Marriage & Divorce - 26 September 2006

my bf and i been togthr since 5yrs.things worsen when i started not to trust out of possesiveness.I hurt him much and since a month he cut off ties with me coz i was incessantly pressurizing him. i then paused for 8days and talked to him he said he's fed up with my attitudes n doesnt seem i'll change!i asked him to text me he say if god's wish he'll do it but the more i'll force him the more distant he'll be.he told me i have to make him love me again,how do i do that?He said he has no one in his life but it seems to me to forget the pressure from me he's texting other girls (he didnt told im only suspecting) wat do i do now?want him back,how do i act?i text or wait for him,do i have any chance?im totally confused??

2006-09-26 19:56:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is 39 (I'm 34) and I don't know whether to consider him seriously or not...I wonder about my future with him....how important is intelligence and economic situation when thinking about getting married????

2006-09-26 19:53:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHAT I DO I DON'T KNOW

2006-09-26 19:47:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if your husband/wife completely stop having sex with you because you refuse to give oral pleasures. What do you do. But when he/she want to have intercourse they take it while you are sleeping. Then when you are ready they don't want it no more. What actions should be taken?

2006-09-26 19:43:27 · 19 answers · asked by sweetlee725 2

i decided to stay with him, but i feel so indifferent to him. i find myself starting to not think about what happened, then, like a slap in the face, i remember and feel angry....confused....hurt and i feel like i need to validate myself to the opposite sex. not have sex, but i need to know i'm attractive i guess. i'm so hurt by what he did. i don't trust him. we have three kids.

2006-09-26 19:43:15 · 9 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2

My husband of 5 yrs cheated on me while I was pregnant with our child. I forgave him because I wanted us to be a family. He has been emotionally and even physically abusive at times. I just found out that he didn't end the affair when he said he did - although all this happened 3 yrs ago, I feel hurt all over again. The trust and respect is gone. I'm torn and don't know what to do. Being a single parent sounds scary to me. My son loves my husband dearly and I want him to be happy....I'm afraid that if I stay I will never love him the same again.

2006-09-26 19:36:56 · 26 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3

2006-09-26 19:31:43 · 11 answers · asked by JCROSS_3 2

2006-09-26 19:25:21 · 20 answers · asked by JCROSS_3 2

2006-09-26 19:21:40 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

My spouse and I are considering divorce. I have a 5 year old child who lives with us, but she is not my spouses. She goes to school in the area and the closest place I could go would be an hour and half away to my parents. If we are not divorced yet or we are not legally separated do I have to leave home? If I do how long do I have to find another place to live?

2006-09-26 19:08:36 · 15 answers · asked by ervin 2

I've been dumped. I've dumped people as well. But all of them were handled very, very poorly. What are your tips for being civil, kind and thoughtful in how you do this? Is there a particular time, setting or choice of words that tell the truth but do so without being so hurtful? Your help is greatly appreciated.

2006-09-26 19:07:02 · 3 answers · asked by Luis LU 1

2006-09-26 18:55:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a single girle but want the answer to manage my project of relation of the she he and third person so pls send answer hurry

2006-09-26 18:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-26 18:46:45 · 13 answers · asked by R W 2

I made some dumb mistakes and she moved out I'm trying with everything I am to win her heart back She says she needs some time to figure things out and she's confused I appreciate all help here as I'm lost without her not only was she my wife she was and is my best friend and lover I miss her terribly any help???

2006-09-26 18:45:33 · 12 answers · asked by hood_king_1 1

do I pick up the peices and get my self esteem back?

2006-09-26 18:42:42 · 22 answers · asked by proud mommy and wife 4

I just want to know is it disrespectfull. Do you do it or know anyone who does it?

2006-09-26 18:28:38 · 34 answers · asked by sweetlee725 2

2006-09-26 18:21:28 · 5 answers · asked by MD 1

expected to stay and watch the kids. I want time to do anything for me, maybe just take a bubble bath!!!

He is divorcing me now. Am I wrong to ask for my own space?

2006-09-26 18:17:45 · 9 answers · asked by proud mommy and wife 4

does anyone know,how you can know for sure,that you've found your one true love?I've heard people say before,''you just know.''what does that mean,exactly?is it a feeling you get,is it some kind of cosmic sign you receive from God?or is it just a choice you make,a choice you want to make,to be with one certain person,for the rest of your life?does a good,warm feeling in your heart tell you,that he/she is the one?but how do you know,if your heart isn't just misleading you,making you think that you've found the one?when really,you're just living in a fantasy world?i don't think that dreams are rooted in reality half the time,anyway.i think dreams are mostly,the subconscious trying to express itself.because,after all,that's why they're called dreams,right?you're sleeping at the time,you're not awake,you're off in some other place,that your subconscious wants to take you.
for those who have found their soulmate,how DID you know,that he/she was the one?what was different,UNIQUE,about them?

2006-09-26 18:04:23 · 17 answers · asked by Miss yavatar girl 4

2006-09-26 18:02:07 · 15 answers · asked by mandy c 4

you found out they had a special friend that they talked to regularly on the phone. there has never been intercourse, however they do have phone sex (a lot) and talk every chance they can.

2006-09-26 17:56:08 · 37 answers · asked by Goldenmutt 2

well he cares for me so much and he's always there for me. but im not sure if i can trust him yet? but i admit lately he's been on my mind alot and im feelin alotta strange feelings for him! Yes i care for him too! and u know wats strange he said "i love u" already! and i said it back! was it right for me to say that? wen i said it it felt right and i ment it! but i juss dont wanna ge hurt in anyway! help me plzzz

2006-09-26 17:53:20 · 7 answers · asked by Florentina 1

2006-09-26 17:44:23 · 31 answers · asked by a flower 2

2006-09-26 17:42:49 · 26 answers · asked by a flower 2

2006-09-26 17:37:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-26 17:36:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-26 17:35:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-26 17:34:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend insist that its the right hand and that is the first I have heard of ,,,,eleven years of marriage and my ring on the left where my honey put it,,,Where your ring?

2006-09-26 17:34:22 · 21 answers · asked by b4utell 3