ) But during i felt horrible about myself and when it was over i realized, that even though things werent perfect between my bf and i.. that i was right where i was suppose to be in my life with him and instead of staying the whole weekend i left immediately and came back home to him .... and my bf asked and i told him the truth, and although we tried to work it out, i couldnt handle the after math of insecurities that came with it, through my own immaturity at the time and although he forgave me, i couldnt forgive myself..
2006-09-26 03:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't sense undesirable.. you're not to any extent further a foul man or woman in any respect.. And if something, possibly somebody else picked him up.. What you could do is telephone the interior sight animal administration to enable them understand the position you said the dogs, and they're going to randomly flow out and search for that section. in case you locate the dogs, you could both call the interior sight animal administration to enable them understand you've a stray dogs it somewhat is somewhat lower than weight and has no collar. only make certain you stay there till they get there in case they have any questions. or you could take the dogs to the interior sight animal guard or animal well being center.. they're going to understand what to do with him..
2016-11-24 20:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not....my wife had an affair long before I started having one....it makes no difference that both of us were sleeping with men, who I f.u.c.k. is my choice, she started the ball rolling and now I'm running with it.....
The only regret or guilt I feel is that I waited over 20 years to act on my bisexuality.....
2006-09-26 03:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by bimale694u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just come clean, if you are not happy about the marriage get out before someone really gets hurt
2006-09-26 04:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by top1704 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope can't say that I felt guilty. The best thing I did.
2006-09-26 03:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I know what you mean , I have been there before myself and it goes to show you that two wrongs dont make it right ,
2006-09-26 03:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what you get for playing the game
2006-09-26 03:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by hunter6543 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋